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 Sep 25 2004, 08:00 PM
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 - wanker.  Group: Member Posts: 199 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,490  |
(Sorry if there's already a topic on this) Okay. I've got this friend. She was my friend last year, but just a "school-friend". But now.. Well, she won't leave me alone. She's calling, she's always asking if I can come over, always walking me home.. She's also invading my personal space. Always poking me and touching me. And its creeping me out. I don't know what to do. Should I just tell her to f*** off? -I'm tempted to.- Or just forget it and hang out with her- but avoid her in as many ways possible?
I really don't want to hurt her feelings. But what's better in this case; Her pain from me telling her to get off my back and just let me be, or my pain from having her around all the time? Ingh. I don't know. Feels good just to vent. Any ideas? |
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Sep 25 2004, 08:05 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
i think u should really tell her how you feel. well dont be too mean about it, just say u need your space and stuff
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Sep 25 2004, 08:15 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
i think u should tell her straight up or else she wont get what ur talkin about... but say it in the nicest way possible
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Sep 25 2004, 08:24 PM
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 to be loved by someone you love is.. everything Group: Member Posts: 1,207 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,205 |
j/ say can you give me some air because in my bubble!
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Sep 25 2004, 09:40 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Tell her what you told us.
But I'd re-phrase it. Take out the "f*ck off" part, haha. |
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Sep 25 2004, 10:07 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 329 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,536 |
Mmm, just tell her that you need some time for yourself, to just take a break from everything...
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Sep 25 2004, 10:13 PM
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Tell her as nicest way as possibly.
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Sep 25 2004, 10:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 5,585 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 38,082 |
Tell her what you told us. Tell her something like "I know we're friends and all, but it's kinda creeping me out that you're always touching me and invading my privacy. QUIT IT!" Make sure to scream that in her face.
lmao jp jp :P Do whatever NICELY. You don't want to make her cry. |
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Sep 26 2004, 01:58 AM
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"srew you im going home" tell her to BACK OFF!!! pffft that was a little mean
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Sep 26 2004, 06:10 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,271 |
yea i dunno...tell her to give u some privacy
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Sep 26 2004, 09:22 AM
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 I'm Cat. Gotta problem with that? Group: Member Posts: 394 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,845 |
just try to tell her how u feel... if she wants to be a real friend and just not a skool friend then she will stop....
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Sep 26 2004, 12:51 PM
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 stephanie .. Group: Member Posts: 1,965 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,529 |
tell her to leave you the f*ck alone and get a life
  Steph
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Sep 26 2004, 01:12 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,702 |
QUOTE(Too Asian To DIE @ Sep 26 2004, 9:22 AM) just try to tell her how u feel... if she wants to be a real friend and just not a skool friend then she will stop.... I agree with him/her also. If she really wants to continue to be your friend, she'll do the things you tell her to right? Well, don't exactly boss her around that much, but she'll listen if she wants to be friends. 
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Sep 26 2004, 01:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,194 |
i'm pretty much agreeing with everyone else. tell her how you feel but be super nice about it. but don't completly blow her off. just say like you need some personal space and you need to spend time with other friends not just her.
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Sep 26 2004, 08:28 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
if she bothering you so much like that, if talking to her nicely don't work just be staright forward and tell her to F off
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Sep 26 2004, 11:30 PM
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 Want fries with that? Group: Member Posts: 692 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,652 |
Oh my? Personal space is a big issue....heh...my friends yell at me a lot for it. I'M KIDDING! ...really i am. Anyhoo...just say...you need some time to yourself for a while....iono if that will work. *scratches head* but...heck...might as well try?
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