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 Sep 20 2004, 10:51 PM
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 my <3 is in Ohio  Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599  |
yeah so my two good friends have been going out for about 8 months now. they've been having a really good relationship except for one rough spot. well anyways today the girl who happens to be my best friend wrote him a note saying that she wants to break up. they still have to talk about it but i remember last time they talked about breaking up he was a mess. he was depressed, crying, and...it drove his bestfriend and i crazy. they're both my good friends and i want to see them happy but...i'm just really confused on how i should feel about this. any advice?
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Sep 20 2004, 10:56 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
its your friends and you should be happy its not you?
but just hope for the best for them |
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Sep 20 2004, 11:10 PM
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my <3 is in Ohio Group: Member Posts: 899 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,599 |
see the thing is they're BOTH my friends and whether i like it or not i'm probably going to be stuck in the middle. and i really don't like being stuck in the middle in these sorts of things
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Sep 20 2004, 11:16 PM
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SOS Brigade!! Group: Member Posts: 2,573 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,775 |
just try to talk it or work it out with them... if they lasted around 8 months why can't they go through this...
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Sep 20 2004, 11:28 PM
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 Amberific. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,913 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,772 |
I don't think anyone could possibly tell you how to feel. They're both your friends, you love them both; it's not easy to pick sides in this. In fact, I don't think you should have to. If she wants to break up, you can't tell her not to. You just have to cheer up your guy pal and be there for him as best you can. People can be quite annoying when in a break-up, and if they're anything like my friends, they like to talk about it. Just listen and offer advice when asked.
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