being ignored by boys, why? Options

[dove_gemz]

I don't want to annoy the heck out of people, but I have a question: Why doesn't any guy in my class like me (well at least no one that I know of)? I'm smart, I get good grades, I'm funny, I smile a lot, and I'm generally nice. Oh, and I'm Asian and I was new last year and I'm an immigrant from the Phils.. Almost all the other guys are white, and the girls who have boyfriends (including this new girl) are white. Do you think there's a little bit of racism here? Sure, so far, the guys in my class are generally nice to me, but I don't hear any word from my friends of someone liking me. And it's hard to tell if the guys are just being nice or if they like you. Or maybe their hormones haven't kicked in yet, after all I'm only in the sixth grade (hope I'm not too young for this forum). But what do you think?

[sugarcultluver]

maybe they like u but they dont tell anyone. and no ur not annoying me!! should this get moved to relationships?

[captured_serenit...]

your not annoying me....dont worry...just be yourself...

[smileyworld010]

First of all, there is nothing wrong with you. Second of all you are not annoying me. Third of all If guys dont like you, thats their problem cuz from the way you describe yourself, there isnt anything wrong with you. And also, its no big deal if no guys "like you". I mean, they probably do but you dont know. In sixth grade everyone's just kinda shy about things like this... well not everyone, unless your... well- Like they said, just be yourself, if they dont like you for who u are, their loss.

hope that helped!

have a flower.

<3 Dahlia.

[dove_gemz]

First of all, there is nothing  wrong with you. Second of all you are not annoying me. Third of all If guys dont like you, thats their problem cuz from the way you describe yourself, there isnt anything wrong with you. And also, its no big deal if no guys "like you". I mean, they probably do but you dont know. In sixth grade everyone's just kinda shy about things like this... well not everyone, unless your... well-  Like they said, just be yourself, if they dont like you for who u are, their loss.

hope that helped!

have a flower.

<3 Dahlia.

Thanks! ^_^ You made me feel a whole lot better. I guess I just have to wait for the right time.

[Mick3Y]

You're not annoying me. May be some guys like you but they dun want to tell. Just be yourself. Someday, may be some guy will come and tell you that. You're still young. Dun worry about it.

- Tran -

[xoxspanky569]

Well, either some guy likes you but is a big chicken and is too afraid to ask you or no one in your class likes you. But just because no one in your class likes you isn't bad, there is zillions of guys outside of school. And in the case that no one in your class likes you, i don't think it is racism, they just aren't interested. If you like a particular someone at school, why not ask them out yourself? maybe they secretly like you..it's worth a risk, you know? And alot of guys in 6th grade aren't intrested in girls yet, they are preoccupied by sports and other 'manly' stuff like that. Don't worry about having a boyfriend yet, you've got your whole life ahead of you. Hope that helped...

[dove_gemz]

Thanks all. All of you are very nice. :-)

[hybrid]

Honestly, just be patient.

[islandkiss]

maybe there are boys that like you.. you're just unsure and paranoid. don't worry about it. the right guy will come.

[xsweetdreams12x]

Have a flower and be confident about yourself. The time will come when guys will be fighting over you.

[WhiteLotus*]

Guys like to keep things in. 88% want them for you to make the first move. If they dont, it's no big deal. It's their problem.

Heck. Almsot all the guys at my school are Asian, and I'm white. I know a ew that like me I guess...

[aznriceboi]

since you said you're new to the school/class people are still adjusting to you and getting to know you. in time people will come to like you

[yeseulx3]

study. just worry about studying in school.

[sheepy]

ums. ur just in sixth grade. it doesnt matter much if boys like you or not right now. i mean u won't spend the rest of ur life with the ones u have now. don't b so parinoid

[MeanBastard]

I dont know. are you ugly?

[kiSHBall]

i think it's cOOl that you feel good about yourself =)) maybe your perfect guy just isn't there yet. he'll come to yOu, be patient!!

[inthemudhole]

Someone out there likes you.
They're just afraid to tell you.

[silver-rain]

well, maybe someone does like you, but it just too shy to say anything. but, you're only in 6th grade, so it doesn't really matter. i was just like you in middle school, but it didn't really bother me. just wait.

[XxBeExOHxX]

dress like a slut, some guys like that.

[casssy]

Someone out there likes you.
They're just afraid to tell you.

I agree theres always one.. whether it be a girl or a guy

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

maybe someone likes u but is afraid to tell you
maybe ur not attractive
maybe ur not "fun" or "interesting" enough to flirt with....

just be more social .... thats all i can say

[xbladeoffire90x]

dress like a slut, some guys like that.

lol

don't do that

i dunno, no guys like me either...but i'm friends with a lot of them

[ineed2bluvd]

lol.. just b urself.. dont change.. if boys dont like u or giv u any attention.. go with the flow.. if they dont like who u are.. f*ck them.. lol.. if u are really sick of it.. then transfer.. lol.. at least u hav friends.. trust me.. all u need is friends rite now.. if ur asking for attention.. but if ur asking for a bf.. then mayb.. u should hav ur friends help u ask the dudez if they like u.. idk.. lol

[*wind&fire*]

i think ur a little to young to be worrying about boyfriends... ur like 12 ...be happy being young... i always say if they like you and dont admit it then they're not worth it...