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[queen]

you totally messed up my debate. I have a right to debate. and i enjoy debating. Noone was fighting, so no you dont need to interfere.

i hope that wasn't to me ;x

[inthemudhole]

Wow, this should probably be moved to debate now..

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

i hope that wasn't to me ;x

no lol

[Spirited Away]

you totally messed up my debate. I have a right to debate. and i enjoy debating. Noone was fighting, so no you dont need to interfere.

Hmm, did I messed it up because I made more sense than you? If so, I'm truly sorry.

You have a right to debate, does this mean that I do not? And was I fighting you, or was I simply making a point, and then YOU argued my point?

If you didn't want me to interfere, then don't post public forums as interferences do happen every now and then ...

Oh I invite you to the debate forum if you like debates so much. It is getting kind of boring in there.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

no, you werent making more sense, because michelle isnt even here to say what she has to say, and frankley you've been speaking for her.

[Spirited Away]

no, you werent making more sense, because michelle isnt even here to say what she has to say, and frankley you've been speaking for her. 

I wasn't making more sense according to whom? And I suggest you'd take care when answering this question...

Yes, I have been speaking for her, but not quite. I have my own mind, which has been functioning quite well on this subject. Though, I cannot say the same about you when you don't even take into account that everyone are entitled to their own opinions . And if the lady has a problem with me, she WILL tell me, don't worry. The message was for her you know? Look who's interfering now? Eat your own words, kid.

[*tweeak*]

alright, lets define friends.

internet friends. nice for chat. good to complain to if youre having problems and your real friends arent there for you

real friends. not only provide friendly chat, but are [usually] there for you. they can help you out with stuff, and be there phyiscally and actually know what youre talking about and more than one side of each others personalities.

however, there is that fine line. my best friend left the country a year and a half ago, so i only get to talk to him online now, making him practially an internet friend, but for knowing each other elsewhere beforehand. some of the kids who go to my school ill talk to via xanga but not in actuality, but theyre there if they need to.

while internet friends are nice, they are one sided and not there if you really need them, even like the ones i mentioned in the previous paragraph

[Spirited Away]

alright, lets define friends.

internet friends. nice for chat. good to complain to if youre having problems and your real friends arent there for you

real friends. not only provide friendly chat, but are [usually] there for you. they can help you out with stuff, and be there phyiscally and actually know what youre talking about and more than one side of each others personalities.

however, there is that fine line. my best friend left the country a year and a half ago, so i only get to talk to him online now, making him practially an internet friend, but for knowing each other elsewhere beforehand. some of the kids who go to my school ill talk to via xanga but not in actuality, but theyre there if they need to.

while internet friends are nice, they are one sided and not there if you really need them, even like the ones i mentioned in the previous paragraph

Very well said.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

If everyone is entitled to there own opinions, then read that posts again, and read michelle's.

[Spirited Away]

If everyone is entitled to there own opinions, then read that posts again, and read michelle's.

Why don't YOU re-read instead, hmm? I did say that yours and hers definitions are LACKING. I hope you do understand the implications of the word, if not, I shall define it.

[I.Luff.Emo.Boys.]

then please, define.

[Spirited Away]

then please, define.

Okay

Lacking: not sufficient, incomplete, missing.

Get it?

To put the definition into context, basically, I wasn't agreeing fully with her or fully with you because I found your defintions lacking, or incomplete without combining both.

I don't think you should be in debates, now... these things take some common sense.

[melface]

Real friends in REAL life.. aren't always going to be there for you... but it's likely that someone online will be there, because, really... is there a reason for them not to?

[Spirited Away]

Sure, they can be "there" to listen to your story and console you... but like Michelle said, can they bail you out of jail?

This is also what I meant by lacking. Friendship is MUCH MORE.

