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lilxroxy
post Sep 9 2004, 07:10 AM
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i like "him" buh all my friends think i shud give up cos "i`m too good for him" and i shud go out with this other guy [who i consider as a friend and probly nothing more..] buh i like "him" his friends say they think "he" likes me too..buh iono...i`m tured of waiting..and guessing shud i give up? or if i shudn`t what can i do?
  • he`s nice to me
  • he can be mean to everyone..all girls and blah..buh when some friends tell me and i say something like "oh..that was mean" he would apologize
  • i once asked him whether he likes dogs or not [cos we have a club called AARF--abandoned animal rescue foundation--] i was hoping he wud join..he said he won`t and can`t [cos he has to break dance and stuff..], so i asked him if it`s cos he`s scared of dogs, and he said no...he jes don`t like them, buh he starts liking dogs these days..and i asked him if it has to do ith someone he likes and he said yes. i asked him who it was, and he said he won`t tell me. everyone`s telling me that i`m the one "he" likes..cos i`m thje only one in the whole grade that just got a dog if not the whole school..
 
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tsohg
post Sep 9 2004, 07:19 AM
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I dont understand the problem.. ermm.gif
 
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post Sep 9 2004, 10:34 AM
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yeah i dont understand the problem too ....it looks like u just post to share heh... well if ur asking if you should date him or not...well that's reallie simple and easy answer

"follow your heart"
 
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post Sep 9 2004, 11:05 AM
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QUOTE(angel_roh @ Sep 9 2004, 11:34 AM)
yeah i dont understand the problem too ....it looks like u just post to share heh... well if ur asking if you should date him or not...well that's reallie simple and easy answer

"follow your heart"

yeah, i agree. if you both like each other, go for it. forget what all your friends say.
 
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post Sep 9 2004, 09:15 PM
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there shouldnt be any SHOULDS or SHOULDNTS.. if u like him then go for it, if u dont then forget it. Remember that he may not like u back, theres no guarantee on that.. so... if in the end he doesnt like u, u cant say u wasted ur time cuz u were the one who thought u "shouldnt" give up.. just follow ur heart happy.gif
 
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post Sep 9 2004, 09:18 PM
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If YOU like him, that's all that matters. ^_^ Hope it works out!
 
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post Sep 9 2004, 09:26 PM
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QUOTE(tsohg @ Sep 9 2004, 7:19 AM)
I dont understand the problem.. ermm.gif

i was thinking the same thing..

.. but from what you wrote, you dont kno if the guy u like likes u back, nd u dunno if u shud keep liking him? give up why? never give up until something happens. well thats what i follow by..

yeah wat the others said, follow your heart.
but dont give up, cause u never kno wat he mite be feeling. maybe the same way as you.

+ maybe ask him how he feels. it may work out. _smile.gif
 
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post Sep 9 2004, 09:58 PM
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There is no problem. Just like how there is no spoon......
 
lilxroxy
post Sep 10 2004, 10:00 AM
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it`s kinda confusing.he`s unlike the other guys..haha*

like..i mean, he is reli nice, buh when i see him in the halls, he jes avoids me, which is totally..WEiRD..buh it isn`t like he`s running away, jes like..playing

ohkay, i know i`m not making sense, buh his ex liked him first...and he didn`t actualy dislike her, so they went out...buh i`m not like my firned [his ex] i only go out with a guy if i like him and he likes me back
 
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post Sep 10 2004, 02:30 PM
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i advise you to not date him. give up. ok. because he could be an abusive type, meaning the mental way. just adivice to you, i wouldnt but if you want to take your chances go right ahead but i have been down that road before and i dont like it no one does unless they're nuts but do what you want. <<follow your feelings>>
 
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post Sep 10 2004, 06:30 PM
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do what ur heart tells you to do :]
 
lilxroxy
post Sep 11 2004, 02:34 AM
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i`m stuck..

according to my friends..they say that he`s a bastard and stuff
buh in front of me..he`s relli sweet and stuff..

i trust my bfth buh i don`t know now..
 
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post Sep 11 2004, 04:42 AM
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i say go for it..who CARES what other ppl say?? its abt U n HIM k?i think its kinda obvious he DOES like u in the way u described things..n alot of ppl like myself dont have n e 1..so..take ur chance..ur lucky the person u like likes u bak..n it cudn't hurt to go out...=D...so i say GO FOR IT!!!
 
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post Sep 11 2004, 06:48 AM
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good point ppl..

it`s gnna be awkward if i asked him and he doesn`t like me..and that wud probly ruin the whole friendship part.. ) :

i don`t want that to happen
 
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post Sep 11 2004, 08:21 AM
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if you think "he" likes you, then "go" for "him". happy.gif
 
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post Sep 11 2004, 11:54 AM
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What kind of friends do you have? "You're too good for me." I would smack my friends if they ever said that to me. They want the best, but a comment like that? Um okay. Jackass.

And if you like him, go for it. Just get the courage to go up to him and tell him that you like him. See what happens after that.
 
lilxroxy
post Sep 12 2004, 02:27 AM
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haha* ohkay..

i don`t knw..cos yeah..i relli trsu my friends..buh shudn`t i also trust what i see?!
 
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post Sep 12 2004, 01:54 PM
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yeah that's what i think, do whatever you think you should wink.gif
 
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post Sep 13 2004, 10:54 AM
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don't go with anything your friends say because if you do and you regret it later, you'll just mess up your relationships. just do what you want and don't let others talk you out of it. you'll be the one dating him, not your friends.
 
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post Sep 13 2004, 01:25 PM
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It seems like he has a liking for you. But you also have to consider that if does like you THAT much, then why can't he confront you about it? Hmm...I think you shouldn't wait, if he likes you then good, if he doesn't then too bad [his loss], and tell you friends to stop being so involved...calm down and juss wait `n see what happens.
 
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post Sep 13 2004, 01:26 PM
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It seems like he has a liking for you. But you also have to consider that if does like you THAT much, then why can't he confront you about it? Hmm...I think you should wait, if he likes you then good, if he doesn't then too bad [his loss], and tell you friends to stop being so involved...calm down and juss wait `n see what happens.
 
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post Oct 13 2004, 07:30 AM
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mmhMM.

i knw what you guys mean, i`ve been thinking through this alot lately. i relli don`t knw. i`m a freshie and then there`s this junior striding into my life. he has a gf buh he still flirts with me. i knew him cos i knew his gf first..a sophmore girl that also plays oboe. i knw that if they break up, it will be my fault and i wud feel bad. i also knw that if "he" is hitting on another girl while he is in a relationship..he wud also hit on other girls if he`s with -let`s say- me

ohkay. i don`t knw, "he" is really nice, and he actually says stuff that are relli straight forward [ie. "i was stalking you jst now you knw" "since yu wudn`t tell me yur msn, i had to contact lots of ppl to get it, i can`t live without talking to you"]

back to kevin. kev is too immature, i told him i like him. and he jst says "yeah, i knw" and stuff. the worst part??? HE DOESN`T LOOK AT ME WHEN I`M TALKING TO HIM

i don`t knw. help me out here girls. :\
 
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post Oct 13 2004, 02:38 PM
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umm if you like him..then go fer it..=]
 
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post Oct 13 2004, 04:42 PM
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just go for it and follow your heart, not mind. it`s not like your friends are the ones that`s gonna go out with him. ermm.gif
 
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post Oct 13 2004, 04:53 PM
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You like him; he likes you. I sat have at it.
 
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