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 Aug 23 2004, 10:25 PM
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You guys are dumb.  Group: Member Posts: 1,252 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,094  |
Whenever someone says that looks are important, someone just has to go "OH MY GOD YOU SO SHALLOW!" Like hell I am. In order of looking for someone, looks come first. No matter what. If you DID ask someone who is hidiously ugly out, then I applaud you. I for one am not able to do this. In a relationship I would want some sort of physical attraction. If you SAY you WILL ask someone out who is hidiously ugly, bullshit. It is all bullshit until you have done it. Saying is an easier task than doing. Now stop posting that bullshit about how we are shallow.
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Aug 23 2004, 10:29 PM
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 anti-friendly Group: Member Posts: 181 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,973 |
i agree with u 110%, if looks arent important how come the obese and ugly ppl dont have gfs/bfs, lmao.
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Aug 23 2004, 10:30 PM
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 03.21.00 <3 LaTe 637 Group: Member Posts: 744 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,890 |
that's true.. when people ask what do you look for in a person first... everyone usually says personality... but when you go out... how are you supposed to know if a person has a good personality or whatever... ?? You don't go out and say like... "hmmm, that guy or girl looks like she has a good personality..."Looks do matter because there needs to be some physical attraction... sure they don't have to be the hottest person in the world or whatever.. but you know... I agree with th5418, it's not shallow...
 the appearance of a person is what captures your attention... the personality is what captures your heart  mwuahaha, so corny
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Aug 23 2004, 11:22 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah.
I pretty much agree with you. |
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Aug 23 2004, 11:27 PM
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 ㅋㅋㅋ Group: Member Posts: 924 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,283 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 23 2004, 10:25 PM) Whenever someone says that looks are important, someone just has to go "OH MY GOD YOU SO SHALLOW!" Like hell I am. In order of looking for someone, looks come first. No matter what. If you DID ask someone who is hidiously ugly out, then I applaud you. I for one am not able to do this. In a relationship I would want some sort of physical attraction. If you SAY you WILL ask someone out who is hidiously ugly, bullshit. It is all bullshit until you have done it. Saying is an easier task than doing. Now stop posting that bullshit about how we are shallow. definitely agree with you.... they say its whats inside that counts...but that doesnt mean the outside isnt important.... lol, "Shallow Hal" seemed otherwise. |
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Aug 23 2004, 11:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 259 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,793 |
QUOTE(XxBeExOHxX @ Aug 23 2004, 10:29 PM) i agree with u 110%, if looks arent important how come the obese and ugly ppl dont have gfs/bfs, lmao.  lol. no but seriously thats a little cruel. |
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Aug 23 2004, 11:33 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah.
It is a tad bit mean. Just look at me. <--*points* I have a boyfriend. ----------------------- Something to add:: Once you like someone, everything about them is attractive.. sometimes the personality determines their.. attractiveness. Whoa, that didn't make any sense. -_- |
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| *RiC3xBoy* |
Aug 24 2004, 12:33 AM
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of course, they only do it so pplz wont think their "bad" pplz, for me, looks just bring me to them first, then thats where personality kicks in
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Aug 24 2004, 12:37 AM
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 KUNG FU/JEDI MASTER Group: Member Posts: 354 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,433 |
Yea it's true. people say "its the inside that counts" Which is kinda Stupid because Not alot of people Believe in that crap. And I admit Im kinda Shallow I wouldn't want some Fat ugly Bald Dude next to me when I wake up and its the First thing I look at [shivers]
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Aug 24 2004, 01:06 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 693 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,017 |
yea i would say that looks does matter, i agree with you on that
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Aug 24 2004, 02:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
hell yeah go shallow ppl..its all about the outside
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Aug 24 2004, 05:16 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
if looks didnt matter then there would be alot more happy people in this world....but too bad it does and i agree with dgl398y43 or w/e ur name is :-p.
for an example.... old people have great personalities...cuz they've lived lol and they are wise....well most of em anyways..... i dont see any of u guys dating grampas or grandmas :-p LOOKS MATTER~! haha wait....thats age.....but still ! lol im bored im going to sleep screw u!!! |
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Aug 24 2004, 07:04 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I understand everbodys views! Cus I am the same way... Ive met lots of good looking girls but, when they start talking Im like whoa and run away(not run but you know). If they are not interesting once I first talking to them, I think its not worth the time because even though I look for physical attraction I also look for a great mind. Maybe thats why my friends say I am so picky...
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Aug 24 2004, 09:33 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
dude, i asked out a guy who had a awesome personality and wasnt so up on looks. then again he was a good friend so looks didnt really matter..
