My boyfriend doesnt trust me, what do i do |
| *Weird addiction* |
 Oct 2 2004, 10:05 AM
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ok this is kinda long
ive been with jeremy for like a month....i was with him at the mall and i saw him kissing his ex and i got mad and confronted him and he told me that he still has feelings for her...then i told him never to do it again and he said "ill kiss whomever i want" and i said "in that case why dont we break up" and hes like..."no, ur in love with 'tim' and i still have feelings for kayla (his ex) so we're even" and im like "i dont love tim,hes just a guy i met in xanga,and he's in the states and im in belgium,"wow that's far....and he's like " dont lie to me,ive read the messages u sent to him,ur email...ur telephone conversations, u talk about him alot"...jezus,tim is just a friend,i dont like him...he's been spying on me! my friend told me that one day he called to confirm if i was really at her place cos he wasnt sure,i asked him and he denied it, how did he get my password???...i dont know what to do...should i dump or stay with him?? besides tim and i dont communicate much again...what kind of a bf is that?? |
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Oct 2 2004, 10:11 AM
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 WUT THA DUCK?  Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
i dont think you should stay with him. that is not a boyfriend and for him to say he can kiss whoever he wants... doesnt that mean you can talk to whoever you want too? that isnt fair. i wouldnt even trust him if i were you... it seems like he and his ex still have something for each other. best that you leave him and move on. he isnt boyfriend material.
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Oct 2 2004, 10:26 AM
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asian sensation Group: Member Posts: 773 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,091 |
seriously you should just leave >_> agreed with linhy poo.. couldnt put it better myself
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Oct 2 2004, 10:29 AM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
i def think you should dump him. kissing an ex isn't cool.
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Oct 2 2004, 11:04 AM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Dude, you're not even at all! He's off kissing anyone he wishes while you're loyal and you stand by him! If he starts cheating on you like that, you don't have a firm relationship. I think you should dump the dude.
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Oct 2 2004, 11:15 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
One solution: BREAK IT OFF..whether he likes it or not its over
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Oct 2 2004, 11:29 AM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
he seems a little stalkerish...i think you should break up with him since he said he can kiss whomever he wants...you should be like fine you can kiss my a$$ buddy and dump him
^my two cents  Steph
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Oct 2 2004, 11:39 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
obviously u should break up with him. "its okay to kiss my ex cause u 'like' someone." what type of dumbass logic is that??
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Oct 2 2004, 11:56 AM
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 i make my own destiny Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,249 |
break it off with him
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Oct 2 2004, 12:12 PM
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 Losers rule =D Group: Member Posts: 407 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,592 |
Sounds like youre in a pretty crappy relationship. Break it off.
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Oct 2 2004, 12:34 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
wow .... u saw him kissing a girl and u dont dump him...he accused u and u didnt dump him. he says hell kis whoever he wants and u didnt dump him. he reads ur msgs emails and checks up on ur phone convos and u didnt dump him.
word of advice. DUMP HIM |
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Oct 2 2004, 01:35 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Kinda depends on how much you really like him.. but yeah if I were you Id dump his as-
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Oct 3 2004, 02:03 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,343 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,767 |
DUMP
what a jackbutt |
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| *stephinika* |
Oct 3 2004, 02:08 AM
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definitely dump his arse. he doesn't seem like he truly cares about the relationship. he spied on you and snooped around AND kissed his ex and when you accused him, his response wasn't exactly very good. i wouldn't stay with him.
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Oct 3 2004, 02:12 AM
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 High Voltage!∞ Group: Official Member Posts: 4,728 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,157 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Oct 2 2004, 12:34 PM) wow .... u saw him kissing a girl and u dont dump him...he accused u and u didnt dump him. he says hell kis whoever he wants and u didnt dump him. he reads ur msgs emails and checks up on ur phone convos and u didnt dump him. word of advice. DUMP HIM ahahha yeahs i agree dumb his butt! that's not what a boyfriend should do at ALL! |
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Oct 3 2004, 10:37 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,313 |
Dump him! If you dont trust him, or he doesnt trust you, then y stay at all?
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| *x____duckii* |
Oct 3 2004, 10:47 AM
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Dump him already! What kind of bf is that? He could kiss whoever he wants and spy on you. You should just dump him and stay away from him.
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Oct 3 2004, 10:55 AM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
hes not a bf.. its simple just leave him
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Oct 3 2004, 12:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Dude, that's plucking scary! Dump the guy already!!! Change your pbuttwords or at least get another email so he won't know. Omg, you have a stalker. Creepyness.
This might be immature and I know it is, but I don't care. Get another guy and kiss him in front of your so called boyfriend. Hey he kisses his ex, you kissed another guy. NOW you are even. He seems like such a jerk. No wait, he IS a jerk. Kick him in the balls and tell him it's over. |
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Oct 3 2004, 01:57 PM
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 The Bone Collector Group: Member Posts: 2,860 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,162 |
come on, this is a easy answer. DUMP HIM! he is cheating o0n you, when your together, you just don't go kissing other people, that is just belh
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Oct 3 2004, 08:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
Dump him! He is getting even with you and that is a wrong choice. He was suppose to tell you that he is jealous and he doesn't like what he thinks you are having with Tim.
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Oct 4 2004, 03:16 PM
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Dump him, the a-hole shouldn't hae effing cheated on you to begin with.
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Oct 4 2004, 05:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 875 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,841 |
you should definately break up with him. unless you can put up with him " kissing whoever he wants ". thats pathetic, even if you like that guy and he still likes his ex, that doesnt make any sense by staying together.
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Oct 4 2004, 07:54 PM
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 Can't have the hand without the cock. Group: Member Posts: 2,481 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,622 |
tell him off... then dump him
 cant let him walk all over u |
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Oct 5 2004, 09:50 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 2,586 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,678 |
your boyfriend scares the bajeezus out of me. he's looking into your email and stuff?
that's reason enough to dump him. oh yeah... plus that he kissed his ex. screw him, the bastard. |
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