boyfriends, wat 2 do Options

[LoST SouL]

yes idk wat do do my b/f keeps yellin at me n its gettin on my nevers n i kant stand bein single but i still do love him is lovin him the rite thing 2 do?

[NvieDi3ai3yGrL]

if there is n0 reas0n f0r him t0 be yellin at y0u then there is s0mething seri0usly wr0ng.. y0u need t0 talk t0 him and see what's 0n his mind .. d0n't let any guy mistreat y0u f0r n0 reas0n .. even if y0u l0ve them .. d0n't be afraid t0 be al0ne f0r a while .. y0u have t0 respect y0urself .. especially if he d0esn't ap0l0gize f0r is acti0ns when he is at fault .. y0u'd m0st certainly deserve s0me0ne better .. y0u can't help wh0 y0u l0ve .. s0 i w0nt say that l0ving him is the wr0ng thing .. but i have t0 stress that y0u have t0 DO WHAT'S BEST FOR YOU .. even if y0u l0ve him .. s0metimes the best way t0 sh0w y0u care is the hardest .. maybe he sh0uld see what it's like n0t t0 have a go0d pers0n like y0u in his life .. and then he'll c0me ar0und .. go0d luck and do what y0u have t0 d0

[*Podomaht*]

hm, i never yell at anyone, much less get yelled at. if he yells at you alot it could go into physical abuse...

[xjjajeengx]

hmm... he dont deserve you. i mean, you shouldnt have to endure so much stress for him just cause you love him. if he truly respected you and sh!T, he shouldnt yell like that. maybe you do need to let him noe that you think its sh!tty how he yells. and if that dont work, forget him dear, he's not worth a bit of your time.

[*CEP*]

You need to talk to him and tell him that his yelling is gettin' to you. He'll prolly stop then. Ofcourse, you can always just kick his nads. He'll shut up quicker.

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[phanaticalazn21]

killl him

[*AngelicEyz00*]

killl him

I wouldn't go to such extremes... But if i were you, and he were yelling at me, Id be like "who the hell do you think your are ?" heh. I wouldn't take that from him, ya know?

[COLDasICE]

If I were you I'd actually stick up for myself and say "F U too" you know?!, cause there's no way I'm letting a guy yell at me for whatever the reason.. And I would have to say NO about loving him cause you shouldn't when you've been really fair to him and he hasn't in return.. I recommend you to seek for your friends' help, maybe you'll have a better chance to get through to him about the way he makes you feel..

[*jimmyjackiechan*]

I read the first sentence and I just thought to myself...

Abusive relationship = Stress every day~
So bad... Man, I hope I don't have kids till I am 30 or something~

[aud_chua]

don't let him yell at you.. that'll only make him think that he can do worse.. he'll be more abusive as time goes by...
i think that you should stand up to him.. tell him that you really don't feel he's being nice. explain to him that you feel bad because of his actions.
just talk to him.. it'll make things easier....

[fragrance]

yell back
fight back
dont settle for his BS
tell him off
take his money
slap him
leave him

choose one that best fits ur situation.
i, for one, dont like getting yelled at
especially by a guy?! oh helll no!
unless, of course, im at fault.
but if u didnt do anything?? NO
dont put up with it cuz it aint worth the tears, stress and drama

[*jimmyjackiechan*]

State ur opinion in a positive manner and handle it in a mature way than he does. Just to proove who is the "mature one" in the relationship. Like I said earlier, abusive relationships, once they start they should never continue. Diengage right away because ur getting hurt more and more every day and I am sure NON OF US at Createblog wanna see that now~~~

[LoST SouL]

ok my b/f yells at me sumtimes almost everyday 4 no reason is tat abuse?