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Aug 24 2004, 09:44 AM
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 Effing classic. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,183 |
i have never once in my life said that "it's the inside that counts." you have to look at both their personality AND if you are physically attracted to the person or not. If you meet this really hot person, but they are a complete female dog, i would drop them. But if i met this REALLY ugly person who was nice, i don't think i would go out with them in the first place because i wouldn't be physically attracted to them. and if you aren't both attracted to the person, and like their personality, things won't last long.
xox - Laur |
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Aug 24 2004, 11:44 AM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
yeah, i agree with you. the first thing you notice when you first meet someone is their looks.
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Aug 24 2004, 12:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 259 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,793 |
QUOTE(someflipguy @ Aug 24 2004, 7:04 AM) I understand everbodys views! Cus I am the same way... Ive met lots of good looking girls but, when they start talking Im like whoa and run away(not run but you know). If they are not interesting once I first talking to them, I think its not worth the time because even though I look for physical attraction I also look for a great mind. Maybe thats why my friends say I am so picky... truuuu... if a girl can't even understand my jokes... personality is as important as looks. i mean cmon i dont want to feel like im f**kin babysitting. |
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Aug 24 2004, 02:35 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
damnnn .. that is f**kin true. finally somebodyz speakin the f**kin truth.
sometimes u mite start to like the person from the personality side, but if that personz reaaaally f**kin ugly or w/e.... helll u not gonna stick with it... and yes looks attract ur attention at first... X |
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Aug 24 2004, 02:39 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,411 |
QUOTE(RiC3xBoy @ Aug 24 2004, 12:33 AM) of course, they only do it so pplz wont think their "bad" pplz, for me, looks just bring me to them first, then thats where personality kicks in I totally agree. But I won't date a person just because they're hott. They HAVE to have personality. <3 |
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Aug 24 2004, 02:42 PM
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 freedom Group: Member Posts: 844 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,358 |
Looks attract you to the person but the personality keeps you with that person.
 Looks are some what important.
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Aug 24 2004, 02:52 PM
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 Mmm..Meat :D Group: Member Posts: 326 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,086 |
Everyone just has different likes to people and that's totally understandable. I just sort of hate it when people all around the world degrade others because of their looks [like at school, work, etc.] and just shun them out of the crowd.
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Aug 24 2004, 02:53 PM
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 cellar door Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,513 |
QUOTE(th5418 @ Aug 23 2004, 10:25 PM) Whenever someone says that looks are important, someone just has to go "OH MY GOD YOU SO SHALLOW!" Like hell I am. In order of looking for someone, looks come first. No matter what. If you DID ask someone who is hidiously ugly out, then I applaud you. I for one am not able to do this. In a relationship I would want some sort of physical attraction. If you SAY you WILL ask someone out who is hidiously ugly, bullshit. It is all bullshit until you have done it. Saying is an easier task than doing. Now stop posting that bullshit about how we are shallow. Physical attraction in a relationship is important; you're right. Of course everyone is going to want someone who is aesthetically pleasing. However, if you're unable to realize that personality is the more important of the two, then that's when I'd consider someone superficial. And I'd be sad for you because if you're focused on physiognomy, then obviously you yourself have little to offer to someone else and chances are, you're probably missing out on really amazing people. |
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Aug 24 2004, 08:29 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
the ppl that say they go for personality, i bet they dont get any or they're ugly
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Aug 24 2004, 09:38 PM
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Sure, of course.... looks come first... if someone's good looking, then you're attracted to them initially... but if their personality sucks, then it probably ends there...
on the other hand, if you find someone to not be attractive, then yeh... not much attraction initially right? But if you get to know them and all that, then your perception of that person may change.... To me, the more I get to know a person, the more attractive and beautiful they get to me... seriously, if you're you're ugly looking, but you're a really good friend with a beautiful personality, then you yourself as a person seem "beautiful" to me... kinda... to some extent... err what was i saying?? haha, ok... stop |
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Aug 24 2004, 10:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 413 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,733 |
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ Aug 24 2004, 9:38 PM) Sure, of course.... looks come first... if someone's good looking, then you're attracted to them initially... but if their personality sucks, then it probably ends there... on the other hand, if you find someone to not be attractive, then yeh... not much attraction initially right? But if you get to know them and all that, then your perception of that person may change.... To me, the more I get to know a person, the more attractive and beautiful they get to me... seriously, if you're you're ugly looking, but you're a really good friend with a beautiful personality, then you yourself as a person seem "beautiful" to me... kinda... to some extent... err what was i saying?? haha, ok... stop yeah but most of the time if u get to know them and stuff, u end up friends already and then if u get together, its not really all taht exciting |
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