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 Oct 16 2004, 12:03 AM
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 DAM ITS SHELBY  Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,864  |
On August 20, 2004 one of my friends Kerina Salazar was driving home from a camping trip. Her car collided into another car and she was flung out the window. She was prononced dead at 7:39 PM Friday evening in a local Barstow Hospital.
At her funeral they played one of her favorite songs "Diary" by Alicia Keys. At the ending of the song her mother came up to her grave and put the soil on her grave. Now everytime I listen to that one paticular part I cry a lot. Then when I try to sing it in my mind. It skips over that one part. Do you think that is unusual that I can't remember it when I try to think about it and when I listen to it I cry a lot? It has really made me wonder. In loving memory of Kerina Elaine G. Salazar April 4,1990-August 20,2004 |
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Oct 16 2004, 12:07 AM
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 oh sweet pestilence Group: Member Posts: 2,251 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,876 |
First off, i am deeply sorry about your loss! I wish there was some way i could help. But i know that loosing someone takes a lot of time. Take your time & i hope everything is alright! Second, No i dont think it's unusual. It's normal, you have lost your friend and are greeving (sp?). Most of the time it doesn't really hit you until 3 weeks later, well, that was my case.
 Flowers for you! RIP Kerina Salazar.
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Oct 16 2004, 12:37 AM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
no. nothings wrong with it, nothing at all.
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Oct 16 2004, 12:42 AM
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 I HEART NICHOLAS TSE Group: Official Member Posts: 2,726 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,116 |
I'm really sorry about your friend's death... i too have lost a friend... actually i lost 3 friends.. total.
 It's just all in your head.. u just miss her too much.. btw, your friend has a DL at the age of 14?  R.I.P |
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Oct 16 2004, 01:02 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I'm sorry about your friend. =/
Losing a friend is always really tough.. I've lost one before. |
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Oct 16 2004, 01:17 AM
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questions make me blue. Group: Member Posts: 2,608 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,796 |
QUOTE(lookitskim @ Oct 16 2004, 12:42 AM) btw, your friend has a DL at the age of 14? woah...i didn`t realize that either!  everything will be better soon. you`re friend is in a better place now, just remember that. she`ll be in my prayers.  R.I.P. |
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Oct 16 2004, 05:17 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
omg im soooooo sorry about ur fren ='(. but yea theres nothing wrong with u wen that happens
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Oct 16 2004, 07:36 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
aww.. I'm sorry to hear abt the loss of your friend.
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Oct 16 2004, 07:51 AM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
nothings wrong... im really sorry about your friend :( how old was she?
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Oct 16 2004, 10:54 AM
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 Ah, mon Dieu ! Group: Member Posts: 2,274 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,587 |
your friend must be 14 or 15... she can drive?
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Oct 16 2004, 11:01 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 247 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,891 |
^ yea, that's what i was thinking. how can she be 14 & drive?
anyways, i'm sorry to hear about your friend. r.i.p. |
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Oct 16 2004, 03:54 PM
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 Seien Sie bitte mein Geliebter! Group: Member Posts: 660 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,436 |
QUOTE(RandomHero @ Oct 16 2004, 12:07 AM) First off, i am deeply sorry about your loss! I wish there was some way i could help. But i know that loosing someone takes a lot of time. Take your time & i hope everything is alright! Second, No i dont think it's unusual. It's normal, you have lost your friend and are greeving (sp?). Most of the time it doesn't really hit you until 3 weeks later, well, that was my case. Flowers for you! RIP Kerina Salazar.I totally agree. Sometimes your brain blocks out painful memories as a type of defense. So, since you associate that song with Kerina's death, it doesn't suprise me. I'm so sorry for your loss. Never forget: life lies in the soul; not in the body. She'll always be with you... |
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Oct 16 2004, 04:06 PM
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 moohaha Group: Member Posts: 2,214 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,985 |
awwwwwwww im sorry.... R.I.P
woah she drove at age 14........ |
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Oct 16 2004, 09:42 PM
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 Imperfect... Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 55,064 |
sorry bout ur friend...i dont realli think its unusual that u cant remember a part...maybe ur mind is telling u to stop thinkin about it and go on with your life...im not tellin u to 4get her but i think she would realli want u to be happy...may ur friend R.I.P
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Oct 16 2004, 09:54 PM
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 you are hott Group: Member Posts: 164 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,339 |
i know how you feel.
3 years ago (wow its been that long...) my best friend was going to a summer camp. she was with a group from her church in one of those grey hound buses. the driver apparently had a history of drugs and such and he fell asleep at the wheel and collided into a cement pillar thing from an over pass. out of like 30 people she was 1 out of 4 people who died. Just to let you kno time does heal. its been three years and i still miss her but ive gone on with my life. I hope your friend is in a better place. |
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Oct 16 2004, 10:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
wow, im so sorry to hear that about your friend..she had such a short life..may her rest in peace
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Oct 16 2004, 10:35 PM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(lookitskim @ Oct 16 2004, 12:42 AM) I'm really sorry about your friend's death... i too have lost a friend... actually i lost 3 friends.. total. It's just all in your head.. u just miss her too much.. btw, your friend has a DL at the age of 14? R.I.P yeah I got kinda confused there, but I'm sorry to hear  but, no I don't think it's weird
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Oct 17 2004, 12:33 AM
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DAM ITS SHELBY Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,864 |
she was driving with her dad and uncle. She couldnt drive. she was only 14.
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Oct 17 2004, 12:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 150 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,841 |
QUOTE(beautifulfalling @ Oct 16 2004, 9:54 PM) i know how you feel. 3 years ago (wow its been that long...) my best friend was going to a summer camp. she was with a group from her church in one of those grey hound buses. the driver apparently had a history of drugs and such and he fell asleep at the wheel and collided into a cement pillar thing from an over pass. out of like 30 people she was 1 out of 4 people who died. Just to let you kno time does heal. its been three years and i still miss her but ive gone on with my life. I hope your friend is in a better place. wuz that in dallas cuz that happend here too. yea im really really sorry about ur friend i don't think forgetting the words and crying is unusual, its just a period of ur grieving for her. hope u feel better soon
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Oct 17 2004, 03:16 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
awww losing a friend is very sad... i mean i'll be sad if my friend who was so nice to me and who was standing up for me died the next day... i'll be totally sad about it >.<;; but anyways so sorry to hear that your friend died, but dont wry she's looking down at you! o... so her dad drove her home...ok... i was gona say a 14 year old drive....heh but anyways
for you!
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Oct 17 2004, 12:00 PM
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you are hott Group: Member Posts: 164 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,339 |
QUOTE(rhqtpie @ Oct 17 2004, 12:41 AM) wuz that in dallas cuz that happend here too. yep. thats where i live |
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Oct 17 2004, 06:51 PM
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 I'm just a little bit crazy... Group: Member Posts: 1,119 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,760 |
it's normal... it's human emotions.
you're just not over the grieving process yet... there, there... ::pats back:: it is hard, and we cannot lie about that. the more the person is closer to your heart, the harder it is. |
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Oct 17 2004, 08:05 PM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
aww its ok. everyone here on sees this will know someone important in your life has died. everyone dies, it's just a matter of time. if she lived a filling life, then it's okay. until then...
{R.I.P Kerina Elaine G. Salazar} |
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Oct 17 2004, 08:31 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
thats so sad. i'm really sorry. RIP
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