[Just_Dream]

abuse is something that is done physically, isn' it? I think your bf needs ANGER MANAGEMENT. Don't you agree? lol =P

[conster]

i say talk to him about it, and never ever cry if anything happens... so not worth it.. and y do u need a guy to yell at u? boyfriends are suppose to be there for u and make u happy (thats y people get into relationships cuz they're happy with each other) dont put up with his yelling

[Just_Dream]

He needs Anger Management or something, lol. Aww, he needs to chill! It seems that you deserve SO MUCH BETTER because you seem to take alot of crap from him, since he yells at you so much. Don't let him hurt you. Even if yo love him so much, is he truly worth it? Ask yourself that.

[*Podomaht*]

ild dump him. why would i want to be with someone that is abusive????

[xjjajeengx]

because she loves him (as finishing podomaht's question...)

does he love you dear? if he does, why is he screaming/yelling? i call that abuse of your love, meaning he is taking advantage of you and yelling at you even tho you love him... which is wrong. if it is for a specific reasonable excuse, i wouldnt say anything, but i mean... WHATSS UP WITH THAT! take charge and kick his pitiful @$$... i hate guys like that. or at least most... some guys, all you have ta do is yell back and they'll shut the f*** up

[LoST SouL]

ok like i sed in my other post my b/f yells at me sutimes 4 no reason some people may consider this abuse sum ppl may not i relly love him tho n we have been together for 1 yr n about 4 months now wat shud i do?... shud i break up wit him?

[Just_Dream]

you've been asking this question repeatedly. I know you're lookking for an answer, and I'm not trying to be mean, but I believe reading this twice. Please don't start another question when it's being answered in another. It's quite pointless.

For advice, you shouldn't take that kind of crap from him. 1 year and 4 months? I've been wif my bf for almost as long, and if i were you, i would have a talk with him. don't take his crap. =P

[Just_Dream]

Okay, so i MERGED these 3 SAME topics. I don't know WHY you chose to make 3 different topics talking about the same thing. PLEASE dont' do this again. Sorry for the double posting. This thread seems long, but it is really 3 topics in 1. I just wanted to clean up this section. Please just post one topic, not multiple ones.

[xjjajeengx]

i agree with just dream.
hmm... dont you have two other topics on this...? man... lots of truble eh..? well, just DUMP HIM. its like you loving him but he's just like taking advantage if he cant stop yelling at you. i mean, if you cant take it from the guy you love, maybe you should confront him or yell at him back for once. i've been with my bf for 498 days now, and he never yelled at me except for once, but we ended up making up. make up with ur bf if you want a lasting relationship... i mean, me and my bf are like... BLEH right now cause i derno... we just didnt make things up after being kind of... misunderstood by each other... i ono im depressed as well. but i mean, you should dump him because you desrve better, not a crappy yelling abusive guy like him... so dont worry, just dump him if you cant take it any longer. but if you want another try at it, just talk to him about it... tell him to stop. be the dominant one... yell at him back, fight and make up afterward. thass the best way... (or at least for me...) and dont stress over it... it'll only cause you to be more grief stricken.

what i was about to type before just_dream cleaned it all up...

[LoST SouL]

i wish it were tat ez but like i relly love him n i try n tlk thins out wit him but he jus dun listen n its like i tried 2 hit him once n im jus 2 slow so he stops me then he gets even madder n walks a way then i feel bad n i follow him n have 2 apologize.... o yes btw srry bout creatin so many thingys

[Just_Dream]

Well he doesn't deserve a great girl like you if you could take so much from him. Justleave him. It doesn't seem like he even cares anymore. Does he? Sure, if you leave him, you'd still have feelings for him, but hey, would you rather be in a relationship where you feel like you're nothing? He doesn't seem to appreciate you at all. How can you love someone who would hurt you so much? You're too good for him. He doesn't even know it.

[LoST SouL]

i kud hardlly get the words out of my mouth... thikin bout it makes me cry i relly love him n tis suks... idk its hard i guess isk... its like i also may have a fear of bein single.. wat if he relly does love me n i break up wit him .. i wud have jus threw a 1yr n 4 moths of happyness down the drain...