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 Dec 14 2004, 09:45 PM
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well my bf is really sweet and stuff and he says all these sweet things and i love it, but the thing is i want to do the same thing back to him but don't know how to. i'm just afraid that if i do, i might say something wrong.
 and its been about 5 months and i want to treat him the way he treats me. i want to start but don't know where to begin yeah i know i'm hopeless |
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Dec 14 2004, 10:19 PM
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 Two Lives, One Truth Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,148 |
well being a guy, just compliment him, give him good props, and dont try to hide little messages cause with some guys they just dont get it. Not only the dumb ones, but a whole variety of guys cant understand womens "hidden" messages in compliments. just blantly say it "babe..." and finish the sentence simple. hope i helped.
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Dec 14 2004, 10:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 524 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,003 |
I'm having the same problem, although it has only been 2 days. Hes so nice to me but I just feel like I sound stupid if I say something sweet. lol
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Dec 14 2004, 10:38 PM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
Something that sounds stupid to you is music to someone else's ears. If you really don't feel comfortable... try using a song the first few times. It always gets the message across, poetry has the same effect, even for guys... well intelligent ones anyway, iono about the less... mentally adept ones.
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Dec 14 2004, 11:28 PM
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 your sweetest sin. Group: Member Posts: 416 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,960 |
when he says "i love you" say "i love you too," and hold his hand and smile.
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Dec 15 2004, 02:01 AM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
I don't think its neccessary. But since you want to, then common sense will tell you what to do. But don't try too hard though, it could come out unexpecting. You'll just know what to do to treat him nice. Usually when a guy say or do something for a girl, he'd only ask for one thing in return; happiness, and your smile(for assurance) is all that he asked for. Nothing more. I'm sensing a long term relationship. Congrats, your a lucky person.
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Dec 15 2004, 06:20 AM
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QUOTE(audory @ Dec 14 2004, 11:28 PM) when he says "i love you" say "i love you too," and hold his hand and smile. that's what i do most of the time, i think thats the only sweet thing i say to him  QUOTE I don't think its neccessary. But since you want to, then common sense will tell you what to do. But don't try too hard though, it could come out unexpecting. You'll just know what to do to treat him nice. Usually when a guy say or do something for a girl, he'd only ask for one thing in return; happiness, and your smile(for assurance) is all that he asked for. Nothing more. I'm sensing a long term relationship. Congrats, your a lucky person. i guess your right, yeah i am in a long term relationship This post has been edited by _sarcastic_: Dec 15 2004, 06:22 AM |
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Dec 19 2004, 12:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
be comfortable and open. if he says i love you, just say 'i love you too' or 'yeah me too.' just saying simple things like that can help you start feeling confident to say other things too.
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Dec 25 2004, 08:41 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
give him countless hugs and little kisses and tell him you love him.
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Dec 25 2004, 09:26 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
Show not tell.
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Dec 25 2004, 10:43 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Just say what he says to you.
I mean.. he obviously likes what he's saying.. I guess.. if that made any sense. |
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| *wind&fire* |
Dec 26 2004, 12:24 AM
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then you probably dont like him if you dont say it back...
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Dec 29 2004, 01:43 PM
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 I'm slooow Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,538 |
Be comfortable. Don't make him think there is something is wrong or he might get second thoughts.
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Dec 29 2004, 01:45 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
wow you seem to still be shy about your relationship.. you've gotta open up!! you have to say stuff liek that to break the ice!! i know its hard to come out sometimes find a good moment that u can say it and then after you break the ice it will be more natural...
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Dec 29 2004, 01:45 PM
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Just sleep with him.
Just kidding. Well, it's not like you're really obligated, too. Just be like "you look nice today" or something once in awhile. Or you can talk to him about it. He'll like you no matter what. ...hopefully. |
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| *Kathleen* |
Dec 29 2004, 09:23 PM
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Just try not to think too much about the matter...just...go with whatever feels right.
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Dec 29 2004, 09:29 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
Be brave, be bold, do right!
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Dec 31 2004, 10:16 AM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
sorry i forgot to tell you guys that i just moved away from him so now it makes it even harder
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Dec 31 2004, 10:45 AM
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 ApunBindaas Group: Member Posts: 221 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,464 |
You're lucky. Many girls want to be in your position. All you can do is accept his love.
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