friends really your friends?, a problem =\ |
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 Dec 3 2004, 08:05 PM
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 define our lives for us.  Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293  |
uhhh.. i have a friend who calls her my best friend.
we used to be as close as sisters can get. but then one day she started to avoid me and hang out with some of the people we talk about. cierra broke her leg and my best friend is hanging out with her like she's her best friend and really hasn't talked to me on the phone/online since. then i started hanging out with another friend and then the day i got detention and missed recess [elementry school me is in] my best friend started stealing my friend i was hanging out. and they leave me out so now i feel like i have no friends, no life, no nothing. and just now i was talking to a male friend [i have more male friends than girl friends] and she all of a sudden wanted to talk to him and she used to hate him... now she's all over him like a dog.  i haet the fact that she's taking my friends when she has friends of her own i practilly cant talk to.i'm one of those people who like stuff to myself.. i grew up as an only child so i'm very used to that... so what should i do?  it seems like my life is falling apart. my best friend just talked to me today only because she needed help on the project and saying that oh i'm bored.it's like i'm her replacement friend when she has no one to talk to.  i hate it.
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Dec 3 2004, 08:10 PM
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 tomorrow is a new day Group: Member Posts: 41 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,956 |
awwwww it's okie. Theres only one thing you can do confront her about it and make sure you get everything out. You dont have to be NICE TO HER OR MEAN either just dont be scared she cannot hurt you .. you only need to be nice to your friends and although she mite have seemed like a true friend she is not. So stay strong and just talk to her. Good Luck and dont worry im your friend
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Dec 3 2004, 08:14 PM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
QUOTE(pOOpii_h e a dxD @ Dec 3 2004, 8:10 PM) awwwww it's okie. Theres only one thing you can do confront her about it and make sure you get everything out. You dont have to be NICE TO HER OR MEAN either just dont be scared she cannot hurt you .. you only need to be nice to your friends and although she mite have seemed like a true friend she is not. So stay strong and just talk to her. Good Luck and dont worry im your friend thanks/.. :) i feel a little better. and i forgot to mention... i'm just afraid to do that. i mean, the last time i told her something that was the truth and it was about her. she got really pissed off... and now i know she's gonna disagree because we just a little fight about not putting our names in our pro. i mean seriously, i've never seen my name in her pro... and i didnt put her name cuz she never on aim... and she says she is and i'm ALWAYS on aim. ^^; thanks again.. i'm not as mad and depressed as i was before 
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Dec 3 2004, 09:55 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
hm...that doesn't sound like a friend to me
hm...just ask her about it....and ask her why she's doing that...tell her how you feel...i hope everything works out for you  good luck! 
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Dec 3 2004, 10:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 67,978 |
She sure has a mean way of the meaning "friend". Maybe sumthing is bothering her. Try asking, I hope everything works out between u guys!
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Dec 3 2004, 10:42 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
write a letter to her and tell her to get a life and stop trying to take your friends.
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Dec 12 2004, 01:40 PM
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 =) Group: Member Posts: 201 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,624 |
That happens all the time. I think a majority of friends do that, but there are a rare few that actually stick around.
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Dec 12 2004, 01:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
you should go slap that bitch.....jk just talk to her and ask what the hell is she doing and why is she doing doing this
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Dec 12 2004, 02:08 PM
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define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
^ LOL
thanks for all the advice.  I talked to her, she has another best friend... and I guess i only have her. so i'll stick to my online friends.. i think they're better. thanks, though. |
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Dec 14 2004, 10:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
confront her about it. if she continues to steal your friends, steal her friends. Haha.
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Dec 15 2004, 06:20 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,137 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,193 |
people like that suck
 i've had many "friends" like that. if you already tried talking to her about it and she doesn't care just forget about her you don't need friends like that.
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Dec 16 2004, 09:30 PM
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Awws, cheer up! That is not a true friend. Maybe try talking to her. Ask her what's wrong and tell her that she's hurting you. If she doesn't listen, then tell her ass off. Maybe you can try making new friends and move on? Wells, I hope you feel better
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Dec 16 2004, 09:39 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Yeah... you can always buy new friends.
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Dec 18 2004, 07:10 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
QUOTE(Spiritedfreak @ Dec 3 2004, 8:05 PM) it seems like my life is falling apart.she isn`t worth to let you cry.. (: cheer up. smile to show her how good you are w/o her. take this chance and try to make more friends with ppl yu don`t hang out with. hang out with ppl who she hates and who hates her and you. hey! she`s hanging out with her "ex enemy" so why can`t you hang out with your "enemies"?? |
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Dec 19 2004, 12:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
i hate my best friends. i have no real best friends actually. find yourself new friends. i would.
i can relate. sometimes it feels like your life does fall apart if you feel like they don't want/need you anymore. just don't cry about it. it's probably not worth it. |
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