>WHY IS IT ALWAYS ME!<, one night with him.. and we dont talk |
 Dec 22 2004, 08:55 PM
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 Well.. this past friday December 17 2004 i went to a party.. got a little tipsy.. ended up talking to a really great guy from my school.. ended up laying in a bed with him.. and then ended up on a couch with him.. and having sex.. he came to the party high and had a few beers.. and before we did anything he said he stayed there for me cause he thought i was pretty.. he repeated again ur really pretty.. and then we started makin out.. and then he whispered in my ear do u want o have sex? and i said yes.. and so blah blah blah.. in the morning.. went to the bed upstairs again and he came in about 5 10 min later.. and we talked about random thing and then he game me his number gave me a hug and kiss good bye and he left.. for like 20 min. and came back.. and then i left.. without a single word after we hugged and kiss before.. so i didnt call him saturday .. or sunday decided to clal him on monday night and he answered i told him who i was and he said he would call me back.. and never did.. and now everyone knows about us in school and he hasnt talked to me.. ever.. since that day... ive completely fallin for him.. without know if he has feelings for me still.. he was my 2nd.. and i remeber this with my first i felt this same way but i really want to be more than what we are now.. and im really scared to talk to him.. idk why.. but i am.. but i REALLY REALLY want to ttalk to him.. i really want to make a relationship out of this.. but i dont know if he even has 1 bit of feelings for me..  do i call him again? if so what would i say? but ya.. please i dont want simpathy.. just advice.. some good advice .. a girl in need.. for feeling and love.. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Well i thank all of u for ur honesty.. but i talked to him on wednesday the 22nd and it turns out he really did call me back on monday the 17th.. and i didnt answer my cell phone. and we had a long talk about everything.. and we are okay now.. i know i may seem young.. and its way too sad to see someone like me out in the world.. loosing thare virginity at 14 but when i lost it i was sober.. i know that doesnt make it any better but.. hey.. its not ur problem.. but thanks everyone! i really appriciate everyones honesty.. i dont know exactly that i feel the same way about him as before when i didnt talk to him but it gave me some releif to talk to him made me feel alot BETTER!!! 
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Dec 22 2004, 08:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,899 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,580 |
HOLY SHIT!!
your only 14. i eman sex already and you just met him!! wow!! all i ahve to say is that if he dont call you back or talk to you at school, i'm srry but hes just using you so he can get in your pants |
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Dec 22 2004, 08:59 PM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
u have to wait till he talks to u. nothing can be done if he isnt talking!!
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| *tyedyefroggy* |
Dec 22 2004, 09:17 PM
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Sorry but it seems like you've been used as a one night stand. Possibly he wont ever call you back so dont sit around by the phone waiting for him. Move on, take him off your mind.
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Dec 22 2004, 09:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
try talking to him again. If it fails move on. Thats all you can do
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Dec 22 2004, 10:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
QUOTE(tyedyefroggy @ Dec 22 2004, 9:17 PM) Sorry but it seems like you've been used as a one night stand. Possibly he wont ever call you back so dont sit around by the phone waiting for him. Move on, take him off your mind. Agreed. You were just a bootycall. |
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Dec 22 2004, 10:40 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
He was drugged-ed. He was using you. And you sound too young to be having sex. But whatever. Get over him.
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Dec 22 2004, 11:12 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
well im jus gunna say it DAMN UR STUPID!! u barley even noe him and u already havvin sex? omg.. and ur only in high skool and ur drinking BEAR damn...
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 23 2004, 12:01 AM
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Is this a joke? I mean. Wow. I thought girls were a bit smarter than that.
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Dec 23 2004, 12:04 AM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Dec 23 2004, 12:01 AM) Is this a joke? I mean. Wow. I thought girls were a bit smarter than that. I thought so too  .Yeah, you are pretty stupid. Are you on a hormonal rampage or something? &why are you still trying to get up on him? |
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Dec 23 2004, 12:21 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
you're very stupid...one stupid girl...and i bet this person just registered as a new member so they can post this..... i bet this person already has a username that has been a member since the last couple months...tsk tsk.
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Dec 23 2004, 01:12 AM
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 none of it seems real Group: Member Posts: 2,469 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,889 |
Woah. I hope that is a joke.
I agree with the above you were used. No use having feelings for him.. and apparently he isn't a "really great guy" like you mentioned above. His the complete opposite. You barely knew this guy... Enough said. It's been said. |
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Dec 23 2004, 01:32 AM
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 You're a blue eyed lightning bolt. Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,896 |
holy crap..okay you are only 14..and personally..i believe you have been used..which is really sad to say, but he prolly doesn't have any true feelings..it was a spur of the moment kind of thing..
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Dec 23 2004, 01:55 AM
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 need happy pills? Group: Member Posts: 419 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,946 |
Everyone else said it,and from what I read, man...he was prob drunk and what's hte point, the guy prob thought your an "easy" girl since your young and stuff. Get over it doubt he will call.
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Dec 23 2004, 01:57 AM
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 moohaha Group: Member Posts: 2,214 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,985 |
he probably doesnt even remember you O_O wuttta @$$ i cant believe you already had sex n your 14 O_O
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Dec 23 2004, 07:38 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
wow.....so you sorta had sex with a stranger.....um..well guys always play girls are it seems you were one of his "victims"
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| *Weird addiction* |
Dec 23 2004, 07:40 AM
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Wow ur doomed! just forget about him
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Dec 23 2004, 10:07 AM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 550 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
sex can do taht to a person...and maybe he feels weird that you guys had sex so he just wants to leave it like that...or maybe a circuit blew out and he cant use the fone cuz theres no power
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Dec 23 2004, 12:42 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,554 |
it's hard for a girl to hook up like that without getting emotionally attatched. does he even remember you?? he was high. you were drunk.
14 and having sex?? i'm 16... i really don't understand why people your age want to have sex.. maybe for pleasure?? i don't know. i'm going to tell you straight up: you're going to regret it. i can see it already.. everyone can. you should have waited. maybe if you were sober you would've thought twice. 
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Dec 23 2004, 12:46 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
oh sweetie... he WAS using you. in the future, you should be more careful about who you sleep with. like don't have sex with guys who are high, drunk, or someone you just met. ESPECIALLY when you're only 14!
my advice: keep your legs together until you're a little more mature and are with somebody you love. |
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Dec 23 2004, 03:48 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
aww!!! thats f**ked how is went down but, hey i aint gon' say your stupid for it because thats happened to people way older than u. If I was in your situation i just would try to forget about it even though it would be hard....hope u get over him. he probably doesnt even remember..
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Dec 23 2004, 03:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,164 |
i'd call him back... he might have short term memory loss or something!
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Dec 23 2004, 03:56 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
heh. welcome to the club. sorry to bust your bubble but he probably won't call you. which is why sex before a relationship is a bad bad idea.
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Dec 23 2004, 04:04 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
QUOTE(angel_roh @ Dec 23 2004, 12:21 AM) you're very stupid...one stupid girl...and i bet this person just registered as a new member so they can post this..... i bet this person already has a username that has been a member since the last couple months...tsk tsk. wtf is worng with you? |
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Dec 23 2004, 04:31 PM
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alli Group: Member Posts: 513 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,108 |
yah i agree .. u barely new him and u did it.. i mean just forget about him..i understand ur like realy upset..but theres nothingg u can really do..i mean ur my age..only 14..but dont worry time goes on..ive learned that..lol
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