need some advice Options

[subzero]

ok i met this girl Natallie on Cross Country @ my school. I found out she liked me and i liked her etc..... Well shes really cute, i mean i even get props from some of my friends, were so right for eachother, Im christian, and shes sorta faded so its a bonus if i can bring her back into it, our personalities are a perfect match, and we really like eachother. So you can see its none of that. But the problem is i dont "feel" anything. I mean, you know when your with some1 special you get that "feeling" not necesarrily love, but a good feeling. I dont have that. Were so perfect for eachother, and i can totally see a relationship ahead, but i just cant get that feeling when im with her.

For example, friday nite i went with her and like 8 other friends to go see the grudge. She was totally scared and spent the majority of the movie in my arms. Later we went to the mall that is connected to the theatre, and held hands the whole time. I was doin this cause i see other people doing it, and i was hoping i could feel a togetherness with her. We hugged, held hands all the stuff i see the couples do, but i just didnt feel anything special. I asked one of my friends(girl) about it. She said that it would build with time. But all the couples i know had the feeling on the first date.

What should i do to have her feel special to me. I really like her and wanna pursue a relationship with her, but i wanna get that special feeling with her.