i need helpp, how could you tell if he like you..? |
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| *waiting for you babyyyboo* |
 Oct 20 2006, 11:37 PM
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okay...
there is this guy that i likee but i don't know if he feels the same wayy. he stares at me and yeah but we don't talk at all since he is popular and im considered weird i think but im not popular for suree and if you are not popular you just can't talk to that group off kids soo yeah please i need help! |
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Oct 20 2006, 11:39 PM
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if you guys talk, he probably doesn't like you in my opinion. i mean, you said he just stares at you. that could mean anything, like you have spinach in your teeth (lame i know) or something. it would help if you guys were friends, then the signs would be more noticable.
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Oct 20 2006, 11:47 PM
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QUOTE(ashopely @ Oct 21 2006, 12:39 AM)  if you guys talk, he probably doesn't like you in my opinion. i mean, you said he just stares at you. that could mean anything, like you have spinach in your teeth (lame i know) or something. it would help if you guys were friends, then the signs would be more noticable. I agree. I thought the staring thing meant something too but it turns out it doesn't. 
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Oct 20 2006, 11:52 PM
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^ ditto. It means either he likes you or you have something on your face. It actually really does depend on what kind of face he has when he stares at you. If he looks disgusted, then you probably weird him out (no offence). If he looks shy and like blushing, then he probably likes you.
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| *waiting for you babyyyboo* |
Oct 21 2006, 12:20 AM
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well he does smile at me at times but yeah :[
god do i hate my lifee i never get the guy i want |
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Oct 21 2006, 01:08 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
you CAN start to get to know him and to get closer to him you know =] That way, you increase the chances of him liking you.
That's how me and my bf started out. We started as classmates....got to know each other through a friend...started talking more....fell for him....turned out that he liked me too...and now after months of wondering, we're together =] Staring at you doesn't mean anything. Generally when a guy likes you, he'll start to pay more attention to you....and start acting different, in a nice way of course, manner towards you. Essentially, he'll treat you special and you'll feel the difference. |
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Oct 21 2006, 01:11 AM
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QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Oct 21 2006, 2:08 AM) you CAN start to get to know him and to get closer to him you know =] That way, you increase the chances of him liking you. That's how me and my bf started out. We started as classmates....got to know each other through a friend...started talking more....fell for him....turned out that he liked me too...and now after months of wondering, we're together =] Staring at you doesn't mean anything. Generally when a guy likes you, he'll start to pay more attention to you....and start acting different, in a nice way of course, manner towards you. Essentially, he'll treat you special and you'll feel the difference. That was an amazing explaination, so true as well. 
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| *waiting for you babyyyboo* |
Oct 21 2006, 01:37 AM
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thats a greattt idea
but he is popular and im the dorkyy kidd at my skoo lif we are completly differet we just don't talk but iono i guess i'll try to talk to him :] |
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Oct 21 2006, 04:35 AM
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QUOTE(waiting for you babyyyboo @ Oct 21 2006, 12:37 PM) since he is popular and im considered weird i think but im not popular for suree and if you are not popular you just can't talk to that group off kids soo yeah please i need help! "if you are not popular you just can't talk to that group of kids"... um. if you feel that way, how are you going to get to know him, yet alone have him like you? get some self esteem, girl! but anyways. if a guy likes you, he'll probably either disappear and barely pay attention to you (shy guy) or start hanging out with you more. i don't know. the best way to find out is to ask him. and if you are way too shy for that, you could have a friend find out for you, i guess. be sure she's really subtle. |
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| *waiting for you babyyyboo* |
Oct 21 2006, 09:04 PM
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yeahhh thatss greaatt too xD
i think i should just forget about him.. cuz like i know im gonna get hurt like beforree [ if you wna tto know the story jusst tell me and ill tell you allll about itt] |
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Oct 21 2006, 09:06 PM
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QUOTE(waiting for you babyyyboo @ Oct 21 2006, 10:04 PM) yeahhh thatss greaatt too xD i think i should just forget about him.. cuz like i know im gonna get hurt like beforree [ if you wna tto know the story jusst tell me and ill tell you allll about itt] post it. i'm interested in knowing. just remember, not all guys are the same.
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| *waiting for you babyyyboo* |
Oct 21 2006, 10:05 PM
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okayy its going to bee verrrrrrrrrryyyyyyyy confusing just to let you know sorry if the story is going to be very longg. i am going to use fake names bcuz it just hurts me typing down his name and other ppl in this story.