[Heathasm]

i think its pretty easy to tell if some one is feeding you bs like that...i know that my online friends act how they are through phone and internet so um f*ck that theory. there are some weirdos out there that will do that and maybe some 12 yr olds who cares, pick them out. it's not like trying to spot a serial killer in a mob of people dressed the same

[Spirited Away]

i think its pretty easy to tell if some one is feeding you bs like that...i know that my online friends act how they are through phone and internet so um f*ck that theory. there are some weirdos out there that will do that and maybe some 12 yr olds who cares, pick them out. it's not like trying to spot a serial killer in a mob of people dressed the same

...

Unfortunately, there are some people who will fall into that trap, even if that trap is so apparent to you and I. That's why we have stories about some girls getting raped/killed by meeting up with their online sweethearts.

And not because these people are stupid, it's because people can be VERY good at pretending to be someone they're not.

Thus the theory that some people can act different or be completely out of character should be considered.

[melface]

Sure, they can be "there" to listen to your story and console you... but like Michelle said, can they bail you out of jail?

This is also what I meant by lacking. Friendship is MUCH MORE.

I understand.


Who would be stupid enough to go to jail anyway?... That's why you have your family.

[Spirited Away]

I understand.


Who would be stupid enough to go to jail anyway?... That's why you have your family.

I lived with my ganster-cousins for the first years of my life because my parents couldn't afford to feed me.... Some people live with their friends and strangers most of their life. As in, there are instances where people do not have family or their family may not be as dependable as their friends... So I guess I'm trying to say that online friends aren't always as dependable as offline friends.

I wouldn't depend on my friends more than my family, but I think there are people who would.

HAHAHA, yes, going to jail is stupid, but I don't think some people can help themselves.

[*tweeak*]

Very well said.

thank you. i was afraid i wasnt making sense

[faithin_felix]

haha, you sound so mad...well, actually i am, i am the way i am. ^^

[*tweeak*]

haha, you sound so mad...well, actually i am, i am the way i am. ^^

hahahaha wtf??!

[T00000]

I wasn't making more sense according to whom?     And I suggest you'd take care when answering this question... 

Yes, I have been speaking for her, but not quite. I have my own mind, which has been functioning quite well on this subject. Though, I cannot say the same about you when you don't even take into account that everyone are entitled to their own opinions . And if the lady has a problem with me, she WILL tell me, don't worry. The message was for her you know? Look who's interfering now? Eat your own words, kid.

thanks you've done a good job speaking for me and i'm glad you did


anyways, yeah, basically what she said. oh and i'd like to reinforce that my personal OPINION is that online relationships are pathetic, because no one can truly have a lasting 'friendship' online with someone they don't even know. oh and to whoever said that i'm probably a umm... 'goody goody' at the front of class, i have a bit to say about that. i am, personally, the same online and off. the reason behind this could be because i'm not ashamed of myself. also, i am definetly NOT a goody goody. while i've only had one tardy this entire school year and one dress code violation (i guess my midriff was exposed and that was bad) i've been an angel in that department. however, on my last report card i got A B B B C which are definetly not very good-- oh and a test i took in psych? 34%. enough about me though. i just don't think it's very healthy to form relationships online because it's hard to develop social skills. in the REAL world, you know, the outside world, SOCIAL SKILLS are important. it doesnt matter what you can type to other people online, if you dont have CONFIDENCE in the real world you won't do too well.

ps: the only reason why i'm even posting this much on a weekend is because i'm grounded

[*tweeak*]

anyways, yeah, basically what she said. oh and i'd like to reinforce that my personal OPINION is that online relationships are pathetic, because no one can truly have a lasting 'friendship' online with someone they don't even know

yeah, exactly, but theyre nice to talk to if youre bored and dont have time for a social life like me

[T00000]

yeah, exactly, but theyre nice to talk to if youre bored and dont have time for a social life like me

that's good for you that you don't have time to make friends in the real world, but i stand by the fact that i find that pathetic. people need friends and social skills...

[rainnydaiis]

yeah people need social skills.. and theres also online social skills also..