Whats wrong with you people? Options

[ill_lil_girl]

Q: "Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb.."

A: Because there is only one REAL way to learn. The real way to lean what it is like to be in a relationship is to try it for yourself.

P.S. All of us have been middle schoolers. I don't think we were ALL ignorant.

[thesecretmodel]

Is this really a debate still or are we just throwing small flames at each other? Anyway, I personally believe kids in middle school shouldn't be dating - they've got no freakin' clue on how to handle that type of level with another person. Plus, it's just too young too fast.

And hey, don't h8 on my ignorance thx! We're all stupid at some point in time

[Looow]

gosh what's ur problem? you get on my nerves man

[*kryogenix*]

Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb..

AMEN. Man I remember kids getting into relationships in 4th grade. What's the point of dating? It's so two people can get to know one another and then get married. If you are with the same person you dated since 4th grade, good for you, but 9 times out of 10 you probably will break up. I hate how some people get into relationships just to show off, but they make everyone else's life hell when they break up and act suicidal.

[inthemudhole]

I totally agree with uninspiredfae and thradrien_blake.

[islandkiss]

I don't agree with you. some ppl just need to talk about their problems and they do need help at times. if you don't like it then don't respond to them.

[nas]

they make everyone else's life hell when they break up and act suicidal.

FCKING DRAMA QUEENS! For serious they need to shut the fck up. I don't listen to them anymore heh heh heh. It may sound cruel, but my friends don't come to me anymore for a talk when they break up and such. That's cause it's always the same story! And I warned them before.. dude you don't need this right now, or I think it's time to break up. But noO.

Of course that's not everyone though. There people I know that are mature enough and have a serious relationship, and respect to that.

[sunissed14127]

What the hell? Relationship is one thing. Marriage is another.

you have 2 have a relationshop b4 u get married

[MeanBastard]

you have 2 have a relationshop b4 u get married

But they are still two different things.

[Spirited Away]

But they are still two different things.

So a marriage is not a relationship to you? ... if not, then what on earth is it?

[inthemudhole]

Uhm.
How is marriage not a relationship..?

Any contact you have with a person is a relationship.
Even if they're acquaintances, that's still considered a relationship.

[*kryogenix*]

Q: "Then why the hell do stupid middle schoolers venture into relationships when they are so ignorant. Dumb.."

A: Because there is only one REAL way to learn. The real way to lean what it is like to be in a relationship is to try it for yourself.

P.S. All of us have been middle schoolers. I don't think we were ALL ignorant.

Hey, my friend wants to stick his hand in a blender, because he's curious and wants to know what will happen. I guess I should just let him, because that's the only way to learn. Awesome logic!

He's (or she, not sure) not mad at middle schoolers in general, he's mad at the ones who jump into relationships.

[Spirited Away]

He's (or she, not sure) not mad at middle schoolers in general, he's mad at the ones who jump into relationships.

I am as annoyed at that as he is, but adults jump into relationships, too, and adults can be all teary eyed and complain about their relationships as well, not just little kids.

I rather kids ask for advice than be ignorant of how to work out their problems, then be stressful and depressed about it... which could lead to more serious problems.

[F1R3B4T]

well obviously wen ppl begin a relationship, they dont realize how it can fly out of control. n yea most of the time its pretty damn obvious that it wont work out, they jus wanna push their luck

i completely agree with th5014, why do ppl post all that crap in the relationships forum about the simplest goddamn problems???
if u can't solve ur problem maybe its because:
1) its already gone beyond the control and u haf no hope of gettin bak
2) ur a complete dipstick

of course, some threads in the relationships forum is asking for tips or advice on stuff n i dont see how that could hurt

[Spirited Away]

i completely agree with th5014, why do ppl post all that crap in the relationships forum about the simplest goddamn problems???
if u can't solve ur problem maybe its because:
1) its already gone beyond the control and u haf no hope of gettin bak
2) ur a complete dipstick

So you seem to think that everyone on earth is emotionally stable, strong willed, and capable of handling their relationship problems?

Have you been in a relationship before?

1) Nothing's over until the fat lady sings. If everyone will just give up their love in a snap if the problem is too complicated then there would be more and more divorces and no one will work for love anymore. Why should you give up so easily on someone that could be "the one"?

2) Remember the proverbial "love is blind"?

[vivieeeen]

who's the fat lady? (just wondering)

i do agree with th5014. Simply because I believe that humans should only jump into a guy-girl relationship when they are ready. Mentally and physically.

like kryogenix said before, it's not morally correct to date when you're in 4th grade.

But that's not the real point is it. I believe what th5014's saying, is that people who are not ready to have a non-family relationship, should just simply NOT have one..

but i may be wrong

[Spirited Away]

Are you asking me to answer a proverbial statement?

Hmm, it's great that people are saying that one shouldn't jump into a relationship until they're ready... but who can tell you when exactly you are ready?

Pshh, at that rate, you'll wait for your whole life time, good luck people.

Love can be unexpected as winning the lottery. Are you going to wait to win the lottery by sitting on your ass all day or are you going to buy some tickets and wait for the results?