opinions! =\, my gf loves me and another guy.. |
 Dec 28 2004, 07:17 PM
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 -:- Nothen But Dreams -:-  Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,146  |
well....yst my gf told me that she kinda loved her bestfrend, but she sed that wen she realized she loved him she thot about how much she loved me and how much we've gone through together. she sed she wont leave me but jus knowing she has feelings for him is yea....any opinions? =\
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Dec 28 2004, 07:41 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should talk to her about it, maybe she just loves her bestfriend as a friend
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| *krnxswat* |
Dec 28 2004, 07:44 PM
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Uh. Break up with her.
Or have a little break until she's sure of her feelings. But sorry man, looks like her hearts to someone else. Oh, btw, it doesn't really sound like love. |
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Dec 28 2004, 07:54 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
then maybe she doesn't love you.
she can't hold her heart on one person, and you wouldn't want to share her. so.. in time, break up with her if she can't sort out her feelings. |
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Dec 28 2004, 08:20 PM
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 damn u got owned! Group: Member Posts: 215 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,850 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 28 2004, 7:44 PM) Or have a little break until she's sure of her feelings. yeah i agree u should have a break with her so she knows whos she really does love. and btw Uchiha Sasuke-kun will own Naruto's ass 
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Dec 28 2004, 09:33 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 28 2004, 7:44 PM) Uh. Break up with her. Or have a little break until she's sure of her feelings. But sorry man, looks like her hearts to someone else. Oh, btw, it doesn't really sound like love. ditto. go on a 'break' until she sorts her feelings out. |
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Dec 28 2004, 10:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 4,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,115 |
Break up with her.
You can't love 2 people. Tell her she has to choose one. |
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Dec 28 2004, 10:31 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
if she says she loves another dude, i don't think she loves either of you. So like everyone else said, break up with her till she can sort her feelings out.
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 28 2004, 10:35 PM
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At least talk to her and see how she truly feels about the other guy in her life. Then, if she obviously loves him more, then, I'm sorry to say, but I think you should break up. There'll be other girls for you in the future.
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Dec 28 2004, 10:38 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Unless you kill yourself. Death solves almost all of life's problems.
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Dec 28 2004, 10:42 PM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
hmm. do you really think she means it when she uses the word love. damn peopel using the word love for granted. ugh sickens me.
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Dec 28 2004, 10:47 PM
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 Tree Hugger Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,015 |
She can't love two people at once. Give her time to choose, and think it over yourself.
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Dec 28 2004, 10:50 PM
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Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Maybe she's a flip-flopper.
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Dec 29 2004, 01:58 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
yeah even IF its a best friends she shouldn't be loving the best friend AND you... and if it NOT a diff kind of love thats is very strange... she'll have to talk to the best friend less... you should be the priority...
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| *wind&fire* |
Dec 29 2004, 06:45 PM
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dump her... if she felt that into ou she wouldnt have told you
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Dec 29 2004, 06:49 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 28 2004, 7:44 PM) Uh. Break up with her. Or have a little break until she's sure of her feelings. But sorry man, looks like her hearts to someone else. Oh, btw, it doesn't really sound like love.  I agree with that. If she's in love with you then she should be sure of those feelings. Take a break, let her figure it out. |
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Dec 29 2004, 11:03 PM
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Well I don't think you should dump her just yet, you should probably talk to her about it and see how much feelings she has for him and if it would affect anything. Maybe she just loves him as a best friend? I dont know.. my best friend is a guy and he has a girlfriend but he still tells me he loves me and I tell him i love him too as really good friends, but nothing more.
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Dec 29 2004, 11:41 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
You should break up with her.
This is the start of cheating (well atleast I think.) She loves her bestfriend too. But she has to choose. If she loves her bestfriend more, break up with her before she breaks your heart even more. Don't let her continue to confuse you. If she really loved you; she wouldnt have had these feelings for her bestfriend. |
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Dec 30 2004, 12:11 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
QUOTE Or have a little break until she's sure of her feelings. yeah.. maybe that. she doesnt seem too sure. if u ask me, she's nice enough to have told u and i think she thought about it alot before telling u. although, no offense, doesnt she seem like a bit of a player? |
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Dec 30 2004, 04:52 PM
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QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Dec 28 2004, 7:54 PM) then maybe she doesn't love you. she can't hold her heart on one person, and you wouldn't want to share her. so.. in time, break up with her if she can't sort out her feelings. Yeah great idea. Try to get the facts down before you say ne thing |
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| *tyedyefroggy* |
Dec 30 2004, 06:19 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 28 2004, 7:44 PM) Uh. Break up with her. Or have a little break until she's sure of her feelings. But sorry man, looks like her hearts to someone else. Oh, btw, it doesn't really sound like love. I second that....  If she tells you she loves her bestfriend and you at the same time, then she doesnt love both of you. She could. But it will be hard to have both. Take some time off to figure both sides of the story and decide whats the truth.
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Dec 30 2004, 06:41 PM
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 Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748 |
she probably loves her best friend as a friend u shudnt mind it if u do ur jus pushing her away... n tass even worse kus she does love u
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Jan 3 2005, 01:04 AM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
There's a thing called "space"..and I think it's time you two had a little space apart from each other till she can sort her confusion out.
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