argh., this is so retarded. |
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 recycle, please.  Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,476  |
okay so basically theres this guy that i have been in like with for quite a while and he gives such mixed signals. i dont know what his deal is. i mean, he either likes me and hes just shy or he hates me. a lot. because we'll hang out and then the next day at school he barely says hi. but i mean, he will make such an effort just to hang out with me. or have a conversation. its so gay. and it seems as if he suddenly comes to life when someone else is there. its like he barely talks to me if i'm alone. but when his friends are around, or my friends are around, then okay lets talk. and when we do its as if he is so intrigued by what i'm saying but he won't start a conversation all on his own. then again with the factor of someone else there. sorry this is so long its just that it is more mixed than it sounds, he doesnt give me the cold shoulder.
and today our bus wasnt there, so he was like, want a ride home? and of course i said yes. but geez. i cant read anything. advice? |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 19 2007, 04:58 PM
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This may sound stupid, but I think you should just bring it up to his attention. Ask him, "How come you clam up when we're alone together?"
Just wait for an answer. |
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Jan 19 2007, 05:04 PM
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recycle, please. Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,476 |
makes sensee. :]
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Jan 19 2007, 05:06 PM
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QUOTE(lightsabersavvy @ Jan 19 2007, 5:04 PM)  makes sensee. :] Yeah, just be natural about it. Don't give off any signs of hidden motives. Just do it from a friend-to-friend point of view. Unless you want it to be more... :o |
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Jan 19 2007, 06:18 PM
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Yeah.
Do you have his sn? Talk to him more. Make conversation online since it's 1 on 1. But let him IM you or email you or whatever! And the next day, if you see him alone, just go up to him and talk about something you guys had talked about online. Or maybe he's the type that doesn't like it when people start talking? Possibility. But it's a guy, so I doubt that. |
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Jan 19 2007, 08:08 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
he's probably uncomfortable cause he's got a boner when he's alone with you...
with him you have to start the first move. |
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Jan 19 2007, 08:39 PM
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recycle, please. Group: Member Posts: 147 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,476 |
hahah way to put it bluntly. :]
yeah he definitley does not have a screen name but. oh well. thanks. |
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Jan 19 2007, 10:19 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
Seeing that he talks to you hate is out of the question.
I think he's probably shy. There's many cases that I've seen around school where the person that's crushing has a horrid time speaking to that person and has trouble being alone with that person and talking to that certain person. But you can't always be a 100% sure! So do what someone above me said and take the agressive stance if not knowing what he's up to bugs you! |
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