Premarital Sex, Yes or No? |
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 Apr 19 2004, 08:41 PM
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 wanderlust personified.  Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797  |
QUOTE(mznina @ Apr 19 2004, 8:37 PM) i like spooning.. with me?  LMAO. Girl, that was so random, haha. [EDIT] oh i see, you were responding to. [/EDIT] |
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Apr 19 2004, 08:46 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,261 |
I haven't read all this.. so forgive me if what I say has been said to death.. =)
I'm a believer in premarital sex. Not at ages as young as 13 and 14, but more around 17 or 18. I think it's totally natural for people to be exploring, and they should be comfortable with their sexuality. Sex isn't a bad thing. As long as you know what you're doing and you want to do it, I think you should go for it. I certainly don't plan to wait til I'm married. Besides, what if you got married to a guy and he couldn't please you sexually at ALL? I'm not saying it'd be basis for a divorce or anything, but it sure would put a damper on the relationship. I'd rather be comfortable with my body and who I am before I get married, but that's just me. |
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Apr 19 2004, 08:51 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Apr 19 2004, 8:41 PM) with me? LMAO. Girl, that was so random, haha. [EDIT] oh i see, you were responding to. [/EDIT] YES ROX!! lol. ur a weirdo haha. oh yeh pm me about how ur subbing went! |
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Apr 20 2004, 01:05 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
to me premarital sex is okay...i mean unless you have certain beliefs that permit you to not do that...but i believe that the person you married should have at least experience and what not...so that when you and your sponse makes love and stuff.....it will be way more easy to enjoy and rather not have all the pain...to me that is how i feel but otherwise i differ
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Apr 23 2004, 11:26 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,206 |
it's okay i guess. i'd be a hypocrite if i say it's not. :S
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Apr 23 2004, 11:28 AM
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Apr 27 2004, 04:53 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i think its wrong... my friend had done it recently... and she is not herself anymore.... i guess sex is more crazy than we think! its more emotional than physical
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Apr 27 2004, 04:57 PM
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Sex is something that should be shared between you and your spouse. Not only that, but think of all the nasty disease out there. Do you really want the risk of getting those? Speaking of risks, do you really want to risk getting pregnant before you planned? It will change your life and that is why I'm against premarital sex.
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Apr 27 2004, 06:27 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
i dunno..its supposed to be bad but what if a guy leavesu because they think ur "boring"? i mean lots of girls give it up cause their bfs will leave them if they didnt give it up..thats happened to me..im a virgin and i plan to wait till im married but its already hard now..too much pressure...i know that if a guy leaves u just because he wasnt getting any means that he really didnt love u and care for u and respect u but some girls regret not giving it up cause they really liked that guy.....and some guys expect u to have sex with them..its like its a standard in a relationship..i heard this qoute from a guy once "u wouldn't buy a pair of shoes with out trying them on first so why would u wanna get married before u have sex first" (it went something like that)..
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Apr 27 2004, 06:51 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,952 |
Yah, it depends on what u believe really. I mean, hey that's u, right? If u don't believe in god or any of that, what does it matter?
I believe in God, so I kno that it's wrong. But if I ended up doing it, I haveta face the consequences. |
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Apr 27 2004, 08:29 PM
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 Mileage Runner Group: Member Posts: 1,316 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,458 |
I would say no to premarital sex due to my beliefs buts there's always the damn temptation that will be consistently bothering until marriage...
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Apr 27 2004, 09:03 PM
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 Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,476 |
sex is hard 2 hold off. wen u feelin it, u jus need sum release
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Apr 27 2004, 10:35 PM
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i dont think so.. like what if the guy breaks up after they had sex, and what would the woman do?? wait.. that could happen even when they are married.. um,m.. im confoozed
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Apr 28 2004, 01:35 AM
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Silver Hawk Group: Member Posts: 183 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,909 |
i dun agree!! it's against the law in my country
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Apr 28 2004, 04:53 AM
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 muted imperfections <3 Group: Official Member Posts: 3,295 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,260 |
when i was younger i made a promise to myself, my parents, and God that i would wait until i got married. it was just something that i wanted to do and knew it was a good choice even when i was younger. and so far ive kept my promise. im not having sex just because it says it in the bible and i must abide but thats one of the reasons why i dont do that. another is that its such a priceless gift that God has given me and its something that i want to give to my husband. i know thats corny but thats just how i feel at the moment. ppl tell me that im missing out and ive been dumped for not giving into that temptation but it doesnt phase me at all. who knows what may happen...but for now im trying really hard to keep my promise.
 jackie
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Apr 28 2004, 09:33 AM
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 Liv's Secret Lover *shhhh* Group: Member Posts: 201 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,229 |
I disagree with premarital sex...
 Every person you have sex with makes a bond between you and that person. When you get married, you aren't giving all of yourself to your spouse if you're not a virgin, because you have so many soul ties with other people. Anyway...I voted no. 
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Apr 28 2004, 12:26 PM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
i think its ok. i dont have a probalem with it. people who know me know why
 anyways. i dotn mind. just prootect yourself. but its always a beautiful thing to saveit for your husband on the night you get maried. |
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May 2 2004, 04:17 AM
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michelle is queen Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,060 |
no
points to bible |
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May 2 2004, 06:20 AM
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i wish i would have waited, but its really up to you, and whether you're ready or not. try looking past the moment though
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May 2 2004, 09:39 AM
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May 2 2004, 09:02 PM
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QUOTE(WhiteChocolate @ Apr 28 2004, 9:33 AM) I disagree with premarital sex... Every person you have sex with makes a bond between you and that person. When you get married, you aren't giving all of yourself to your spouse if you're not a virgin, because you have so many soul ties with other people. Anyway...I voted no. Yeah...when you have sex, it's like you give part of yourself away, and what if you break up with the person? You gave away a part of yourself. I vote no. I'm against premarital sex. SEx is a act after a marriage when you choose to give all of yourself to someone you love. But then again, people have sex before marriage, but it is their choice. |
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May 2 2004, 09:19 PM
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Wendar xp Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,718 |
see, the thing with sex is that, if a guy does it, no one will ever know except him and the girl, if he doesn't boast about it to his friends. For a girl, there are so many risks, and when she gets married in the future, and she has her wedding night, her husband will know, and then it'll be hard for him to trust her. I mean, if she got raped, sure, he'd believe her, but if she was willing, then it's harder for there to be trust in their relationship. Guys tend to get off easy on a lot of things. So the answer for me is no.
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May 2 2004, 09:56 PM
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 Createblog-a-holic Group: Member Posts: 348 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,819 |
no i dont think it is okay. i'm gonna wait until i'm married!!! thats final
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May 3 2004, 12:56 AM
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"Born again virgin".....haha
I don't think that concept even exists. |
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May 7 2004, 10:08 AM
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*blink blink* Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,585 |
It could depend... I think I might feel comfortable as long as I`m over 25. But after getting married should be fun tOo.
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