boyfriend trouble..., grr |
 Jan 1 2005, 03:11 PM
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Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together about a month now, but we've been on and off the past couple years. We never talk that much, like long talks on the phone or w/e ( but we do talk ) and it seems sometimes like he doesnt really want me anymore, but the times we do talk hes always like i lub you and all this and he really makes it count 4 the lil time we did talk. I dont really know if he still wants me or is just using me. I mean he buys me all this stuff so i can kinda see he cares but in a way i'm like so mixed up. He seems more occupied with other things besides me. I have tried talkin to him but he always says yes i love you to death and all these sweet things i dont really know if he means it, any ideas of how to figure that out or the whole situation at that
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Jan 1 2005, 03:20 PM
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Just tell him how you feel & talk to him more.
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Jan 1 2005, 03:51 PM
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Communication is key in relationships. Does anyone ever realize that except me?
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Jan 1 2005, 04:05 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
You have to talk, or else your relationship will fall apart.
Just.. call him more. Hang out more. |
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Jan 2 2005, 12:02 PM
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 Oh you'd be surprised Group: Member Posts: 2,406 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,886 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jan 1 2005, 1:51 PM) Communication is key in relationships. Does anyone ever realize that except me?  no thats my motto dude.. COMMUNICATION IS THE ONLY WAY TO SOLVE PROBLEMS! |
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Jan 2 2005, 12:33 PM
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 Imperfect... Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,064 |
QUOTE(LEDO_D0RKETTE @ Jan 1 2005, 3:20 PM) Just tell him how you feel & talk to him more. i agree |
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Jan 4 2005, 04:27 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
Loves means sacrificial. And if he's willing to stop hanging out with his friends and spends more time on you, that's what I call LOVE! If he does one sacrifice for you. JUST AT LEAST ONE!
Or maybe you don't talk that much. I guess he is waiting for you to talk to him. You need a sense of humor so he can be more attracted to you. Guys like girls who has sense of humor, so try to do that. If that doesn't work, then see what's he up to by asking his friends secretly or your friends. |
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Jan 4 2005, 08:20 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 78 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,359 |
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