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 Sep 5 2004, 02:09 PM
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 old school member  Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843  |
Do you have one?
In case you don't know, it's like a friend you can do stuff with, no strings attached. And if you don't how do you feel about other having one? |
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Sep 5 2004, 02:17 PM
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i think its awesome, i dont see a bad side to it
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Sep 5 2004, 02:33 PM
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I love you <33333 Group: Member Posts: 2,928 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,404 |
QUOTE(DavidxN @ Sep 5 2004, 2:17 PM) i think its awesome, i dont see a bad side to it ditto on that lol 
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Sep 5 2004, 02:37 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
for a short while, she was my ex girlfriend , and emotions rised and things got complicated,good while it lasted though
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Sep 5 2004, 02:39 PM
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yeah it's great and all, but usually one of them start to develop feelings towards the other one which makes them feel very used. but hey at least it feels good when you're doing it.
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Sep 5 2004, 03:15 PM
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Don't have one, don't need one. 7.25.04 XD
I have no opinions on it. It's their decisions to do it so whatever. Use protection! hahaha |
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Sep 5 2004, 03:17 PM
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old school member Group: Member Posts: 1,796 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 843 |
QUOTE(betrayedbytheducky @ Sep 5 2004, 3:39 PM) but hey at least it feels good when you're doing it.  Naughty people. |
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
Sep 5 2004, 03:26 PM
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I don't have one...
I effed my ex one time when we were no longer "bf and gf"... but i don't see how you can do it and not have any feelings for the other person... i still did... but it just felt more like having sex than making love ...  he's the only person i'd do it with, but um.. yeh, i dunno
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Sep 5 2004, 05:19 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
i want a friend w/ benefits... it would be so awesome...
first of all... i just need a damn girlfriend. |
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Sep 5 2004, 05:28 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
umm no i dont and i realli dont want one...
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Sep 5 2004, 05:37 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Errr.
No, I don't, and I don't exactly want one or feel the need to have one. 
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Sep 5 2004, 06:30 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
dont have one dont ever want to have one, and i despise ppl who have one
 sorry lol if that offends anyone but i jus dont like it
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Sep 5 2004, 06:35 PM
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i wish i had one it would be fun
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Sep 5 2004, 06:49 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
i've never really had one i guess... and i wouldn't because i would most likely catch feelings.
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Sep 5 2004, 07:32 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
I agree with Roxanne, it's tough because you're not really supposed to have feelings for that person, but it makes u get feelings for them. I was reading an article, I think it was in my Seventeen or YM issue, and it was about FWB (Friends With Benefits). The girls said that even if they did develop feelings, they could never show them.
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| *tyedyefroggy* |
Sep 5 2004, 07:39 PM
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Like everyone said before, no I dont think I would want one either becuase of developing feelings for the other and I would feel like one of us was used...
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Sep 6 2004, 01:43 PM
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 Sweet n' Sexy Group: Member Posts: 146 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,489 |
no, bad idea
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Sep 6 2004, 03:11 PM
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 mrs. carrabba Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 33,786 |
never done it, although i've thought about it. it would probably end up for the worse, but sometimes you just get so lonely.
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Sep 6 2004, 05:55 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
eh, i've never had one. but, it would be hard because if i did, i might develop feelings for him
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Sep 7 2004, 01:19 AM
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pr3cious Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,761 |
i use to..but i dont want one anymore!!..it backfired a whole lot cuz everyone including my crush(who liked me during that time) thought we were going out....i only had a friend with benefits cuz i thought i liked him..but i guess i really didnt..i think my crush was really hurt and it makes me feel so guilty!..it hurts me to see him hurt..especially when its me hurting him!!
 (did that make sense?lol)
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Sep 7 2004, 02:43 AM
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 Aznsorpor Group: Member Posts: 89 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,522 |
i dont think that friendship should depend on benefits and what the other person can do for you or give you.. it should be more like a mutual we make each other happy kinda thing.. i dont like the ones that are like that.. that looks to people for benefits.. i knew a few that did that.. it jus gets annoying and seriously bad after a lil while..
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Sep 7 2004, 02:59 AM
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 Pimp Status Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,200 |
I dont have one, but at this moment in time i wouldnt mind having one... Its like having a girlfriend just without the commitment... I really thought about this one time and I kinda came to the conclusion that it would be nice to have someone to cuddle with and someone to mess around with when your lonley, but at the same time it wouldnt feel right... Im the type of person who has morals and such that certain things are ment at certain times. Cuddling, and flirting, and stuff i dont mind, but anything beyond it just wouldnt float with me.
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Sep 7 2004, 12:07 PM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I got a couple of them! But, I getting sick of just messing around! I think I need to find me a real girlfriend...
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Sep 7 2004, 02:39 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
i always said thatz the worst dung ever
but somehow i started that 2 and yeh no strings attached. as long as both of u can control it.. itz fine i dont c a bad side 2 it either. X |
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Sep 7 2004, 08:16 PM
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 i'm lala. girly girl. Group: Member Posts: 1,531 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,888 |
QUOTE(xquizit @ Sep 5 2004, 6:49 PM) i've never really had one i guess... and i wouldn't because i would most likely catch feelings. i totally agree with her...because i would become attached if they were realli nice to me...but i dont know...it's CRAZY...never worked out for me... |
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