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 Jan 3 2005, 11:48 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch.  Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643  |
My friend, let's see. She's deeply infatuated with this guy, and she always goes like "I LOVE HIM SO MUCH, ITS TRUE LOVE" when it's obviously not. She doesnt even know anything about him, except for the fact that hes hot. she's like, i'm fu*king depressed because i'll never have him. I think about him 24/7. He's ruining my life and i just want to suicide!!!!
And it's really pissing me off, but I want to be a good friend and help her. But I have no idea what to tell her. What am I supposed to say? "You're just stupid so let it go?" She'll just give me more of her emotional crap and tell me she can't. I just want to bang her head against a wall and yell "YOU JUST THINK HES HOT. HOW DOES THINKING SOMEONE IS HOT RUIN YOUR LIFE?!" But that's not exactly good advice. So what to say? |
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Jan 3 2005, 11:56 PM
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 I'm not mean; You're just a sissy. Group: Member Posts: 796 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,520 |
ouch thats a hard one.
tell her if she's sooo in love with him, tell her to try to make a move already. stop being so depressed and try to talk to him. and if all things go well and they hit it off, yays! and if not, well sure she'll be all bummed about it at first but im sure she'll get over it. somtimes, you just gotta learn things the hard way. |
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Jan 4 2005, 12:01 AM
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 Tree Hugger Group: Member Posts: 98 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,015 |
it's a lose-lose situation to me.
Say she does end up with him. You can bet you probably won't hear the end of the obsessiveness. Say she doesn't end up with him. You can bet you probably won't hear the end of the obsessiveness. So I dunno. If you want to be mean, you can tell her to bug off whenver she starts. |
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Jan 4 2005, 12:03 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
Oh my, i know how you're feeling. I absoultly HATE people who are like that. Well, tell her to shut the hell up & move on with the rest of her lifes.
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Jan 4 2005, 12:10 AM
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ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Well, no offense, but they have no chance whatsoever together. And she knows that, so that's why she's not making a move or anything and she's all bottled up in her little feelings ...
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