confusion, best friends suck |
 Jan 16 2005, 05:19 PM
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 i noticed your gangster, im pretty gangster myself  Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,180  |
ok so i like my best friend.. which screws things enough. but then theres this whole other aspect - she likes bad boys, and im pretty much a laid back person who doesnt try to get into trouble like the assholes that shes around. well last night she and her friend were stupid and decided to see if this one guy - who tried to make out with her on new years and she got him to back off..kinda - could od something and get them liquior... well they didnt get them liquior but the guy brought a friend and her friend was pretty taken up with his friend by my friend was getting hit on and kinda felt up by the a-hole. so she gets him to back off but they end up half making out right when he leaves. ugh and i bitched at her for 30 minutes but i dunno. i really dont wanna like her because its weird and i think that if i ever told her, things would get so screwed up - plus its obvious she doesnt like me. so any suggestions about how to get over her?
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Jan 16 2005, 05:28 PM
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Try hanging around other people. You'll make new friends and maybe even start to like someone else!
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Jan 16 2005, 07:49 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
If you like her then just tell her..maybe after that....both you and her can work through this...and that's pretty much it..she's your best friend...she'll stick by you..
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Jan 16 2005, 09:06 PM
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Don't opposites attract?
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Jan 16 2005, 09:22 PM
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 free hugs Group: Member Posts: 188 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,202 |
beat yourself....
 
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Jan 16 2005, 09:28 PM
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make new friends i guess or talk it over with her
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Jan 16 2005, 09:33 PM
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Stalking Createblog... Group: Member Posts: 155 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,300 |
QUOTE i really dont wanna like her because its weird and i think that if i ever told her, things would get so screwed up - plus its obvious she doesnt like me. so any suggestions about how to get over her? She's definitely not your best friend. What kind of topic title is that? Don't give best friends a bad name. |
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Jan 16 2005, 10:05 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Hang out with your friends & make friends.
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Jan 16 2005, 10:34 PM
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make one of those cheesy pros and cons lists LoL sounds like your cons list will be seriously longer than the pros.
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Jan 17 2005, 01:30 AM
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 nOW wHY tHE hELL aRE tHEY bLINKIN'!?! Group: Member Posts: 116 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,739 |
 Cheer up! Heres my input- If you think shes gonna flip out when you tell her you like her then she aint your best friend... I still think she should know how you feel.. then maybe she wouldnt be so hard on you. If I was yuor best friend and you liked me and were keeping from me then i would be pretty pissed.. i mean your sposed to be best friends.. i kno i tell my best friend like EVERYTHING... why would it be so hard to tell her.. let it out man.. if things get rough from there tell her to EFF the guy she met on new years or w/e and tell her shes an itch with a B in front of it... because any girl is lucky if shes got a guy liking her...
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Jan 17 2005, 04:59 AM
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i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
QUOTE(XKali_chik_4_lifeX @ Jan 16 2005, 5:28 PM) Try hanging around other people. You'll make new friends and maybe even start to like someone else!  i so agree with what she says because being around new people will make you like new people! =o) |
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Jan 17 2005, 06:22 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
she's kinda mean.. but hey, i cant say that when i hang around badboys too! lol. umm.. yeah. girls who like badboys doesnt nessesarily LIKE badboys.. i mean, that doesnt prevent them from falling in love with other regular boys. and um.. she duznt really seem like a bestfriend to me. actually um.. she sounds like a player.
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Jan 17 2005, 07:58 AM
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hang around new friends, or try talking things out with her.
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Jan 18 2005, 12:25 AM
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i noticed your gangster, im pretty gangster myself Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,180 |
ok i dont mean that shes mean, you misunderstood espionage. but yea.. im so confused because its not that i think shed flip out, i think it would make things awkward because like.. how would you feel if someone that you found entirely friendly and non-bf/gf told you they liked you. thats my issue
and to the rest of yall, thanks for that adivce - i started chillin with the other friends and it did help, but like she called and it was like ahhhhh its just not gonna work and she says find me in the hall before school and its like WTF. ahh so im just gonna tell her and then see what she says. gracias for the advice yall, thats why i go to createBlog :0] |
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Jan 18 2005, 12:36 AM
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QUOTE(AzNxJenny91 @ Jan 16 2005, 9:06 PM) Don't opposites attract? Not in this case, I presume. |
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Jan 18 2005, 12:37 AM
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i noticed your gangster, im pretty gangster myself Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,180 |
kinda, im not too sure though. we both liked each other at one point but had the same opinion for salvaging the friendship
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