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 Jan 7 2005, 10:43 PM
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 HI IM aLLi =]  Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,012  |
hey.. im here to tell u my story and plz help me out...
 umm ive been best friends wid this wun girl that we'll call her lana . so lana and i have been firends fer over a year now we share everything together and like wun dae she goes and hangs out wid this other girl that we'll name her bob ok well bob and lana goes and hangs out wid each other becuz bob supposedly had sum trouble becuz bob's best freind ran awae from home and well lana was there to help her out and well bobs friend came bak i think and den everything goes swell wid lana and bob and lana doesnt really hang out wid me anymore and todae she told me she hasnt eaten fer 2 daes now fer sum reason and like im worried bout her becuz shes using drugs more and more cuz of bob and i hate it cuz i care a lot about lana i dont want to see lana get hurt from all dis shit shes taking drinking alcohol and stuff... plz help me
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Jan 7 2005, 11:15 PM
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im so cool.it burns Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,373 |
ugh the typing. ><.
tell her how you feel. if she argues that you`re wrong, she`s not really a good friend at the moment then eh? REMEMBER HUGS NOT DRUGS!! 
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Jan 7 2005, 11:40 PM
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Talk to her about how you feel about her situation. If she doesnt listen then maybe you should get some parental help for her. Hang in there, hopefully all of this will past.
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Jan 7 2005, 11:51 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
erm, i can't really understand by the way you're typing. umm yea, talk to her. if that doesn't help , tlka to an elder person that u can trust lyk ur mom or a councelor.
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Jan 8 2005, 12:30 AM
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 Apr 24 '05* 1000 posts! Group: Member Posts: 1,184 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,049 |
i cant read that. lol. btw, bob is a guy's name. and um.. she shouldn't leave u alone just becus her friend is back. doesnt that seem like u're a temporary?
DONT TYPE LIKE THAT ANYMORE. |
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Jan 8 2005, 12:46 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,564 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,336 |
You needa' go back to school. Well, just talk to her 'bout it & tell her to stop taking drugs 'cuhs drugs are for LOSERS. She should eat too.
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Jan 8 2005, 01:50 AM
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well maybe you should tell her and if that doesn't work if you know her mom tell her mom and tell her mom that she should help her instead of yelling at her and if your scared of telling her mom is she doesn't listen tell an adult who will understand umm that all i can think of =/
//edit// sorry for the confusion! ahaha wat i mean is tell her how you feel first if that dosen't work tell her mom but when you tell her ask her mom if she would help and not yell at her till everything gets under controll and if you don't wanna do that tell an adult that you think will understand |
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Jan 8 2005, 04:26 PM
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ask her if she's taking drugs.
 tell her not to if she is and tell someone if she isnt then i think its just depression talk to her!! |
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Jan 8 2005, 04:52 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Talk to her about it. And please don't type like that...try hanging out with her rather than waiting for her to come to you.
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Jan 8 2005, 05:01 PM
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ehh i couldn't really understand what you were trying to say but..
if your lana friend is having problems, talk to bob or her. bob might know something you might not know, and lana might be suffering from sort of depression. |
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Jan 11 2005, 07:45 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Er, huh?
Tell her to stop.. or better yet, tell her parents about all of this. She's just ruining her life. |
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Jan 11 2005, 08:30 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy** Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281 |
try to talk to her then if that doesn't work tell a couciler and tell them what she is doin' if you really care 'bout her you would tell so they can talk to her and help her stoP!
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Jan 11 2005, 08:57 PM
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did she tell you not to tell anyone?
You need to tell an adult you can really talk to and trust..they can help. they've got the power...and don't use it as a last resort because, the sooner you tell someone, you'll feel better and you'll be helping "lana" |
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Jan 11 2005, 09:14 PM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 630 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,163 |
Confront her about the situation of using drugs. If she is, you go to the principal and tell him/her that your friend is using drugs and so is 'Bob'. They may hate you for it and call you names. But just remember that you just save someone's life from being a victim to drugs.
Then later on in life, meet up with her and ask for money for being to considerate and kind back then.  
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Jan 11 2005, 11:29 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
Talk to her about it..
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Jan 12 2005, 10:28 AM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
its prolly just a phase.... i'm mean people do fall into the wrond crowd at times
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