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 Dec 17 2004, 04:42 PM
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::sigh:: GRRRRUGH . He broke up with me and I understood since he wanted time to strenghten his relationship with God and get more involved with church. I was bitter at first, because of all these reasons anyways
 . He has a girlfriend!!!!  Turns out he just didn't want to hurt my feelings! Stupid! I feel so naive. I guess he didn't mean those things he said. I'm at church and i'm looking at him right now. Man i wish a christmas tre falls on him!
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Dec 17 2004, 04:59 PM
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 I'm Dan... and no I'm not gay. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,977 |
OMFG!!! I feel your pain EXACTLY!!! My last girlfriend of 11 MONTHS did that to me... I was sooo pissed... 'cause I love her and all that stuff, loved in return and everything. Then all of a sudden she wants to "grow on God" and I'm left in the dumps. Anyway, after the heartbreak, she claimed that it could happen again later once she's done, but I can't be on call like that, so whatever, I've tried to move on, and the only way to finally move on for me is to have someone else that'll treat me better, so maybe that helps you out? You can't fight against God if that's what he put between you... so what are you left to do? You can wait it out, hoping, as I've done once before for a different situation, or you can move on... as hard as it is
.LOL, maybe I should read the whole post before I respond. I didn't see the part about another girl. Gah screw him, you deserve better than that. One of the best ways to move on is to find someone better, in whatever you look for in a guy. Who knows? Maybe he'll get jealous when you're with someone better, and you can laugh it all away lol. 
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Dec 17 2004, 11:28 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
forget bout him, you deserve someone better than him.
i had this 'bf' for like bout a few weeks, and got dumped caz according to him his dad didn't like him date which later i found out was bull but i'm happy with my current bf
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Dec 18 2004, 04:06 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
...Eek.
Move on.. really. There's no sense in dwelling on it any longer. |
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Dec 18 2004, 04:16 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
the only thing you can pretty much do is move on. you'll definately be able to find someone better.
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Dec 18 2004, 01:12 PM
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 lol...u'll be ok
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Dec 18 2004, 03:51 PM
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you know i was in your guy's position.. well kinda. i dumped my ex of 7 months for God. i was on a spiritual high. i knew i could live without him. but a week later.. iwas back to my adolescent badself (lol) and i met up with this other guy and we hooked up. (well he dumped me in 2 weeks) but anyways. your guy might have dumped you for this girl, or it mightve been really God. but .. idont know what to say. =( i just hope that you get over him! there is no point in wasting your life on someone that you wont marry. be happy and smile. live life to the fullest, take no regrets, no shit. and be yourself. shine.
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Dec 18 2004, 05:00 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
you weren't umm...that naive
 I mean...who can blame you?? the guy said his excuse was God...but then again...he seems like a jerk. What kinda guy would ever use God for an excuse of breaking up with someone??!! *ahem* but yea...it's ok...there'll be others. =)
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Dec 19 2004, 12:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,831 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,324 |
yeah, i hope that christmas tree falls on him too.
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