suck ups, why? Options

[queen]

no one worthy to suck up to here ;x lol

[iheartjohn]

^^ *clears throat* EXCUSE ME??

No, I'm joking...I don't suck up to anyone. I mean, I'll be nice and give compliments, but to anyone who does a good job on their creations and/or gives effort. That's about it. *shrugs*

[Just_Dream]

Hmmm. There's suck ups everywhere... school.. internet.. bleh. I won't say any names but yea I tend to see a few of them around.

I don't think anyone "sucks up" to me. But if they did, they should know that I won't really be doing them any favors or anything revolving around cB or xanga, so they shouldn't expect much from me.

[*x____duckii*]

I don't suck up to people. If I think something's nice or whatever, I'll compliment them. I'm not going to suck up to someone just so I can be liked or whatever.

[vivieeeen]

aaw.. but compliments turn me on

[*salcha*]

"OMG! That layout is soooooo good. I want to be just like you! Wow you're soooooooooooooooooooo coool!"

haha, what suck ups...

[wonmin]

So I ask you...the suck ups of cB...why?

Is there really a point to suck up to most of the mods and members...just because they're "popular"/"powerful"? Kinda sad...especially since it's online...losers.

If no one replies...it cause you can't face up suck-up-ness.

i think it helps..
if you dont know who the admins are...

[innovation]

hey, now. you need to understand the pressure that teens feel. it's natural at this stage of moral development for teens to feel the need to be accepted by those with "status." if you've ever read novels such as The Ruling Class by Francine Pascal, you'd be exposed to the teenage need of acceptance. i don't think that it's right to mock them, since you've probably felt the need to "suck-up" yourself. "sucking up" is caused by a lack of security in one's own individuality, so maybe encourage confidence instead of calling people "sad losers"?

[*wind&fire*]

i agree its pathetic ..even if they treat them like utter shiat they still do it!!

[KissMe2408]

suck up? lol naw. i don't do that in person to ppl i know, so i def wouldn't do it online. But if i like what you posted or a skin you submitted then i'll tell yah.

[*stephinika*]

i think you can tell the difference between actual compliments and sucking up. and i don't. its annoying. the only time i do is sometimes when i'm desperate for something from my parents...

[toodlepops.]

its the internet. who sucks up here? seriously. but how do u noe they're sucking up? maybe they're truly commenting on how the layout really is? iono.

[azn hunni xox]

Yeah, I mean, I understand being nice too them since they're higher ranks and things... but seriously... it's os annoying... taking sides... complimenting them on every little thing, agreeing with them... some of them aren't even that nice. (No offense... but... some of them... I dunno... cuz once in this picture forum... ) Well yeah... you get it... it's kinda stupid... I mean you don't even know them!

[Flip-o-Matic]

sucking up online = pathetic. only need to be appreciative and admiring... a few certain compliments doesn't really mean they deliberately suck up... it juss seems that way to others.

[*Azarel*]

Sucking up is for people who don't know how to work for what they want.

[sporadic]

I'm sorry, they're just so.. so beautiful =[

[whomps]

No one has sucked up to me before, or at least I don't think so.. but I've seen other people suck up to other people/mods around here.
Lots.

[mai_z]

hey, now. you need to understand the pressure that teens feel. it's natural at this stage of moral development for teens to feel the need to be accepted by those with "status." if you've ever read novels such as The Ruling Class by Francine Pascal, you'd be exposed to the teenage need of acceptance. i don't think that it's right to mock them, since you've probably felt the need to "suck-up" yourself. "sucking up" is caused by a lack of security in one's own individuality, so maybe encourage confidence instead of calling people "sad losers"?

hm...very insightful, and very true. I think that everyone has the need for acceptance though, and it is not only teens who desire to be wanted, loved, and accepted.

[Skyline Drive]

if their stuff is good, ill compliment.

Same here.

I also don't see the point in sucking up , period. Especially over the internet.

[sporadic]

If you can't get accepted/liked in real life, you might as well be online.

[mirage]

well, i don't know how you truely define suck ups, but what if they are just being honest when you think they are sucking up?