my friends ex, in love with my friends ex |
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 Oct 27 2004, 03:52 PM
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sexxy_babyy  Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,620  |
Well, about a year ago.. my friend had a boyfriend. They only went out for less than a week. Now, i'm in love with her ex. And she still loves him too. He likes me but has made no moves. Both her and i have strong feelings about this ONE boy. So here i am watching her make moves on him. Im okay with it cuase he likes me. But im scared he might lose feelings for me and like her. I really like him. Now i want to go out wiht him. but i cant cause my friend will get so super hurt and she would go out wiht him even though i was getting hurt or not ,becuase she loves him. I'm no the kind of person to hurt someone but i really like this guy. She knows i like him. I need to know, if i should just make the move.. or not?
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Oct 27 2004, 04:27 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
hmm...im so lost...so you dont wanna hurt your friend....but you kno she'd hurt you and go out with him anyways....and he likes you...and he dont like her....and......................she "loves" him? hmm....does yur friend know you like him?
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Oct 27 2004, 04:30 PM
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sexxy_babyy Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 58,620 |
i re-edited.
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Oct 27 2004, 05:23 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
sometimes...in a course of love..you hav to choose..between yur happiness or someone else's ..even if that person is a good friend..i mean ....maybe this is the right guy for you..but you wont ever know until u take the chance...and make a move.
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Oct 27 2004, 05:32 PM
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 ~~Keiyko~~ One & Only~~ Group: Member Posts: 101 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,324 |
Well if he likes you, I'd say go for it, if she's really your friend, then she would be happy for you. Hurt of course, but that's just how some things happen. You shouldn't pass up the opportunity just cuz your friend likes him also.. unless he likes your friend instead of you, but since that's not the case...
and if u really wanna think about it more... here's a question : which do you value more, your friendship with your friend, or having a boyfriend that probably might not last? the choice is up to you. sorry if im blunt.. i get this a lot with friends  good luck anyways !! 
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