Is it rong to like your ex again, espshully wen he dumped you |
 Oct 1 2004, 11:40 AM
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 jussst mee*  Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,218  |
 i dunno ... this guy.. let'z say my ex... wen we were going out... i really liked him... i wudn't call it love, coz i think we're too young to call it love... but yeah i liked him alot.. but weret even not going out properly... we it was like 2 months... and we never went out by ourself, it was always in a group. And i was too shy to talk to him in front of my friends...  and i wud avoid him coz wen i saw him i wud blush and my friends wud tease me.he dumped me coz he was like: nothing'z happening so itz no point having this relationship... and he asked me if i thot if was okay and i was so shy to say no, incase it was another reason. so we juz broke up like dat. i started really hating him coz he was being really mean to me and my friends... and den i dunno now he'z nice again.. and he starts talking to me again. i think i like him again... but isn't it rong to like sum1 dat dumped u and also.. ur since he'z my last ex. i dunno what to do and i dun even kno if i was ever fully over him, or i juz started liking him again. i've considered asking him out or sumthin, but i'm not the type of girl to do dat. sum1 gimme advise? 
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Oct 1 2004, 01:56 PM
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just a girl Group: Member Posts: 80 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,392 |
i would advise you just to be friends with him first.. it sounds to me that you guys werent even friends in the first place.. that could be why you were so shy. Also, you dont want to go out in groups all the time.. it loses the point of even having a relationship... so try being friends with him and asking him to have some one on one time ya know?! Then, once you are comfortable with him, then maybe you two can talk about being together again?! But also, dont become such good friends that he can use the excuse "oh, i dont wanna ruin the friendship". Just let him become close enough to know that you arent the same shy person you were ya know?! And no, its not wrong to like your ex again.. it's acutally quite common! :o) hehe
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Oct 1 2004, 03:48 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
well, it depends. I don't think it's wrong, because i'm kinda in your situation where my ex broke up with me, but i still like him. alas, the feelings aren't reciprocated, so there's nothing i can really do. eh, i suggest you should try and go ask him out or something. don't always be shy, get close to him and then ask him out.
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Oct 1 2004, 04:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
He started being mean to you AND your friends and you want him back? For me, it's like this. If you're the guy and you don't like hanging out with my friends or if you're mean to them, *Kicks you to the curb* and *waves byebye*.
Maybe you should ONLY just be friends with him because that's wrong of what he's doing. He dumps you because of that reason and decides to be mean to you? And then starts being nice one day? I think he might want something from you. |
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Oct 1 2004, 06:42 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
it's natural to still like your ex, especially if you were the one dumped.
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Oct 1 2004, 07:16 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
no thats not a wrong thing...
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Oct 1 2004, 07:42 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Not wrong.
I'm in t3h same situation, pretty much. Just.. forget about him, I guess.. since he dumped you. I know it's hard to do. It's really hard. But it's (in most cases) something you gotta do. =[ |
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Oct 1 2004, 07:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,172 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,045 |
no it's not. just because you broke up with him doesn't mean that it's totally over with your friendship/relationship. it's like writing something in pencil. you made a mistake but it doesn't mean that you can't fix it no more. (kinda bad analogy =/)
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Oct 1 2004, 07:45 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
QUOTE no it's not. just because you broke up with him doesn't mean that it's totally over with your friendship/relationship. it's like writing something in pencil. you made a mistake but it doesn't mean that you can't fix it no more. (kinda bad analogy =/) Actually, that is a really good way of putting it. 
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Oct 1 2004, 07:58 PM
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Nope thats not wrong, its seems natural these days.
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Oct 1 2004, 08:14 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
im kinda tired, maybe ill read it later,but judging from ur title, no its not wrong liking ur ex,i got back with my ex so many times i should be slapped oO; . well actually no because u liked them b4 so why liking them now is wrong? it just really depends on what their actions and the reason why u two broke up in the first place.
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Oct 1 2004, 08:40 PM
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Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
oh yeah you REALLY gotta get over your sehyness if you don't and you go on a date one on one what are you gonna talk about all day? and ummm yeah you need time to get over the shyness it doens't just happen... and you'll get over it slowely asyou date more... are you sure he's the one u wnat to date again?....
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Oct 1 2004, 11:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
ITS OK GIRL!!!!
n dont be shy... im reli shy around the guy i like too but jus keep this in mind...i find it helps. HE'S JUS A GUY... HE EATS HE SLEEPS HE DOES JUS WHAT EVERYONE ELSE DOES... JUS ANOTHER HUMAN BEING...so no need to be shy K?? |
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Oct 1 2004, 11:08 PM
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yeh its ok... just dont go out wit him agen yeh?
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Oct 1 2004, 11:28 PM
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jussst mee* Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,218 |
fanqz to all of u
 i feel so  dat so many ppl care =Dlol.. i'm being wierd... dun run away =P it'z juz dat my friends think itz wierd to like the guy that dumped u... I asked my friend hu broke up similar time to me what she wud do if he liked her again... she said: OMG EFF OFF so ya 
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Oct 2 2004, 12:19 AM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
For now, I'd say stick to being his friend for a while and see where that leads you. This dude sounds a little wishy washy...he flip flops. If he turns on you like that *snap* then he'll probably hurt you if you go out.
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Oct 2 2004, 12:23 AM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
actually, the one who hurt u most is the one u love most and vice versa... so its normal =) but i dont think u should go too deep for him, sometimes.. u gotta ask urself is it worth it for him to hurt u that way like dumpin u and such..
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Oct 2 2004, 09:38 AM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
i don't think it's wrong...just tell him how you feel and who knows...maybe he feels the same
 Steph
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Oct 2 2004, 01:55 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Feel sorry for me, rofl. I like my ex when I dumped him, so youre not having unnatural feelings..
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Oct 2 2004, 02:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,720 |
iono.. thats pretty naturla 4 u 2 like ur ex again.. ive read a lot of stuff about ppl not getting over their ex...
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