help...bf problems.., my bf dosnt talk like at all |
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 Oct 21 2004, 05:44 PM
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my boyfriend dosnt talk alot, only when we werent going out when we just friends, thats the only time he talked alot...
 ok so, help..how do i get him to be boyfriend material..???. |
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Oct 21 2004, 05:47 PM
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 can't believe I let people call me Lynne on here 5 yrs ago o Group: Member Posts: 243 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,591 |
well u can try u kno actin like u were juss friends and see if reacts to that
then add the bf/gf stuff... lol i dunno... |
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Oct 21 2004, 06:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
ok maybe he is shy or he doesn't like to be seen with you at school? Just talk to him about it
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Oct 21 2004, 06:13 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i guess maybe shy or nervous? you really should talk to him about this... only way to solve it!
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Oct 21 2004, 06:17 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
:sigh: noooooob.
you can't get anyone to be boyfriend material. maybe he enjoyed the thrill of the chase (meaning the quest to nab you, get a free pass to second base, and eventually f*ck you bowlegged) and, after you two hooked up, he got bored. maybe he just lost interest. maybe he's just not ready for a relationship, and now that he's finally your boyfriend, he just doesn't know where to take it. maybe he had his tonsils removed and it hurts for him to open his mouth. corner him sometime and force him to talk. if he doesn't tell you why he's not talking, assume that he's been sucking some other girl's face for some time now, and dump his ass. btw. this should be in relationships. |
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Oct 21 2004, 06:53 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah.
He's either shy, nervous, uncomfortable, or this could be his first [or close to first] relationships? [shrug] How's about you talk more, and then he'll start to talk more! |
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Oct 21 2004, 07:01 PM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
you can't get anyone to be boyfriend material. maybe he enjoyed the thrill of the chase (meaning the quest to nab you, get a free pass to second base, and eventually f*ck you bowlegged) and, after you two hooked up, he got bored. maybe he just lost interest. maybe he's just not ready for a relationship, and now that he's finally your boyfriend, he just doesn't know where to take it.
^^ i think thats soo true but, then again, it could be false? lol i dont know |
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Oct 21 2004, 07:02 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
train him like a dog
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Oct 21 2004, 09:35 PM
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 D.J. headPHONES Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,807 |
QUOTE(yummy_delight @ Oct 21 2004, 6:17 PM) :sigh: noooooob. you can't get anyone to be boyfriend material. maybe he enjoyed the thrill of the chase (meaning the quest to nab you, get a free pass to second base, and eventually f*ck you bowlegged) and, after you two hooked up, he got bored. maybe he just lost interest. maybe he's just not ready for a relationship, and now that he's finally your boyfriend, he just doesn't know where to take it. maybe he had his tonsils removed and it hurts for him to open his mouth. corner him sometime and force him to talk. if he doesn't tell you why he's not talking, assume that he's been sucking some other girl's face for some time now, and dump his ass. btw. this should be in relationships. DONT CLALL HER A N00P PLEASE, SHES MY BFF! YEAH, THATS WHAT I SAID! B F F ! =] <3 ok, i think u should break up with me, hehe, but you know me...=], ok, laterz! |
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Oct 21 2004, 09:37 PM
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D.J. headPHONES Group: Member Posts: 266 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,807 |
QUOTE(glitter____soup @ Oct 21 2004, 5:44 PM) my boyfriend dosnt talk alot, only when we werent going out when we just friends, thats the only time he talked alot... ok so, help..how do i get him to be boyfriend material..???. AND SHE DOSENT KNOW WHAT TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT...Ideas??? we know each other in real life, =] |
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Oct 21 2004, 10:24 PM
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Well I'm not going to bother helping you out because it doesn't even seem like you care about this thread anymore.
Two words: He doesn't like you. |
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Oct 22 2004, 10:09 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
Maybe give him something to talk about...haha...okay jk
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Oct 22 2004, 10:30 AM
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 t3h koolest guy in cB Group: Member Posts: 2,194 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 513 |
my gf is the same way... i end up asking her why she isnt talking.. then she starts to talk because she feels like she's doing something wrong..
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Oct 23 2004, 10:43 AM
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 .::sweet on you::. Group: Member Posts: 509 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,753 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 21 2004, 10:24 PM) Well I'm not going to bother helping you out because it doesn't even seem like you care about this thread anymore. Two words: He doesn't like you. thats 4 words  .....and yeah it's probobly true too 
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Oct 23 2004, 10:56 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 382 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,179 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Oct 21 2004, 7:02 PM) train him like a dog haha...yeah train him as a dog i think that would actually work |
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Oct 24 2004, 12:17 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Try to ask him what he's interested in. And tell him your interests, that way, you and him can compare. And most of all, maybe you can get him to be interested in what you like to do and whatnot lol. At first, I didn't talk that much with my bf. But I mean after like a few days, he called me and well I told him about my life and asked him about his. You should try to get him to open up. Maybe he's shy and/or insecure with himself and he can't seem to say anything. You should reassure him that you're willing to listen to whatever he has to say and that communication is an important factor in the growth of a relationship.
If he doesn't want to open up to you and he doesn't really care, then maybe it's time you get someone new... |
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Oct 24 2004, 10:28 AM
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ask him y,wow dat must suck like hell!!
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Oct 27 2004, 09:36 PM
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 ...and this is me.. Group: Member Posts: 3,518 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,899 |
hmm, maybe he's afraid of saying the wrong thing and turning you off.
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Oct 30 2004, 01:11 AM
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AsianUniQ Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,713 |
maybe the problem is...........he IS boyfreind material. See the difference between being a freind and being a boyfreind? when he's jsut ur freind, he could tell you anything, everything and he knows that you wont mind listening, and you would understand...............so lets say when you two were still freinds, and hes goign out with another girl, and he has girls problem.Certainly he will come to you and tell you about it, adn ask for your opinions.... Now that he's your bf, with him being less talkatives means that he has things on his mind. You are now his gf, so he cant really go to you and tell you his girl problems now could he? if you want him to be his old self again, it think its best for you to jsut talk to him. get it straight.
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Oct 30 2004, 12:50 PM
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 iLLeGiT NeWbIe :D Group: Member Posts: 24 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,953 |
Talk to him about it, it happened to my friend and...they ended breaking up.
Guess they weren't ready 
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Oct 31 2004, 09:27 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
my bf is kinda like that... but.. he just doesnt talk to anyone but me... he doesnt really have ne friends... (he's on the gothic side)
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