Asking out, ways to ask? |
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 Aug 19 2004, 01:28 AM
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 Ruler of all monkeys.  Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,022  |
hMm.. just a curious thot.. so i sit here thinking, w/ a gurl in mind that i would like to ask to be my gf. but how to present it to her.. this is where experiences for u guys comes in (guy or gurl doesn't matter) just wondering wat the different ways are to do it versus just blurting it out then saying "ok." come on now.. that's not memorable is it? so i ask of u, wat ways have worked?
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Aug 19 2004, 01:57 AM
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ok im bad wid relantionship but om gonna try n help lol
u could try n say sumthin swt 2 her first n ask her 2 b ur gf or u could say sumthin like "i really like u n want 2 b ur bf.....so.....do u want 2 b 2gether wid me?" or meet up sumwhere wif her n like give her flower(s) den ask her sry not much help but i tried my best 
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Aug 19 2004, 02:26 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
well theres always the most obvious way..."will u be my girlfriend" which is "blah"
or u can try this... You - hey "name" i was wondering are you busy on "day/time" , Girl- "no.." , You- would you want to go "action/place" If she works...drop by and ask her if she wants to grab lunch or w/e on her break together, and after that tell her u really like her and would like the idea of u two going out sometime. the main thing is that u find something to get her alone with u and then telling her how u feel. If you could give us some more detail on the situation and u/her .... like anything that could help us come up with better help oO; |
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Aug 19 2004, 02:27 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE well theres always the most obvious way..."will u be my girlfriend" which is "blah" Yeah, that is kinda blah.. same with "will you go out with me?" Kinda.. euch.Hrmm. Think of something to do that would interest her, and then talk about going to that.. and then just casually ask her if she would like to go there with you. =-] |
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Aug 19 2004, 02:39 AM
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Ruler of all monkeys. Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,022 |
"would u like to be my gf?" seems so.. *blah
 so 1st grader-ish. come on, gotta have more class than that
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Aug 19 2004, 02:44 AM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
like i said just ask her to go somewhere with u and then things with flow after that.......
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Aug 19 2004, 10:44 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
here is a major secret imma let u guys in on. ok get ready for this, its real easy. just say this:
"will you go out with me?" 
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Aug 19 2004, 10:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 194 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,822 |
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Aug 19 2004, 11:23 AM
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 wishing for SIMPLE LOVE with Jay Group: Member Posts: 708 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,601 |
QUOTE(rushx @ Aug 19 2004, 2:39 AM) lol.. guys guys.. it's not like i haven't had a gf b4. haha. but this gurl is special, more so than any other. and we've talked alot and stuff and we both have already established that we like each other, but we haven't done anything past that. i guess just waitin for the right moment. and i just don't wanna come out w/ it. that's y i asked if there a more unique way to do it. "would u like to be my gf?" seems so.. *blah so 1st grader-ish. i'm wat.. 18? come on, gotta have more class than thatHmm from a girl, if I liked a guy and he likes me back I would want him to ask me a better way too.. Take her out on a nice dinner, just the two of you, it doesn't have to be expensive..let the waiter in on what you are going to do..when he gives you the check have him or youself write "will you be my girlfriend?" 
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Aug 19 2004, 06:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
My boyfriend just asked me straight out.
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Aug 19 2004, 07:23 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
my last boyfriend said "will you let me steal you away?" *sigh* memories..memories....
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Aug 19 2004, 07:26 PM
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 Living in Shadows..yet able to see the light Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,830 |
lol i just ask truthfull but in a classy/stylish pimpin way of course
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Aug 19 2004, 08:03 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,384 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,337 |
QUOTE(Grand_master_1 @ Aug 19 2004, 1:57 AM) ok im bad wid relantionship but om gonna try n help lol u could try n say sumthin swt 2 her first n ask her 2 b ur gf or u could say sumthin like "i really like u n want 2 b ur bf.....so.....do u want 2 b 2gether wid me?" or meet up sumwhere wif her n like give her flower(s) den ask her sry not much help but i tried my best lol thats kinda too straight on if u kno wat i mean... |
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Aug 19 2004, 10:37 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
eh, my ex asked me out by saying, "do you want to see a movie afterthe spanish final?" so um, just ask her to the movies or something. or ask when she's free and if you'd like to do something on that day with her.
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Aug 20 2004, 01:26 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,565 |
QUOTE(F1R3B4T @ Aug 19 2004, 8:03 PM) lol thats kinda too straight on if u kno wat i mean... i dont actually but mayb u wanna share sum of ur experience wif us bout u n *ahem*... |
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Aug 20 2004, 01:52 AM
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Ruler of all monkeys. Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,022 |
QUOTE(shawty_redd @ Aug 19 2004, 7:23 PM) my last boyfriend said "will you let me steal you away?" *sigh* memories..memories.... lol, nice.. hahaha QUOTE(xnastyninjagrlx @ Aug 19 2004, 11:23 AM) Take her out on a nice dinner, just the two of you, it doesn't have to be expensive..let the waiter in on what you are going to do..when he gives you the check have him or youself write "will you be my girlfriend?" i like the restaurant idea. hmm.. i could use it and modify it a lil.. anymore ideas would be nice |
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Aug 20 2004, 05:39 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 166 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,879 |
my boyfriend sang me a song about us being together.
very sweet. |
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Aug 20 2004, 10:15 AM
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You guys are dumb. Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094 |
That resturant idea looks bad. In fact, dont do it.
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Aug 20 2004, 12:05 PM
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 yes. Group: Member Posts: 711 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,487 |
well...the first thing i would ask is if she already has a boyfriend
and then...you go from there asking her out well....that's just me |
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Aug 20 2004, 12:20 PM
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 peek-a-boo! Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,455 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Aug 19 2004, 7:44 AM) here is a major secret imma let u guys in on. ok get ready for this, its real easy. just say this: "will you go out with me?" ^yup thats easy and it works!  most popular way toothis one is also good: "just wondering.. if i asked you out, will you go out with me?" if she said yes then ask her out foreals. and if its a no then.. you won't feel horribly rejected because you didn't really ask her out 
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Sep 13 2004, 02:34 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
QUOTE(swt_4s_k4ndie @ Aug 20 2004, 12:20 PM) ^yup thats easy and it works! most popular way toothis one is also good: "just wondering.. if i asked you out, will you go out with me?" if she said yes then ask her out foreals. and if its a no then.. you won't feel horribly rejected because you didn't really ask her out haha LOL...its wud be soo funny if sm1 said that... it way sound weird..but when a guy asks me out.. i always say"give me one good reason to say yes.."..no matter how much i like the guy * if i dont like him i wont ask cuz i don wanna make him think i didn't go out wit him cuz he didn't have a good reason LOL...ok i jus realized this has nthn to do wit the topic 
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Sep 13 2004, 04:18 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
here is a major secret imma let u guys in on. ok get ready for this, its real easy. just say this:
"will you go out with me?" Yeah that works out pretty well x] |
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Sep 14 2004, 06:27 PM
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get her a bouquet of red roses with one white rose, and ask if you can be special to her. cuz the red roses are her past boyfriends or something like that and you are the white one. hahaa i'm such a romantice. queen of corny
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Sep 14 2004, 06:30 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Cute. ^
Corny, yes, but still cute. Try the classic: "Wanna go out with me?" It never fails to get the message across. |
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Sep 14 2004, 07:28 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
QUOTE here is a major secret imma let u guys in on. ok get ready for this, its real easy. just say this: "will you go out with me?" lol yeah stick with her idea^^ |
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