My ex-boyfriend hit me..., but im still madly in love with him. |
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 Nov 3 2004, 12:58 AM
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 Want fries with that?  Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652  |
I don't know...this guy sounds scary. If you get back together, he still might abuse you. It might not have been the drugs making him do that.
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Nov 3 2004, 03:18 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
are you sure....? if you love him. and depending on how he treats you before he was on pot. then go if you think he`s worth it..
no one`s perfect. and yes. true love is forever. if he knws what he did wrong. and he`s glad to turn back. thats good :] glucks |
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Nov 8 2004, 01:41 AM
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 Wife of Legolas Group: Member Posts: 1,290 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,190 |
 Pot only makes people do things when they're High on it. I'm pretty sure he doesn't go to school when he IS high.  to put it this way, I think he doesn't deserve you.. because.. if he can't control his emotions even when he's in a perfectly normal condition, I dont' see the a good reason for him to hit you.
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Nov 8 2004, 01:43 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
idk... if he truely has changed then i guess u can get back together with him, but if u c any sign of him being violent and stuff like that then break up with him rite away
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Nov 8 2004, 05:08 AM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
Cycle of violence:
*Tension Building: Minor conflics and possible some physical abuse, spouse may think things will get better if they try to please the other more. *Explosion: Some type of violence, may be triggered by an argument or fight, abuse may be phsycial sexual or emotional. Person left feeling worthless and depressed. *"HoneyMoon": Abuser may become nice again, sorry/kind/loving/apolosive. Will promise that it will never happen again. Key word is promise, because it goes right back to tension building. Sooner or later the cycle will start again, however the victem will not realize it because they feel they are in love, and they feel that if they try harder to please their "love" that things will get better, however it doesnt. It may be a few months or a few years, or the person may never realize this. A sad world we live in. This is something we had to write down in my teen issues class and i thought i would share it with you CBers in this forum who are going through tough relationships. If you watch opra there was an episode a little while ago with a husband and wife. The husband treated her crap. He hurt her so bad, but never hit her. He would yell at her, make her feel worthless, make her think it was all her fault. Opra had a camera crew in the house and they actually taped it, it was bad. Both the husband and the wife came on the show and it was awful. The girl kept saying "i should have been stronger...it was all my fault" yada yada yada..he said he would change. 2 months later he was back to the old ways. this guy doesnt deserve u, find some one eles, if u dont it will hurt u in the long run. good luck |
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Nov 8 2004, 11:17 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Use your best judgement! But, remember people warned you!
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Nov 8 2004, 11:19 AM
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 JeSsIcA rAyE Group: Member Posts: 782 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,977 |
he hit you....... why would you wanna go back........ even if you love him that's wrong
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Nov 8 2004, 12:34 PM
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 Indie Fairy Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,135 |
Stay away as far as possible!!! You don't know if he might abuse you again. Get help and tell someone you trust...even if you love him, theres no excuse for him to hit you, and if he loves you he shouldnt be doing that!
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Nov 8 2004, 03:36 PM
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I don't think she bothers to come here anymore, so why reply?
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Nov 8 2004, 05:52 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
1. Stop with the "love" bit.
2. Don`t get with him, even if he might not hit you, the pot will come back, and you might even get into it. 3. krnxswat is right. |
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Nov 8 2004, 08:08 PM
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New member! But already awsome Group: Member Posts: 17 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 61,345 |
Hes not worht your time!
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Nov 8 2004, 09:37 PM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
wtf? no... i have nothing to say on this but wtf...
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Nov 14 2004, 02:56 AM
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 i wanna hug <3 Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,811 |
DONT get back with him....because even though they say they change....habits are hard to break and you never know if he's still doing it or if he will start doing it again...if you guys get back together...and you guys break up...not onli will it shatter your heart it will also shatter his...ahha just my thoughts
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Nov 14 2004, 03:02 AM
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 Magic Crayons Group: Member Posts: 142 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,315 |
pot is bad stuff!
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Nov 14 2004, 04:13 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,855 |
he's not worth it....domestic abuse will escalate and continue
no matter hwo sorry or sweet he seems, they DONT change trust me, Ive taken the same women to the hospital in our ambulance so many times for it its not even funny |
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Nov 14 2004, 04:58 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
definitely not! on the surface he may have changed, but deep down, you never know. if you get back together w/ him, he'll prbly hit you again.
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Nov 14 2004, 08:59 AM
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CrrrAZY GiRly Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 56,405 |
I do still come here to see what people have said... thank you guys seriously i really appreciate all of you commenting... im not so confused anymore... keep commenting if you have something to say please... i really really appreciate it
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Nov 14 2004, 10:52 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
if you think he has changed, get back together with him
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Nov 14 2004, 01:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 300 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,855 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Nov 14 2004, 10:52 AM) if you think he has changed, get back together with him well that deserves the "look at me I have the worst advice of the YEAR" award 
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Nov 14 2004, 02:34 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
if a guy hits you, espeicially your bf, you should not give him another chance. especially when he has hitten you twice or more. you will js keep getting hurt. mentally and physically. and also he is doing pot.. which is a bad influence. even though he tried to quite or whatever. you stil shouldn't give him another chance.
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