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 Dec 9 2004, 01:00 AM
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ashley  Group: Member Posts: 133 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,454  |
i cant take it anymore..i dont even live with my parents because they got abusive and we didnt get along..my grandparents get mad when i get a B..and on my math tests i get F and Ds..please help me get through this stress
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Dec 9 2004, 03:00 AM
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 jellobean Group: Member Posts: 76 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,478 |
hey..u could try talking 2 ur grandparents...coz B aint bad at all..n 4 e other subjects..izit always tat bad??if it is..then u could get help from teachers..u noe..lyk tuition..or juz promise ur granparents u'll work harder or sumthing..yepz..if u wanna get rid of stress..u could try laughing..watch a comedy sitcom..haha..its a gd stress-reliever..well..cheer up!!!haha..bye!!
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Dec 9 2004, 01:45 PM
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ashley Group: Member Posts: 133 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,454 |
QUOTE(cheezy_mi @ Dec 9 2004, 3:00 AM) hey..u could try talking 2 ur grandparents...coz B aint bad at all..n 4 e other subjects..izit always tat bad??if it is..then u could get help from teachers..u noe..lyk tuition..or juz promise ur granparents u'll work harder or sumthing..yepz..if u wanna get rid of stress..u could try laughing..watch a comedy sitcom..haha..its a gd stress-reliever..well..cheer up!!!haha..bye!! thanks a bunch..i will definatly try dat out... yourz truely.....ashleY |
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Dec 9 2004, 05:18 PM
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 Smile Like a Retard =D Group: Member Posts: 1,350 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 63,186 |
the best thing you can do is to talk to them and let them know what they are doing to you. if you don't want your grandpa to get mad, study and get better grades.
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Dec 9 2004, 05:37 PM
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Well; they're the one that brought you into this world.
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Dec 9 2004, 07:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,957 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,665 |
are you asian?? you probably are... my parents are like so stereotypical... and there is a lot of stress in school too, so well, i don't know but somehow i get motivation from it
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Dec 9 2004, 07:55 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
If I got a C, my parents would get mad. Of course, I've gotten a B every year, so there's no way of escaping it. But even so, as long sa the majority of my grades are A's, then I'm fine with it, lol. But I'm so sick of school and whatnot. They got abusive? You know, you can call social services.. and you seem old enough to live on your own, I believe. They shouldn't be beating you or anything. My dad was abusive and stuff, but even so, it was never about grades. More like that people would call my house phone... O_o
 Anyway, asian parents, if you are asian, are really strict. But I guess that's what gets you to try to study hard and have a good education. Because you don't want to get in trouble, it make syou work harder. Well it did for me =P |
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Dec 9 2004, 08:28 PM
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 Day's Nearly Over Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,553 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 45,183 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Dec 9 2004, 5:37 PM) Well; they're the one that brought you into this world. That's true. |
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Dec 9 2004, 08:58 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
Imagine this:
You can't get B+'s, B's, B-'s, and God forbid any Cs,Ds, and Fs. You can't go to sleep overs. You have to study, and you can't get ANY lower than an A-. Your conduct has to be an A and if you get an A- you get off with a "warning". ^ that's my life. i'm sorry. But for me a B is an F. I get in so much trouble [=. Try talking to your grandparents. It must be really hard. My parents are stirct And they're not asian. |
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Dec 9 2004, 09:01 PM
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 Saap!? Group: Member Posts: 568 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,151 |
talk to them. they're your parents & grandparents. anyways, YOU can always help improve your grade...
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Dec 9 2004, 09:26 PM
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ashley Group: Member Posts: 133 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,454 |
QUOTE(xj_liana_tx @ Dec 9 2004, 7:14 PM) are you asian?? you probably are... my parents are like so stereotypical... and there is a lot of stress in school too, so well, i don't know but somehow i get motivation from it nope...i am white..lol |
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Dec 9 2004, 09:44 PM
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 thatoneguy Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,288 |
i know how that is man.. im half asian.. and my mom goes crazy about that stuff.. she used to anyway though.. i guess i mean you know.. you cant expect your parents to chill with a less than perfect grade.. because theyve got you so high in their standards.. youre their lil boofmuffin or whatever.. and they always think youre the prettiest/cutest, smartest, whateverest person in the world.. so i mean sure i know i go crazy about it sometimes.. but its totally understandable.. they just dont know how to deal with you not being perfect.. if onyl they could right? just find something to do in your spare time.. me.. i skate.. and on the downer side i smoke a square or two.. drink occasionally.. but dont let it drive you off the edge.. when you let it do that.. you do stuff you regret.. believe me.. ive been through a lot of stuff like that.. just find somethign that can chill you out.. and grandparents.. the viewpoint of you doesnt fall far from what your parents think.. just know that (i know this is the oldest cliche) your parents.. your grandparents.. whoever love you.. just they dont know the right ways to show it all the time.. just as you wish they could understand youre not perfect.. you have to understand they arent perfect either.. simple as that.. later
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Dec 10 2004, 04:58 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
talk to your grandparents. i agree ^. parents have such high standards and they expect you to be the best. They just don't understand how much stress school can cause. Communication is the key. Just speak up =]
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