twisted heartbroken T.T, friends are trying to help Options

[mizzinno]

[warning: this is kinda long]

i've liked this guy[lets call him xian] ever since he walked into my 6th grade class about two years ago. i never really got the chance to get to know him well and for him to know me that much cause i was always obsessing over him. but i guess you could say that we're friends.
this one dude, [let's call him 1120], 1120, he is one of my good guy-friends, and i tell him alot of things.. he knows i like xian, as well many in our class do, because i told xian last valentines day and i guess you could say we were valentines. anyway, 1120, i guess he's such a good friend with me and also wit xian, that he wanted to get us together recently. although 1120 didnt tell me this, my best friend `gelica told me 1120 told her..
ever since then xian has been acting more flirtatious and open towards me, trying to talk to me more than he ever did before..
it kinda bothers me cause i know the truth-- that xian doesnt like me. maybe he's just trying to make me happy by flirting or mabye getting to know me, but i know he doesnt like me in that way.
im feeling soo bad because here 1120 is, thinking it's making me feel better, when really it's making me feel like sh!t. cause xian has to pretend that he likes me just to make me happy-- its like he pitys me.

-i dunno if i should tell 1120 that its making me feel really bad, because he knows im mad at him, and just doesnt know why. and i know what its gonna be like already "im sorry, i didnt mean to hurt you, i thought it would make u happy".. [maybe hes just not the best of a friend? cause wen `gelica said "thats just gonna hurt her.." he said something like "at least she'll feel different for a change"]
-i feel like i wanna tell xian to just f*ck off cause he's actually playing along with it, and maybe he's not the type that i really deserve if he's gonna just go with someone he feels nothing with.. its just not easy to find someone like him..

i dont know what to do or who to tell what. it seems as if some of my other friends are too occupied with school and i have no one really to confide in..
i feel so empty inside like im worth nothing cause my friend is making me feel like im nothing and that i need to be pitied, and im so heartbroken because the one im obsessed with doesnt care enough to think about what's REALLY behind this game he's playing..

any help?

[the beginning was kinda worthless but i guess you needed a little background]

[jnukes]

talk to xian... if you know he's just playin with you just tell him to stop it. "pretend" liking is MUCH worse than NOT liking.

[inthemudhole]

^ Exactly.
Talk to Xian.

[LittleLulu]

talk to xian, since u flirt......n jus tell him u knoe...n that he can stop that..but u still wanna be friends wif him eh??..n as for the number dude..um... ya tell him too!

[conster]

u kno that highlighted part about talkin to 1120 and xian.. well do it!! wut are u waiting for ! lols if 1120 is a good friend, then jus talk to him he'll understand, he sounds like hes jus doin it for u...

[Darkpekkle]

er, actually I'm a little confused.
1. So were you and 1120 valentines? or were you and xian valentines?
2. do you know for sure that xian doesnt like you?

Anyways, if xian doesnt like you in that way, then the thing to do is to tell Xian that he doesn't have to pretend anymore, because it's hurting more than it's helping. And that you're okay with just being friends.

[nyctophiliac]

just talk to the kid!!