how do i get my mom to let me date?, ... Options

[x3iluvg3x]

my mom won't let me date. i've tried sayin im goin out wit my friends. but she thinks im not ready to go to the movies or a theme park by myself. TOTALLY UNFAIR!!:mad: got any ideas?

[MeanBastard]

Hold a knife to her throat and demand to let you date. Or you know, she doesnt need to know.

[S2_DiViA_S2]

Hold a knife to her throat and demand to let you date.

haha do that. lol. j/p. hmm well just debate with her.. get good ideas.. lol.. u cant really convince parents thts just how there are.. lol..

[xtiffysweetzx]

she'll grow out of it eventually..for now..u can either (a) convince her that ur responsible n dat she should trust u or (b) sneak around

[*RiC3xBoy*]

sneak around, only way i can even visit my friends.....

[Too Asian To DIE]

sneak around is what i always do. yes im a bad bad girl

[tooeffingcrazy]

if your parents say no, i think they would stick with a no. So sneak around like the others say. but if your mom has to go with you to the movies and other places, then you can't sneak around. =P

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

just date , and be sure to pic someone ur sneaking out with someone worth it... and if ur mom catches u, so be it, talk to her in a mature way telling how u want to be dating and such...and she cant stop u ;)

[inthemudhole]

I wasn't allowed to.
I just dated.
I pretty much though.
"F**k them"
Yeah.
<--Bitter child.

[Just_Dream]

I secretly date.. ahha it's almost been 2 years since my bf and I first got together. I keep it secret. The thing is, don't go places so much w/ ur bf or anything like that. just go visit him, hang out w/him, blah blah at school or once in a while go on dates. Don't do anything too dramatic that can jeopordize what little relationship u have left with your mom/parents. The thing is to NOT go out that much and try to keep it low. Talk on the phone only when you rmom'snot around or talk on the cell and use code words. for me, if I wanted to say "I Love You," I saw "143" and my parents don't even know what the heck those numbers are for.

Actually, I WOULD like this question answered too because I'm in the same situation. How can I get my mom to let me date?

[rainnydaiis]

.... its just a matter of trust...

[patrickstar]

how old are you? Im sorry your mom thinks that way, but to let her know that ur old enough to do stuff by urself, show her that ur a mature perosn. Don't argue with what she says, clean the house without her asking, do you're homework without her reminding you to do so. Those little things contribute to a parents' thinking that their child is mature and responsible, it takes time, but when u can go out whenever u want to, you'll be gratefull u did what u did

[gothicvengeance]

I really don't want to sound stupid and annoying or anything, but please don't sneak around your mom. I know its INCREDIBLY annoying, my own stupid parents won't even let me go home myself, but they'll find out somehow and in the end you'll get really screwed up. Although I doubt your mom will allow you to date even after you have a looooooooooonng, reasonable conversation, just wait maybe one year...that's my advice.

[*tyedyefroggy*]

You just have to earn alot of trust...thats mainly it.

[LadyXTor]

Yeah...what they said. Trust is hard to build up but easy to lose...if you sneak around your parents will probably lose all of it and might extend to what age you should date. It's not that hard to wait. If that person you really want to date really wants to date you...he'd wait.

[177emories]

don't go behind your moms back! if she doens't wnat you dating then don't! its probably good for you that way anyways... its not like your gonna find your soulmate at your age (however old you are) chil; and relax...

[whywasisostupid]

if u find a solution please tell me. im 14 and my mom and dad dont trust me at all. i tried the friend thing but my parents think all my friends are sluts

[nyctophiliac]

Hold a knife to her throat and demand to let you date. Or you know, she doesnt need to know.

do exactly what that kid said ^
Steph

[x_hiccupy_x]

you dont HAVE to tell them every single thing about your life right? she probably wont let you date no matter how much you beg and whine so just get a bf without your mom knowing.

[*wind&fire*]

" geee i have to go study twice a week with a hot guy ...is that okay??"

[*Weird addiction*]

dont bother....dont tell her...do it in hiding...lol...its better

[deadflowers]

" geee i have to go study twice a week with a hot guy ...is that okay??"

that would work.. lol

but seriously, if your mom won't let u go, don't, coz when she does find out, and she will (mom radars) she'll think you're immature and that you can't be trusted.

[faithin_felix]

you just say

why do i always have to live under your rules, i have a life too, this is not jail. and then if she doesn't leave house to your friends house.

[LuZz]

i kno what it'z like my mum'z similar tooo*
she said she wont lemme haf a bf until i finish university coz it might affect my studies*... but newaiz... i've alreadi had one... so yeah..

asian parents are mostly the same.. too protective of their children. you mum has a right too not late u date, but she has no right to not let u enjoy urself at the movies wif just ur friendzzz* u shud tell her exactly hu's going.. [i wudn't mention guy'z names, in case she getz suspicious ] and den ask her if u can go watch it wif dem, since your family hardly has time to watch it wif u or sumthin.
and about going out on a date, i think u shud make up an excuse dat ur going out wif friends... but tell ur friends first in case she fones dem*

[ichiban]

My mom won't let me get a boyfriend until college because she thinks it'll interfere with my grades. And I have no way to convince her.
Well I guess you can debate. Make her trusty ou ...