never thought it could hurt so bad, . Options

[expoised]

i'm not going into details. but i never thought one person could make your insides feel like they were bruised and bleeding. i always thought i was strong enough for anyone but i guess i'm not.

i should be crying, but i can't.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

yep its amazing how it could hurt isnt it, ive been through alot of girlfriends *not trying to sound cocky or anything* and i say it wont hurt and i say its not a big deal, but sometimes it still gets to u, but eh thats how it works.

hope u feel better

[x_hiccupy_x]

welcome to the painful world of bs and love.

the pain of heartache is a fcuking b*tch. you might have not been prepared for it this time, but be optimistic. maybe this experience will make you stronger and help you overcome whatever other heartache that will come your way.

i hope you feel better soon...

advice :: if you love ice cream a lot, just sit on your couch with a big tub of ice cream and watch old romance movies that are all sad and stuff. i did that for a day..felt way better.

[LittleLulu]

ohh so u mean like.. heartbreak??...well um.. i have no idea what to say since i neva had a BF before...but um there still is th dissapointment of knowing*he* doesn't like me the way i like him ... ..but oh well...

[conster]

its alright, its better to cry it all out but if u cant, u probably.. just.. dont love that person as much as u think.. its alright time will take u to a better place and a happier place, just takes time so be patient =) and at the time i hope u feel better and dont think too much

[x0143637x0]

thats what happened to me and i guess its still happening. cant realli learn from it. just keep making the same mistakes.....

[captured_serenit...]

yup be prepared for the end of the world feeling...

[literemix24]

eat ice cream lols juss like x_hiccupy_x sed. lols =] you'll feel better..

[pbear]

Time will work its magic sooner or later.
Hope it's sooner for you.

[ashesinthefall]

im going through the same thing right now but im getting over it, its a big world out there so just keep standing to face it cuz something good might be around the corner

[racegirl24A]

ohh yeah, been there done that, it hurts a lot. just try to gradually get over him, thats what I did. and like x_hiccupy_x said, eat ice cream

[XaZnX07]

yeah everytime we you agree to a relationship you have risks you can either fall in love and spend the rest of your life with that one perons or you fall in love but things go wrong and you guys end up spliting up yeah

good luck hope you feel betta

[*Expresseggroll*]

Yeah, thats the exact reason why i am hesitant into a new relationship. I wanna be in love, but man, the risks are indeed scary

It takes time to heal. Took me honestly, 1 year and a half.

[sweetdreamsx3]

I know how you feel because I already went through to it since yesterday. You never know how much he means to you until you lose him...

But it just takes time to get over someone. For me, two days. :D So smile and cheer up. Whoots. :D

- liinda

[i ami_am]

ohhh!! ice creams good =D and those chipsahoy chewy cookies!

[needlenymph]

Aww..I know how you feel..We've all been there hunni. Just eat chocolate and spend time with your friends...I know that 'I should be crying but Im not feeling'..You just get kinda numb..But trust me it gets better...it doesnt seem like it but it will be easier in a little while...give it a few weeks and trust me it wont seem nearly as bad..... ::remembers getting dumped on my anniversary:: I Feel Your Pain!!! ((hugs)) It'll be okay, trust me.

[inthemudhole]

-_-
I know exactly what you mean.
That is how I feel right now.
Everything was going great, then it slowly died. Then it ended. And now I was finally starting to get over it, or I was at least starting to smile a bit, but noooo. Now I gotta read all their xangas and see how much fun he's having without me.

Yeah, anyway. Going back to your thread. XD
The pain will cease at some point. You'll get over it. I know it may seem like you won't, but someday you will. =]

[whywasisostupid]

u wont believe how right u r. i went out with a guy fo 9 months and i thought it was love. but psh was i wrong

[nyctophiliac]

yeah that happened to me once but i get over stuff easily

YAY MY 400TH POST!

[Too Asian To DIE]

well not everyone gets over it that easily..... u feel that way cause it was prolly a big part of ur lyf and now u lost it..... but there is always hope Here is a flower

[patrickstar]

honestly, crying helps alot. I feel better after a good cry, and u know just forget about that person. Surround yourself with friends, friends that care for you, you'll be beter in no time

[LadyXTor]

melissa,Sep 13 2004, 10:33 PM] i'm not going into details. but i never thought one person could make your insides feel like they were bruised and bleeding. i always thought i was strong enough for anyone but i guess i'm not

i should be crying, but i can't.

I've never gotten that feeling yet...but i can't wait. I want to feel emotions toward someone special...so i can feel pain...sorrow...happiness...but for now...i'm waiting for that time to come....consider yourself....lucky.

[tooeffingcrazy]

all i can say is, i hope you feel better. i don't think words can even describe what your feeling now. welps sooner or later you'll get over it

[peppermintkiss]

im sorry..yeah same thing happened to me..this guy i liked who liked me got a gf..and it hurt sooo much..i never knew how much he meant to me until it was too late. I hope you feel better!..yep TOTALLY try the whole icecream thing..it'll make you feel better.. you'll get over it in no time! spend alotta time with ur buddies!..hope u feel better!
-pheebs

[someflipguy]

To me How I got over things were to laugh. Laughter was always a key thing for me, when I needed a good cheering up, I would watch a funny movie. But, thats just me, or you can take the other route, just cry your eyes out until your sick of crying. That always helped me too...