saying "i love you", how early is to early? |
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 Feb 18 2005, 01:42 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan"  Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368  |
Its hard to say... I am having a difficult time deciding also... When its alright to do it... Ive been in love before but, love just came naturally so maybe thats what you have to do... Just wait till you feel it...
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Feb 18 2005, 01:50 PM
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Hmm. Me and my ex didn't really say that til about one month, I didn't mean it til about 2 months, and I wasn't really "in love" til about 8 months.
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| *Programmer* |
Feb 18 2005, 01:52 PM
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meh...iunno...love is a strong word...takes time.....besides that....probabaly trust..
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Feb 18 2005, 02:35 PM
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 Bubble Group: Member Posts: 341 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,405 |
Me and my boyfriend said it in a month... and we mean it from the bottom of our hearts. But we were also best friends for a year and a half before we started going out.... so maybe that's why.
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Feb 18 2005, 05:06 PM
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NO it's not too early if she meant it.
YES it is too early if she didnt' mean it. i think she meant it.. how long have yall knew each other before dating? well that doesn't matter much.. maybe a lil.. but still.. she could be in love with you now. i said it to my bf when i meant it, but it was kind of too early if you dont know about it.. but hey, i did meant it 100 percent, so afterall, it wasn't too early for me to say it. |
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Feb 18 2005, 05:10 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I think it's okay... It took me about 2-3 weeks of dating my current boyfriend to realize that loved my boyfriend. Maybe it was early for me to say it, but I truly meant it. And to this day, I still mean it, with all my heart.
It's okay to say it.. as long as that person really means it. |
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Mar 11 2005, 11:48 PM
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Everyone has there own opinion maybe she feels as if she really loves you No one knows whats going on thru her mind so its not that easy to say whether or not she really does love you ...Only u can help ur self on this one and decided if she really does or not Good luck
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Mar 12 2005, 12:00 AM
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i don't think early or age has anything to do with love. if your saying she/he's to young to fall in love that's bullshit. have long have you known each other? chances are if you've been friends for some time she's had feelings for you for a long time as well. you're liking of her may have just started but don't necessarily assume it's the same in her case. if you can accept it that's fine, and if you can't say it that's fine too. but if you guys have been friends for a considerably short time, too soon.
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Mar 12 2005, 04:30 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well it kinda depends. if you've known her for a long time then i guess 3 weeks is ok. my bf and i started saying i love you early in our relationship because we were bestfriends for a while and have grown to love eachother before we started dating. maybe similar like that happened to your gf but maybe not for you.
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Mar 12 2005, 09:50 AM
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 when we speak, we breathe Group: Member Posts: 1,635 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,760 |
QUOTE(RavedandConfused @ Jan 3 2005, 6:17 PM) i'm 23. and like i said we've only been dating for about 6 weeks and 3 weeks ago she told me "i love you." When we first started dating it kinda started like "friends with benefits" to be honest. I know i like her but I haven't even committed, let alone goten to the point where i can say "i love you" to her. Those 3 words are pretty important to me and I don't just throw them around  Girls get attached to guys easier then guys. Whatever you do, do not say I love you back. It will definitely complicant things further if you lead her on into believing you feel the same way as she does. |
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Mar 12 2005, 10:08 AM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
its to early.
dont say it back unless you mean it |
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Mar 12 2005, 11:34 AM
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yes... w/ me nd my guy it took a while lyk a month or two but rite now im not sure if i love him as much as i used to
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Mar 12 2005, 01:40 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
at least one month...three weeks...maybe not to early...but it might...it kinda depends on how the other person feels...
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Apr 10 2005, 05:37 PM
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No.. Nothing is ever too early.. If you have feelings like that, then it's not too early.
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Apr 10 2005, 05:54 PM
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 moinky moo Group: Member Posts: 91 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 123,499 |
ehh. i think its early
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Apr 10 2005, 07:21 PM
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 blah Group: Member Posts: 313 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,360 |
It depends. How long have you known her and how close are you with her? Besides all that, possibly since you seem to be uncomfortable with it.
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Apr 10 2005, 07:22 PM
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 if you feel like dying; you might wanna sing Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,836 |
its never too early if you`re really feeling it.
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Apr 10 2005, 07:23 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
heh my boyfriend said it last night to me. :P
doesn't matter about the time, just make sure you mean it. |
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Apr 10 2005, 08:01 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
I think its ok when they actually mean it. it doesnt mean like a week or somethin. maybe after a few months IF they wernt ur best friend for a while before going out I guess..
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Apr 10 2005, 08:22 PM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
two weeks.
and if after three weeks, you haven't said it, you're an evil person. / sarcasm. BLEH. you say 'i love you ' when you love someone. if you don't know whether or not, then don't say it. |
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Apr 10 2005, 08:38 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Apr 10 2005, 6:22 PM) you say 'i love you ' when you love someone. Exactly! There is not really a "good/right" time to say I love you. You say it when you truly mean it, now usually that means more than a week of dating 
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Apr 10 2005, 10:25 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
you can fall in love in any time period just depend on if it really is love
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Apr 10 2005, 10:32 PM
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i dont know..i've been with my bf..for..1 month...as of today..and we've said "i luv u" or "luv ya" or "love you lots" or "i heart you"...
but not the totaly I LOVE YOU like that...so its a bit different...but i actually really want to say it to him i dont know why. i just..love him =S |
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Apr 10 2005, 10:48 PM
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gRaCiE Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 96,997 |
wen u feel it u say it. there's no such thing as to early or too late. if u feel it then u can say it. i know someone who said it in less than a month too n they felt the same about each other.
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Apr 11 2005, 11:48 AM
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 Im as fake as a widow's smile ;) Group: Member Posts: 1,045 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,851 |
I say I love you when I feel it..
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