the 'L' word, wat do you think? Options

[xpink_starzx]

My boy friend broke up with me it wasn't a serious relationship. He told me he broke up with me because i didn't say 'i LOVE you' as much as he wanted me to. I don't think it's right to tell someone, i love you if you don't really mean it. does it matter that much to guys ?

[kalyps0]

I don't know...I didn't think it did. I have found most guys rush into it. Though my bf wouldn't say it until he knew I loved him too... Just depends on the guy I think.

[kiSHBall]

theres no point in saying those three special words if u say it too much.. bcuz then it would lose its "meaning"!!
i guess maybe.. u have to shOw it?
well. i just don't think that people can just throw those words around like that without meaning it. u didn't do anythign wrong.

[*x____duckii*]

Woah...I see why he broke up w/ you...










Just kiddin. It's just stupid when people want to rush a relationship. =|

[pink_tootsie]

yup you have to feel it first and then say as you feel

[inthemudhole]

Yeah.. you have to feel it, and you obviously didn't, so it's okay. You didn't do anything wrong. Yes, it still hurts, but keep in mind.. you didn't do anything wrong. :]

I think in my last relationship we used "love" a bit freely.. maybe that was a bad thing, I dunno.. but yeah.

[LiLaZnGirL122]

awww forget him hes a rusher i mean u shouldnt say da "i love u" if u dont mean it... its stupid its aiite

[x0143637x0]

if he says it so many times then theres no more meaning to it. its not bout saying it. its bout showing it.

[ikayto]

wow what a retarded reason for a break up.......i say...BULL SHIT ahaha.........yea i agree with you that if you dont mean it; why say it....;p

[sandra]

well ask him... would he rather hear an i love you with no meaning by just simply saying it... or hear it with love and confidence?

[*stephinika*]

wow thats stupid. i agree with you, you shouldn't throw that word around if you don't mean it.

[babyxyelloe]

-___- idddddiot, it doesnt matter to me, but you're right you shouldnt say i L0VE you unless you really mean it, cause like yeahh . -___- it annoys me how people say i love you after like 2 weeks of dating . x= no offense to people who do

[compleXperceptio...]

you did a good thing in terms of not saying that word if you don`t feel it or you don`t know that you are... the word "love" is too often thrown around like it`s a part of our everyday vocabulary and that`s pretty dayam sad... `cause eventually, to some people, it begins to lose meaning.

and if you guys broke up because he thought you didn`t say "i love you" to him as often as he wanted you to, then he`s just stupid.

[jennifish]

double you tee eff? i think the boy's not worth it. love cannot be put in words.

[angel-roh]

you're boyfriend dumped you cause you didn't say enough of "i love you" word to him? omg that's gay... that's reallie stupid. i mean you can say "i love you" whenever you want and whenever you feel like to. i mean it's not like you have to say it everyday and a lot to him....gez what the heck is his problem? or maybe he just wanted a serious relationship that he wanted to know from his girl that his girl truly love him so much. i guess he just wanted to hear it again and again, which can annoy his girl a lot. i know that it happened to my friend, deana and she was sick of saying "i love you" to her boyfriend... cause all he wants to hear from her is that three word everyday when she sees her boyfriend. there's guy who gets so curious and dont believe their girlfriend... i'm pretty much like your boyfriend... im kinda like that too, i get scared and nervous if my boyfriend doesnt say i love you to me a lot... i think negative stuff a lot which is not good...maybe ur boyfriend was thinking the same way as i did? i dont know cause i dont know him but i just have that feeling maybe he's just curious and worried everyday.

[nlgrl]

ask him why he wants u to say it so much... cuz... well to me i dun use the word love to often cuz the last time i used it... eh lets just say this guy i wasnt goin out wit said it too early... and i said it too and yea... he broke my heart :(

[*Weird addiction*]

to me it does....u gotta tell me that cos it keeps me in love with ya...

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

your boyfriend is a dumbass. Not saying i love u is a bullshit reason for breaking up. If he loved you, he wouldnt have done it. But idiots like him confuse love for lust.

the L word to me can mean to things, i love u as a friend or a love u as a lover. But i throw it around loosely and whoever falls in love with me just for me saying that...*sigh*

[inquisitive_]

That really gets me mad. People just throw the word around like its nothing.
Hes a dummie though. Thats such a stupid reason to break up with someone. If you didn't love him, then its good that you didn't say it.

[PinkTrash]

Yeah, hes bullshitting you. Theres probably another reason, he made this up as an excuse. What an idiot he is -.-

[madRooney]

only say it when u really mean it
i'd prefer to be honest instead of hiding feelings

[sammi rules you]

that is a stupid reason to break up with someone; if you didn't really love him, you did nothing wrong.

[goofipinay]

he probly didnt love u
i mean it could be puppy love
besides u cant force ne1 to say sumthin..ur lying bout ur feelings if u do! and sumtimes if u say "i love you" even if u dont mean it..u dont kno if u really do or not later on..

my friends say that a lot..u do sumthin really nice "omg i love you" but its those times when u kno theyre probly joking..or its a big thank you..lol

[smile4me]

uh....

thats ridiculous.
maybe it was a good thing u broke up with him...
my bf really..doesnt' mind. hahaahha that guy refuses to do anything until i make the first move..
so i guess its just this one guy...

[EvraeMorbid]

Even to form such beautiful words,is hard for me. My boyfriend told me he loved me after a half of year of going out, which was good since I had just came from an abusive relationship.