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 Oct 9 2004, 03:41 AM
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i'm not really going out with a guy right now..
but we're just sorta at the stage where we know we like eachother but we're not doing anythign about it? just yet? people tell me he's really relaly shy around me. and i can tEll. he talks, and comes close to me.. but never touches me should i just wait for him? or should i just go for it? hMm...? 
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Oct 9 2004, 09:40 AM
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 Your love is a razorblade kiss ♥ Group: Member Posts: 1,794 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 9,959 |
just gooo for it!
but r u totally 100% sure dat he lyks u bak as much as u lyk him? well if u r... go for it! |
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Oct 9 2004, 09:54 AM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Id say it doesnt matter, if something were to be, let it be
 My guy friends have a big debate, on who should make the first move.. lol. |
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Oct 9 2004, 10:12 AM
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 I have eccentric ideas... Group: Member Posts: 169 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,035 |
Eh... Speaking from a guy's perspective really quick on this one...
You should ask him... Sometimes it is hard for guy's to make the first move, because they are afraid of getting rejected... And if he is shy then he might now ask you... Heh... So go for it! |
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Oct 9 2004, 12:01 PM
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 ~The CB Advice Giver~ Group: Member Posts: 505 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,021 |
omg lol
ASK HIM! Girls need to make the first move some times to u know! This guy could be in love with u, but as random said he could be afraid of rejectin, go for it |
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Oct 9 2004, 12:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,340 |
I think you should just gve him suttle signals that you are ready for the next step - just follow your instincts (sp?)
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Oct 9 2004, 12:35 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Go for it?
I don't know, both of you can make moves. |
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Oct 9 2004, 12:37 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, you should definitely go for it, especially since you both know that you like each other.
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Oct 9 2004, 12:37 PM
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 Call me Emily <33. Group: Member Posts: 713 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,579 |
Go for it before it's too late! It doesnt matter to me who does the first move.
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Oct 9 2004, 01:13 PM
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 Kids.Have.All.The.Fun Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,943 |
if u wanna go for him then do it! he's a guy he WoNt turn u down. lol and if u dont wanna go for it then dont, its that simple
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Oct 9 2004, 01:21 PM
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 i need an sn change. Group: Member Posts: 1,915 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,746 |
i prefer the guy makin the 1st move, but if hes shy, u shuld go fo it.
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Oct 9 2004, 02:07 PM
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Gackt's Wife Group: Member Posts: 411 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,549 |
some guys dont kno how fast a girl wants to go (example.. MY BOYFRIEND!) lol so u should make the first move so he knos what u want...
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Oct 9 2004, 09:33 PM
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 always confused Group: Member Posts: 163 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,228 |
ima say go for it.....cuz he probably does like yu and hes too shy to tell yu and hes prob not gonna do anything,.....so yu mite lose the chance if yu dun do anything
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Oct 9 2004, 11:01 PM
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 LiLaZnGurL Group: Member Posts: 969 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,072 |
go for it gurl!!
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Oct 9 2004, 11:15 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 70 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,677 |
go for it. just tell him straight up "i luv you"!!!
good luck 
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Oct 10 2004, 01:35 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 851 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,718 |
go for it before u loose ur chance! i would wait for the guy to make the move but if hes taking a long time than i would... just to make sure he doesnt loose interest in me
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Oct 10 2004, 02:19 AM
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020405<3 Group: Member Posts: 179 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 45,729 |
im super shy >___< so when my boyyyyyyyfraaaaaan and i went to the movies, i was hesitating to make the first move, but i did and i held his hand, aha which is big for me [= i think you should just wing it
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Oct 10 2004, 06:47 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
well if he's very shy...then i think you should go for it if you really like him. but i heard that if a guy is a shy then he's reallie a not good guy.. some shy guys lead to stupidity like a waste of time...but anyways if you willing to take a chance to ask him out and try make things better, i think you will handle it well i guess. well i guess try it cause he likes you and you like him, then i think you should try and go for it... i mean there are lot of girls who go for shy guys a lot, so i guess it wouldnt be that bad for asking a shy guy out. well i guess i'll ask a shy guy out i mean the guy i like right now doesnt compare to your story like he doesnt like me back...but then he's shy... so we dont talk at all..haha but i never go for it cause im scared if something bad will happen to me, i just stay put...anyways so yeah if you're willing to take that chance, then ask him out^^
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Nov 6 2004, 12:20 PM
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Mad Rooney Group: Member Posts: 365 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 53,418 |
go for it
anyone should make the first move as long as he/she wants to there's no male or female about this |
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Nov 6 2004, 08:22 PM
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 ooo la la Group: Member Posts: 433 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,853 |
you remind me of.. me. lol. i was in the same situation. just talk to the guy, say like "i know you like me, and you know i like you.. so what are we waiting for?" something like that.
hope that helped |
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Nov 6 2004, 11:22 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
i think u shuld make sure he likes u, cause sumtimes guys do this stuff without notice. if he really does like u, then go fer it!! good luck
 x3, cindy |
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Nov 6 2004, 11:53 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
i dont think it matters, you already know he likes you so whoever making the first move doesnt make a big difference.
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Nov 7 2004, 01:23 AM
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!! you have just set back gender equality!!!!!
:clap clap clap: ... |
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