oh help, bff problem, cant get over him |
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 Dec 5 2004, 10:27 PM
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ok so heres the deal, my best friend and i used to get along great...untill this summer. He was best friends with a whole lot of girls, and i was always the last one. i was his safety net and he would only talk to me if no one else would hang out with him. i was his last choice. So this August i called him and told him i couldnt deal withit anymore and i wanted to stop being friends, and he didnt really understand and he never really accepted it. Ive told him numerous times since then that i cant handle it and i need to be left alone (he was my only real friend) but he doesnt get it.. I dont haveto see him all the time anymore cuz he goes to the public high school in ur town, and i go to a private school, but i go back to the public school after school every day to help with the stage crew for the play. hes in the play so i do see him sometimes, and everytime i do he waves sarcastically nd wont leave me alone. Im thinking about quitting crew because i cant take it anymore and hes harrassing my other 2 friends and is mean to them now too. I know i am giving him way too much power over me by quitting crew and hating him, but i miss his nice side. but there is no way im ever going back to be his friend. what should i do, and how can i get over him?
thanx, mary |
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Dec 5 2004, 10:32 PM
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lmao i was in the same situation okay first of all if he doesnt include you in his deal then forget him and try to make new friend it works i was in the same situation and we were really close and with his friends but to the guy that we both really didnt like we werrent friends so it was a big mess anyway to you problem try to et over him hes probabnly going to like a new hirl not trying to bring you down but get anew best friend!!!
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Dec 6 2004, 04:01 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should maybe tell him once more firmly. don't quit the crew, it just shows that he has more power then you do (like what you said) next time he annoys you and your friends, tell him off, tell him you don't like it. yeah. get a new best friend.
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Dec 6 2004, 05:17 PM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
do not quit the crew.
that means he wins. never let a boy win. aww righh? - o -; anyhoo... i think you should seriously talk to him, and stand up for yourself. tell him that if he... well, you know the rest. |
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Dec 6 2004, 05:19 PM
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Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
QUOTE how can i get over him? rip up all of his stuff and gifts he gave you... and always find the bad qualities in him. |
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Dec 6 2004, 05:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 893 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 68,217 |
That guy is a bastard, no offense, pretend he doesn't exist and do not leave the crew. Like mentioned above, that is letting him win. If he talks to you, be stiff and polite and act like you don't know him. However, if he is nice to you, be nice back. Give him a chance to show his "nice side" again. If he doesn't, then imagine that he's a piece of furniture that simply gets in your way.
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Dec 6 2004, 08:42 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 69,351 |
QUOTE(ApocalypseAelis @ Dec 6 2004, 5:57 PM) That guy is a bastard, no offense none taken! and hes never nice, not anymore anyway... |
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Dec 6 2004, 09:30 PM
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 rawr. Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,364 |
1. dont quit the stage crew(and good for you that you are on stage crew)
2. next time he waves at you then punch him in the face. if you arent violent then u can wave back sarcastically too =) either way is good. 3. ignore him. or if he harrases ur friends u guys can corner him and punch the stuffing out of him =) |
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