a breaking heart, what's he doing?!? |
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 Feb 9 2005, 09:52 PM
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Well lately, me and my bf have gotten closer, but he's kind of gotten closer with my best friend too...and now I'm really considering ending the relationship because there are times when it seems to me that he's flirting with her, and I'm wondering if the best thing to do is to break up...but i still love him, and he still loves me but why does he have to be like that...why does he make it seem that he's into her. I guess I'm wondering if it's normal for your bf to go up to one of his close girl friends and start playfully punching her, or ask her if she hates him or ask where she is....
 i love him, but if this is the way he is going to act, i need to leave....
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Feb 9 2005, 09:54 PM
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if i was my guy's gf, i would've probably flirted with someone else too, but that doesn't mean i don't like him
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Feb 9 2005, 09:55 PM
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 hi, my name is hillary Group: Member Posts: 352 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 76,591 |
yea um.. thats not normal. i suggest you talk to him about if first before you actually break up with him because maybe he's not aware of it or something. who knows. but you definitely need to find out what's up FROM him.. or either your close friend before you jump to conclusions of any sort.
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Feb 9 2005, 10:04 PM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
o wow, ur never going to have a lasting relationship if ur gonna be like that. just because he is supposedly "flirting" with another girl, ur thinking of breaking it off? damn, yo. talk to ur bf about it. don't just be like, "i think ur flirting with her, i can't take it, bye!"
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Feb 9 2005, 10:05 PM
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 I have no life Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,675 |
^Good advice, go for what he says
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Feb 9 2005, 10:07 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
give your b/f some space if he wants it..he's entitle to flirt to some girl...but he shouldnt youre right....but you shouldnt make it a problem might spur up an argument. If you cant stand this..tell him to stop and if he wont..break up with him.
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Feb 9 2005, 10:12 PM
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QUOTE(-SuN-KiSSeD- @ Feb 9 2005, 9:52 PM) there are times when it seems to me that he's flirting with her, and I'm wondering if the best thing to do is to break up...but i still love him, and he still loves me  uhm does it really matter if you still love each other, cause i "flirt" with everyone  cause its fun and just cause he flirts doenst mean he likes her one bit like that
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Feb 9 2005, 10:23 PM
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 I'll never be who I was again.. Group: Member Posts: 2,886 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 77,981 |
QUOTE(smilz2dasun @ Feb 9 2005, 4:55 PM) yea um.. thats not normal. i suggest you talk to him about if first before you actually break up with him because maybe he's not aware of it or something. who knows. but you definitely need to find out what's up FROM him.. or either your close friend before you jump to conclusions of any sort. yup i agree...talk to him and find out why hes doing that... |
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Feb 9 2005, 10:29 PM
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 Hah! Its funny cause its true... Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 89,954 |
Oh thats exactly whats going on with me too. But him and my best friend were already really good friends before and im not jealous or anything. But if he just started suddenly ,like everyone else said, definetly talk to him about it. Don't let him go around flirting with your friends without saying something!
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Feb 9 2005, 10:29 PM
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 ^ I might look scary but i'm the nicest person in cb! Group: Member Posts: 1,364 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,979 |
maybe he just over enjoy the company of your friend. He probably act nice to her so that she won't tell on him to you. I saw this movie with the same situation. The girl which is you dump the guy and the guy don't know what wrong and become hopeless and keep trying to to hook again.
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Feb 9 2005, 11:23 PM
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You need some T to the 4th power H.
Some Time To Talk To Him. ALONE. Is your best friend doing it to? Talk to her about it separately also. |
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Feb 9 2005, 11:27 PM
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^ agreed
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Feb 10 2005, 12:26 AM
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um yeah don't break up with him over that...he's being friendly. if its bugging you, talk to him about it but it doesn't like anything horrible...
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Feb 10 2005, 01:16 AM
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don't take action without knowing the whole story. it's kinda like, "judgemental." you talk/act before you think. or something. anyways, everyone flirts. once in awhile. it's a human natural thing. he's probably just being nice to your best friend, it doesn't mean he likes her or anything. you don't have to jump to conclusions that fast. i mean... don't you trust him? =/ anyways, talk to your best friend about it.. ask her to tell you truthfully if she's hiding something from you or something. =/ maybe your best friend knows something bout your boyfriend, or maybe she likes him =o whatever it is, ask her. or better yet, ask your boyfriend, himself.
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Feb 10 2005, 02:47 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
whoa...don't just dump him without talking to him about it. If you really do love him, then you need to tell him about this. Seriously. go talk to him now. I mean he might just be good friends with your friend, or somethan. But i mean if you really feel like they have been flirting or whatever then you need to talk to your boyfriend about it, and your best friend. ugh. but yah if he does feel somethan for your best friend or whatever then dump him.
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Feb 10 2005, 05:31 PM
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 This bitch better work! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,681 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,095 |
QUOTE(x_angawhomps @ Feb 9 2005, 10:23 PM) You need some T to the 4th power H. Some Time To Talk To Him. HA HA  --- i think you should talk to him, too. if he is doing it just to be talking to her, that could be a problem. and he if he is "playfully" touching her...  . it just seems a little strange.
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Feb 10 2005, 05:59 PM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Talk to him about it. It isn't right that he does that.
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Feb 11 2005, 12:06 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
calm yourself. just because he's 'flirting' with another girl doesnt mean you have to break up with him so fast.
geebus. |
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Feb 11 2005, 01:19 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
You need more experience in how to handle these kind of situations. Don't just assume, first ask, then let it be, maybe they are just having a good time.
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Feb 11 2005, 02:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
i don't think you should break up with him before talking to him first. i mean there are people that flirt but they don't like them. i hope you work things out with him. Good luck.
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Feb 11 2005, 02:19 PM
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 Another ditch in the road... you keep moving Group: Member Posts: 6,281 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,152 |
hes a guy. guys flirt... trust me its probably nothing... talk if u want, but dont just dump him thats ridculous
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