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avsugarhigh09
post Sep 25 2004, 11:41 AM
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i've liked this guy for a while but i just found out 2 very bad things.

1) my best friend just started liking him too (that ~edit~ umm annoying little monkey)
2) he has a girlfriend from church.

what do i do? i like him so much. it's sad... cry.gif
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 11:44 AM
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ohmy.gif tell your friend your feelings..but you'll have to wait for him, b/c if he has a g/f.. from CHURCH..j/ wait till something happens..and maybe there's some luck..
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 11:45 AM
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do u guys ignore the fact they people have girlfriends/boyfriends? They arent available... Just find someone else to like , because he has a girlfriend .... and do u really want u and ur friend to fight over some guy who has no interest in both of u?
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 11:52 AM
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it's not like i can just turn my feelings off... and i liked him before i knew either of those two things...
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 11:53 AM
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this always happens... the people with relationships all of a sudden always become #1 target.. But that doesn't matter... i say u just wait... and if your friend likes him too... best girl for herself =P
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 12:05 PM
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i just feel like i can't even talk to my bestfriend anymore because i am so mad that she likes him because she gets like everything that i want. it's like why can't i have this one thing. but then his damn girlfriend that no one knew about gets in the way. grrrrrr.
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 12:06 PM
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Lolz.... competition!! =P what fun without a little hastle =P

anyways shes your bestfriend... if you guys break up over a dam guy then you guys werent bestfriends... you guys were just wannabe's
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 12:14 PM
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it's not that we're going to break up. it's just that everything i want she gets. it seems so unfair. but i'm not going to stop being friends with her for it.
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 06:15 PM
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well.. ur time will come. ur best friend gets the things u want but maybe u got some things that she wants

wait til the guy breaks up first cuz he has a gf and u dont wanna ruin someone else's relationship
 
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post Sep 25 2004, 07:31 PM
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well, i dont think your friend will be getting what you want this time. he does have a girlfriend.
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 02:00 AM
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get over the person...but itll take time...my last one was like 2 years to get over...its hard.....
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 02:05 AM
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from a guys perspective -

tell him you like him. what do you have to lose? if youre really his best friend it wont effect anything

tell your friend that she needs to back off. im guessing that you told her you liekd him before, so obviously theres the whole ho-yo-ass-best-be-steppin-off aspect.

and i dunno how much he likes the church girlfriend, but if he just sees you as a friend or if theres the everpresent emotion like there is in basically EVERY friendship like that then you would definitley b chosen over

but i dunno if my advice helps, but i hope everythingv works out! i know what its like, i like my best friend and she likes this assclown that i really wouldnt even spit on him if he was on fire.
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 02:12 AM
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Find someone else to like. v.v
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 02:37 AM
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whao. he has a gf from church. you're never gonna win then

duh--- it's THE gf from CHURCH. ever heard of the "marry someone who's a christian" theory?

don't touch guys like that. they hurt you ok?
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that was the negative side.

hm...you could just wait till he breaks up with the other girls

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post Sep 26 2004, 06:02 AM
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if he has a gf...then yea i dunno..
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 09:33 AM
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he has a girl friend and ur friend likes him.......
i think u shuldnt interfiere n make things worse with ur friend...
well atleast wait till the guy is acutalli available
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 12:45 PM
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just tell him how you feel and if it was meant to be, your friend will forget about him and he'll dump his girlfriend for you wink.gif
throb.gif Steph
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 01:24 PM
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QUOTE(CuTeSEXYnHOT @ Sep 26 2004, 12:45 PM)
just tell him how you feel and if it was meant to be, your friend will forget about him and he'll dump his girlfriend for you wink.gif
throb.gif Steph

i like your theory best happy.gif
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 10:00 PM
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find a new guy
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 10:03 PM
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i find it funny that ur "best friend" starts liking the same guy as u and then she is now considered a "whore"
 
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yeh... but what is life wit out competition???
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 10:33 PM
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QUOTE(AzNbUbZ @ Sep 26 2004, 7:31 PM)
yeh... but what is life wit out competition???

exactly wat i mean...
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 10:47 PM
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dang homie, i can't believe you have the guts to call your best friend a WHORE! you've obviously never been in love, because trust me, she's the only one who's there when you cry and are a whore yourself. sorry for my language, but who the hell do you think you are? ...stop being so selfish and try to live for others happiness as well! think about HIM and how happy he might be with his gf! ...why would you ever wanna ruin that? gosh, juss think about it before you say anything like that EVER again.
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 11:00 PM
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i'm sorry if i offended anyone (not being sarcastic) i wasn't really calling her a whore, like i didn't mean it, i was being sarcastic or exagerating or i don't know the correct term for it. and i'm not trying to ruin what he has with his girlfriend! i liked him before i knew about her! so i'm just trying to deal with it...
 
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post Sep 26 2004, 11:06 PM
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honestly you don't like him that much, you'll get over it.
 

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