What is she thinking?, You tell me.. |
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 Dec 9 2004, 10:04 PM
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 thatoneguy  Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,288  |
ok.. soo where do i start?
Theres this girl steph that ive liked a lot for the past 2 and a half years.. ok.. so it was going great.. until the winter of last year.. one of my "friends" who played me when we had a relationship found out i liked her.. and one night we were all in dallas for this youth group thing called winterfest.. anyway in the hotel room.. me and steph were laying in the same bed.. (not doing anything perverted of any sort) but she had her head on my shoulder while iw as watching tv. anyway it was great i was so happy.. and she whispered to me.. "I love you" and my eyes lit up.. and you knwo it was one of those im so happy i could piss my pants moments.. but anyway im off topic.. after i left.. i suppose this girl i had the previous thign with got jelous and when i left started saying all these things behind my back about how i was a "man-whore" and just lookin for the poonanner? she didnt say that.. but you know trying to keep it somewhat clean.. im sure you know what she said.. but anyway the next day.. i asked out steph.. and she said no.. much to my surprise.. so it took me about 6 months to figure out what had happened.. but anyway thats all passed.. and between then and now.. ive screwed my chances 2 more times after that.. but on my own.. stupid arguments and what not.. but now i feel like ive got another chance.. she tells me she loves me again.. holds my hand wherever we are.. gives me those long hugs that just feel so damn good.. specially since its nice n cold outside (i like cold weather) and what not.. but than i ask her out.. and she says no again?? and this time there has been no intervention.. i know of that for a fact.. so can any of you girls tell me what she might be thinking? cuz its been a loooong time.. i know i love her.. thats not a question.. but to have her lead me on like that.. and than tell me she doesnt "feel that way for anyone anymore" and that she says i love you to all her close friends like thats supposed to suffice? i mean she opens up to me.. and from her own bestfriend cassandra i hear that she hasnt really ever done that to any guy before.. so whats up with this? yall tell me.. lets end this sleepless in seattle style.. shattered and confused in texas.. lol gotta try and keep myself from gettin too down about it.. |
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Dec 9 2004, 10:07 PM
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thatoneguy Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,288 |
oh and by her i mean steph the girl found out about me liking steph.. and by sayign she didnt say poonanner.. i emant she said worse stuff plus that.. but i just kept it down to one word..
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Dec 9 2004, 10:10 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
well this girl "Steph" is like not worth it. she's playing you alot. or maybe she's just scared too. because of what the other girl says of you. maybe she thinks that your playing her. so shes playing you back . to not get hurt herself. just ask her out AGAIN. and if she says NO again talk to her about it. and tell her to stop playing you.
ps how old are you? |
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Dec 9 2004, 10:15 PM
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thatoneguy Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,288 |
im 17
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Dec 9 2004, 10:23 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(teeners__15 @ Dec 9 2004, 10:10 PM) well this girl "Steph" is like not worth it. she's playing you alot. or maybe she's just scared too. because of what the other girl says of you. maybe she thinks that your playing her. so shes playing you back . to not get hurt herself. just ask her out AGAIN. and if she says NO again talk to her about it. and tell her to stop playing you. ps how old are you? she's probably just playing you, or she just wants to know how it feels like to be in someone's arms.  talk to her about it, ask her why she's doing this
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Dec 9 2004, 10:34 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
She seems weird lols. She says "I love you" and then rejects you? That's just plain weird. Talk to her; ask her why she's doing it but i agree with the ones above. She's either playing you or just insecure.
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Dec 10 2004, 07:06 AM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
I don't know how you do things in Dixie, but up here in the great land of the Midwest, we call that "cheating", or altermatively "adultery". Now if you look in the Holy Bible of the Lord, in the book of Leviticus, it states clearly that she must be stoned to death!
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Dec 10 2004, 09:12 AM
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 Brown hand smash Group: Member Posts: 654 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,582 |
maybe she's afraid to love you and get hurt in the end or she's only fooling around coz she knew that you love her.
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Dec 10 2004, 04:03 PM
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 raaawr. Group: Member Posts: 172 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,242 |
some girls just like playing guys. steph might be one of them. she may just be thinking that she wants somebody to lean on and by that time she really likes you, but then when you ask her out she's like, "but i don't like you." i think she's just falling in love with the romantic moment but nothing else.
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Dec 10 2004, 06:37 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Alright. I don't have much of this lovey dovey knowledge that you expect all girls to have.. because honestly, all girls aren't that predictable. So bear with me because my knowledge on love is only based on books and no actually expierence.
Now listen closely, my comrade. There's a time when sometimes.. it takes a few tries to ask someone and eventually they'll say yes. But ask yourself this, "Do I really like her?" "Is she really worth my time?" "Why is she always saying no to me?" There. Not much help.. but.. whatever. |
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Dec 11 2004, 12:05 AM
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thatoneguy Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,288 |
ive actually asked myself that plenty times.. and the answers are yes.. but i donno sometimes i just get really down about it.. and everything becomes so pessimistic you know? ive got a really bad habit of being pessimistic about everything.. i donno why.. but yeah.. thanks you guys for takign the time to comment
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Dec 11 2004, 02:20 AM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
I say don't be pessimistic... think realistically. Often times it's close to pessimistic, but it's protecting yourself somewhat. Expecting what life really is at times. It's like the glass of water we all know and love. Some see it half full, others half empty, and others twice as big as it needs to be. I try to see it as simply a glass of water, ya know? That's prolly the best example I can give you.
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Dec 11 2004, 02:38 PM
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i think she's playing u.... *shrugs* how can she say i love u but then u ask her out and she says no ..... hummm... maybe she's afraid to get close to u.... u should talk to her. this happend like last winter... she just wants confort and stuff find someone else.. she dosn't felly love u....
i could be wrong... u should talk to her find anwers. |
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Dec 12 2004, 03:23 PM
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Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
.... Self-pity, my friend, is a big part to arrogance.
Just tell her you love her and make her feel guilty. |
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Dec 12 2004, 04:37 PM
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It does sound like she is playing you, but like the others have said, ask her, find some answers and stuff like that. Good Luck!
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Dec 13 2004, 02:07 AM
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 You're a blue eyed lightning bolt. Group: Member Posts: 318 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,896 |
it doesnt really seem like shes playing you..but it seems like she IS leading you on..i really have known of no one to say i love you to a guy and then reject him..but anyways..just ask her out again and if she rejects you again..then talk to her about it..otherwise she's not worth your time
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Dec 21 2004, 03:44 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
well, maybe she doesn't feel secure enough yet.. or maybe she likes playing guys.
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Dec 21 2004, 10:11 PM
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 BIOTCH!!!! Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,655 |
she hates you im sorry..JK!
well she might be afriad to love you cuz she thinks if she goes out with you, you'll slepp with other girls...just tell her ur not like that..and call the girl who called you a "ponnanner" biotch...i guess..if u want to i mean u can do it peace out ~ the one who gives crappy advice to broken-hearted teenagers. |
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