need help on a guy, dont know what to do... Options

[xsillygurl2x]

hi pplz hope u guys can understand my prob and try to help me

Im in band and it happened last year when I was a freshman. *Back to the summer of 2003* We had band camps and things. There's this guy who Im a little attracted to and he's really nice, funny, cool, and weird. He's always a great section leader and a great guy. Well later school started, I got into a bigger crush on him, but sadly I was really nervous, Im so nervous that I was scared to reach up to him, even talk to him. On AIM he sometimes email me and say funny things, and I was happy. On December, I found out that I really liked him, but I also know that he likes another girl, I tried to notice them, but it doesnt seem like they really get together. At that time, I was sad, AND also wanted them to get together so I can forget, but at the same time I dont. Then I think that hes starting to get attracted to me, because he keeps secretly staring at me, helping me, and doing nice things, even though he doesnt talk to me at all. (Our relationships with other people in band are different, we both talk to people except for each other.) So I was confused if he like me so I kept it going. School started this September, he still looks at me a lot, not doing much thing with the girl he likes, and we still didnt bother talking to each other. LOL And on AIM, he never email me anymore. This year he's not my section leader anymore, he's our band drum major, so that means we can't get along anymore, because he needs to take care of the whole band instead of a section. So we never talked at all, never said hi, and never talked online. BUT he still lookes at me a lot, I know, and I always look at him too.

Guys?? Do you know whats going on between our relationship now?? Im really confused!!!!!

[HaN4RaNg]

wow, i duno. he probly wants to talk to u but maybe thinks that ur not interested. seems like u've stalled for a long time not taking action on the signs that could mean he wants to get to know u. i suggest u maybe email him and say u wana catch up on things and hang out or something.

[LadyXTor]

Dude, he's not an alien. Go up to him or NOTHING will happen. Just because he's not your section leader anymore doesn't mean you guys can't communicate.

[xsillygurl2x]

hey guys.. thanks for the comments!! Well I'm over him now... I won't continue to live sad lifes just because of him.. Ive still tons of other happy days waiting for me! Well later day my OLD crush!!!!