Okay.. This WHOLEEEE story started last year. You know how it is new school year..blah blah blah... I saw this very cute guy.. i started to notice him around Septenber. He was in 2 of my classes p.e and social studies. In p.e. i was lonley :[ but until i met mia [ my current best friend] she would tell me how the guy [Ben] would always stare at me and smile and come near me all the timee. i would act like ithought hewas weird until i asked mia "do you think i like him?" she siaad no. i told her "well, i do" she was like REALLYYY hhoww cuutee he still kept on sstaring at me and kept on doing the same things. he would be surprised in p.e on how far i could hit a baseball and stuff... well he made me jealous with his ex -__- and i wanted revenge so i used my guy friend [ Danny] i would tell "Mia" how much i loved "Danny" and my friend would look at his face when i said that she would tell me he gott really jealous and pissed. so we kept on playing it back and forth. sooo until june which means last month of skool. i wanted to tell him how i felt about him. so i told "danny" to tell "ben" soo yeah he told "ben" so i waited and waited and guess what he did... NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!! but i still loved him. around august mia talked to him on AIM and she asked him about me. she told me that he was with his ex again. and he said "I don't care about her. I love my ex. when she told me those words i just broke down and cried. i became depressed. my whole life changed. Well ever since he came into my life, everything about me changed. before i was happy every single day, i loved sports, i was always ready to go to skool to learn more. but now he ruined it. i am now depressed, i hate sports, i am not that happy anymore. "Mia" said don't woory forget about him, he doesn't know how great of a person you are. he is too stupid to get his heart broken by his ex. everytime she told me that i always said yeah your right but he was my everything i can't love anyonelse. he is the only one for me. i still loved him throughout the summer. but that changed until October 16 2006 on that day i started to like a new guy.i still see "ben" cuz he is friends with the new guy yeah Ben still looks at me and he still smiles at me but he had his chance and he lost it.. i gave Ben sooo many chances..its too late now.. the new guy makes me happy when i see him<33 but i know ill never be wiht him :[ but yeah im not that much depressed anymore.. GOD SORRY THAT WAS SOOOO LONGGG |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Oct 21 2006, 10:12 PM
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Maybe he thinks you're cute.
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Oct 21 2006, 10:15 PM
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QUOTE(My Cinderella. @ Oct 21 2006, 8:12 PM) Maybe he thinks you're cute. which one?? the new guy or the f**ked up "ben" |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Oct 21 2006, 10:21 PM
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The one you mentioned in the first post.
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| *waiting for you babyyyboo* |
Oct 21 2006, 10:22 PM
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ohh yeahh i hopee xD
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Oct 24 2006, 03:43 PM
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well maybe he does have a thing for u deep down but he dont kno it yet but dont get ur hopes crush just because hes populaur and ur not or if hes going out wit another girl it takes time to relize who u really like or not so yea
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Oct 24 2006, 06:22 PM
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don't you have friends that are a bit popular? If you do start hanging out with her and then hang out with her popular friends and then one day you'll be popular enough to talk to him or maybe he'll talk to you!
 This is what happened to me but i was the one that got used to get someone popular. But that's okay because im still better!  
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Oct 24 2006, 06:52 PM
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well start talking to him !!
but yeah you guys need to know each other first.. that kinda happend to me too i started talking to him and the next thing that happend to me he asked me out!! |
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Oct 25 2006, 12:09 AM
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You just make friends with him, and see if he likes you. Just show your intrested. If you feel like you have a chance and he continues to give you attention. You just keep going until he asks you out...
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Oct 25 2006, 09:34 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 493 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
ask him if he ever had dreams about you. that's a 100% sure that he likes you
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Oct 27 2006, 09:40 PM
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You say you don't talk, and he stares at you...and you;re considered weird :s....maybe, if you are, indeed a bit of an oddball, theres nothing wrong with that, maybe he;s just looking at you because of that? I don;t know...but if you don;t talk...there's really no..yeah I don;t think he likes you, but I could be wrong
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| *waiting for you babyyyboo* |
Feb 17 2007, 09:39 PM
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thanks everybody for your advice :]
i appreciate it very much ^___^ |
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Feb 17 2007, 09:52 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
He might be looking at your friend, not technically you.
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Feb 18 2007, 09:38 AM
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i think yu shoukld ask some of yur friends who noes him then like get to know each other ,go see a movie together with yur friends and him :)
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