my friends are ignoring me, and it hurts Options

[Suesterrx]

i moved.. and my old friends are starting to forget me
i used to be cool with it, i know they wouldnt forget me.. but then they started not to call anymore, no more comments, no more meeting on saturdays and not even any "hi" or "i miss u" and we dont even talk on aim.
today i got really upset and i cried my ass off. theres this guy i used to be friendly wif. and he made other friends that are girls..and those girls used to be my best friends too. they forgot about me faster. and i hear that when they see eachother in the hallways they call him in a sappy voice, and touch his hair and everything.. they also ditched me in the movie theaterers, and i saw them in the pizza shop, and i just walked away.. i visit my old town every saturday[ thats how i see them and everything] and when i see them playing handball, i just swing on the swingset with my other friend i go to violin lessons with.. and when i get home i end up thinking about it all the time..
today i told him and he didnt answer back yet... i just said "___ur ignoring me.. u just dont care anymore.. i see u made new friends.. better than i ever was, right? forget it, ___, just tell me honestly if u moved on so i can move on okay?" i was extremly sad at the moment.. and i just felt so mixed up.. when i see them in the park acting all sappy or read their comment they leave on his xanga.. sending back and forth "i luv u, __" or "i'll see u tomorrow, BFF!!" it just makes me.. arghh.. im not jealous or anything.. i just feel like hes completly forgot about me.. and i knew him for like 4 years already.. ever since this summer, he just made new friends and doesnt talk to me anymore.. the words he say like "bye sue, or i miss u" sounds SO MUCH fake.

[sammi rules you]

that usually happens when people move away..it's not cool, but it does happen. make new friends in your new town to piss them off. =) don't act like you care.

[inthemudhole]

Grr!
Those asshats!
-_-
Ugh, that makes me so mad!
Either tell them, or do what Sammi said.. make them jealous.. make new friends where you live now. Maybe they'll come to their senses if they know you did.

[xcesx]

if thats the case then they were never ur friends to begin with because friends dont do stupid things like that..friends wud always b there for u and always have time for you..hope all goes well..

[ShadowPixie]

if thats the case then they were never ur friends to begin with because friends dont do stupid things like that

That is so true. They must not have cared that much about you, so just forget them. They are just ignoramusses for doing that. Now you have the opportunity to meet better people and be friends with them. And the most important thing to remember is, even if they forget you, you should never forget them, because that way you'll never be down at thier level. They will always be beneath you. ~<(".<)

[xPartyGrlDx]

i sort of have the same problem. except i only switched schools & some rarely talk to me except my best and good friends. well, are they really your best friends if they don't talk to you, ect.? call them to remind them that you are still there for them & you still want to be friends.

[betrayedbytheduc...]

that's a bummer. like the people before me said, friends are always there for each other and don't leave anyone behind. Try going to different clubs or something and interact with new people.

[SuiE]

i noe EXACTLII how you feel.. i used to live in brooklyn (new york) and i moved to staten island.. and mah friends when i moved were like "omg sue im gonna miss you soo much" and "im gonna call you every single day" but now we rarely talk.. but when we doo.. its like were onlii a couple minutes from each others houses again.. but if your friends are treating you like that then they dont deserve your friendship.. you made friends before.. you can make more again =) i noe its hard.. trust me i noe.. but you just have to try =)

[xheavenzcentzx]

awww thas really sad. Dont worry I know how you feel.. why? cuz i had to go to surgery couple months back and I was pretty much confined to my bed for 3months and all my close ties with friends.. slowly withered away. They never call, they always have bf's to deal with, they hardly come visit me, but im not talking about all my friends. but the point is.. they really dont mean to. they're just dumb sometimes, things will blow over and you'll be okay in the end =)

[lil_shadow]

aww dang i know how you feel...i've gone through that too. (actually im still going through it) u know what you gotta do. u gotta walk right up to that guy and smack him hard on his big ol ugly face =) and then tell em how u feel and walk away.

[houjin_himo]

if your friends are really that shallow GEEZ FORGET THEM...make new friends but dont hate them...and if they say hi to you say hi back make new ones...and you wont feel so alone nemore

[mouse_3k]

you can either

1. move on and find new friends
2. try to still be friends (letters, email, aim, etc.)
3. ignore them back

[xpressionist04]

aww thats really sad. how could your so called friends do that to you? If they were really your friends then they would not be ignoring you right now...like everyone is saying just make new friends and make them jealous by showing them that you can have so much more fun without them.

[Br0kenxImag3]

Aww, Thats a tough one. Well, You can let it get to you and go insane...Or you can do something about it. Well you have a few choices
-Make New friends
-Try your best to become friends with them again
-And what the others have said
If you want to go back and be friends with them, I suggest on a weekend having a small get together. Watch movies, Talk about stuff, Let it flow.

Good luck.

[babiipuffs]

hmmm..to me it doesn't sound like these people are worth it? Its hard ofcourse cuz u think that these people actually care about u...but then u see their tru colors You live and you learn Dunt worry bout it girl keep ya head up..Im sure things gonna get betta

[sheddingtears]

not even a hi? =\ but this usually does happen when people move. my old best friend is just now my friend ever since we moved to different places. yeah, we're not as close anymore. it's sad, but we still talk, rarely. it's okay. just move on and find yourself some new friends.

[ichiban]

Friend problems where they ignore you or something, they just make me so sad. I hate people who would do such a thing to you. They're such b*tches. But try making new friends.

[jennyjenny]

They've probably moved on...

I mean, you moved...
and they probably don't want to only talk to someone 1 day a week...
and you can't really talk about anything..
u can't talk about school..
make new friends

[Winter]

I guess that happens a lot in life. I was great friends with a lot of people in middle school and once you get into high school you just talk lest and lest everyday. Then one day before you realise it, the phone calls have stopped coming. There are no new emails from them. People move on. You should too.

[xj_liana_tx]

that happens to me too.. and it makes me thinks about how much time i ve wasted on them before