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| *autumn.* |
 Oct 31 2004, 05:47 PM
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What's your definition of high maintenance? Because apparently I am "high maintenance", and I want to know how i can be....low maintenance.
And I think it means something like its takes high energy to maintain happiness or whatever? Meh. |
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Oct 31 2004, 05:58 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock.  Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
High standards. Not easily pleased.
or Always needs attention. Needs to be well-treated. yadda yadda. |
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Oct 31 2004, 07:34 PM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
High maintenance: Every poor guys nightmare.
Needs to be pampered Needs gifts like 24/7 needs company 24/7 is a bitch..lol 
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Oct 31 2004, 09:33 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
high maintenance...
it means that you're the type of girl who has higher standards. you want your boyfriend to do what you say, when you say it. you want him to buy you gifts and flatter you. things like that.. it can be good or bad. if you're a desirable high maintenance girl.. it means you're hard to get and guys will desire you more... if you want to be low maintenance... the only advice i have is to be more easygoing. |
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Nov 1 2004, 01:01 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Yea, I agree with Melissa, above.
You expect more from guys and you need him to always be around you, maybe even worship the ground you walk on. You have to have him there when you need him. Pretty much expecting alot from your bf. Also, for some girls that I know are high maintenance, they expect the guy to look very presentable, to act and look the way they (the girls) want them to be. |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Nov 1 2004, 01:27 AM
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Me
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Nov 1 2004, 02:37 AM
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Requiring a lot of attention. When describing a person, high-maintenance usually means that the individual is emotionally needy or prone to over-dramatizing a situation to gain attention.
High maitenance = high standards = not easily pleased = expects a lot. |
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Nov 1 2004, 02:47 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Moi.
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Nov 1 2004, 03:09 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
QUOTE(jambaJUICE @ Oct 31 2004, 5:58 PM) High standards. Not easily pleased. or Always needs attention. Needs to be well-treated. yadda yadda. i have high standards..buh i am easily pleased. i always need attention. buh i don`t need to be treated well all the time. |
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| *autumn.* |
Nov 1 2004, 10:23 AM
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hooray for being a hard to please bitch! aklsdgjasgjahg. Alright, time to try and be.......more easygoing.
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Nov 2 2004, 04:51 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
high maintenance - in easier terms..brat
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Nov 2 2004, 09:57 PM
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High Maintenence... you need material things to feel loved.
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Nov 3 2004, 06:40 PM
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 E! Online Group: Member Posts: 302 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,082 |
high maintenance...you whip your boy. lol jkjk
my defintion: hard to please. |
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Nov 7 2004, 10:34 AM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
I"m high maintenance...damn
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Nov 7 2004, 01:56 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
hard to please,loves to be pampered 24/7,loves material things more than true love.
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Nov 7 2004, 03:17 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Higher standards.
Expects more. Harder to please. |
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Nov 7 2004, 03:26 PM
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Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
QUOTE(lilxroxy @ Nov 1 2004, 3:09 AM) i have high standards..buh i am easily pleased. i always need attention. buh i don`t need to be treated well all the time. Ok. 1. She`s asking about what is high maintenance, and how to be "low maintenance." And i gave her my opinion. 2. *but 3. Are you saying that you are or aren`t high maintenance? |
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| *autumn.* |
Nov 7 2004, 06:43 PM
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haha. |
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Nov 15 2004, 06:04 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
ooh this is SOOO me.
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Nov 18 2004, 02:10 AM
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high maintenance people=egotistical people
how to be low maitenancy=dont be bossy, dont talk so much, dont whine, dont ask people to do things for you, just dont be a snob (not saying you are one) 
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Nov 18 2004, 04:24 PM
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LoL don't laugh but I am a pretty high maitenance dude, like I have pretty high standards and stuff...
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Nov 18 2004, 04:50 PM
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I think high maintenance is someone who always needs attention and has to be taken care of
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Nov 18 2004, 05:55 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
high-maintenance means you can have high standards .. there are certain guidelines at which one must follow to please or impress you and keep you around. i see nothing wrong with having such standards. the moment you lower the standards the more open you are to accepting second best when you should strive to get the best of everything. accepting half-assed stuff leaves you with no pure drive to get by everyday. never settle.
there is, however, another interpretation of high-maintenance .. in which you need someone to do everything for you (i.e. you're a spoiled brat who is completely dependent) .. that's a no no .. you need to learn to support and provide for yourself. expecting others to do all the work for you is ridiculous. if you're high-maintenance in that regard then you should make sure you are able to satisfy your own needs rather than looking elsewhere for someone to do it for you. |
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Nov 18 2004, 07:42 PM
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QUOTE(NvieDi3ai3yGrL @ Nov 18 2004, 5:55 PM) high-maintenance can you have high standards .. there are certain guidelines at which one must follow to please or impress you and keep you around. i see nothing wrong with having such standards. the moment you lower the standards the more open you are to accepting second best things when you should strive to get the best of everything. accepting half-assed stuff leaves you with no pure drive to get by everyday. never settle. there is, however, another interpretation of high-maintenance .. in which you need someone to do everything for you (i.e. you're a spoiled brat who is completely dependent) .. that's a no no .. you need to learn to support and provide for yourself. expecting others to do all the work for you is ridiculous. if you're high-maintenance in that regard then you should make sure you are able to satisfy your own needs rather than looking elsewhere for someone to do it for you. Wow she pretty much said it. High maintenance doesn't always mean your a bad person, though. It just means you are harder to please. I dont think i'm too high maintenance?? |
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