issue-cant fit in Options

[XxaznskoolgurlxX]

hiiya!! wellz...guess i kan talk about stuff in here cuz no one knowz me here...um..well..okai..im in this scout thingy, n i guess itz kool n all...but i have no friendz there...well..i used to have one friend there..but something happened between us so we barely even talk anymore...[[i dunno wat happened to us..]] yeah..she n i go to the same skool too..we barely talk at skool too...anywayz...i wanna fit in n have friendz there but i guess i dunno how...on this rare ocassion i spoke to the gurl i used to hang out with..she sed that all i had to do was open up to pplz n that ill fit in faster than i think...wierd thing is, is that everytyme im about to open up..i juz close off...another wierd thing is that im tottaly different at skool than i am at scoutz...lyke..at skool im all happii n hyper...but at scoutz...i juz turn all sad almost depressed...itz wierd cuz i dunno y im lyke that...the gurl i used to hang out with..hangz out with these 2 other gurlz...she told me that those gurlz wanna be friendz with me...i thought to myself "if they wanna to b friendz with me, then y dont they act lyke it??"
i dunno wat to do...should i stop going to scoutz?? or should i try even harder to fit in?? if i stop goin to scoutz..i wont b able to see the guy i lyke...[[waaay different topic...ill save that for another day]] wellz..thankz for reading this...n thankz sooo much if u have any advice...take kare!!

[*CEP*]

Do you normally type stuff up like that?
Anywho, stay in scouts. It's better to confront your problems rather than run away from them. Open up. Don't be scared. If your friend told you to open up, and you don't want to, don't complain about not having any friends in scouts. Because it's partly your fault. Your friends are there, you just need to go get them.

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- Chinkieeyedpnoi

[hybrid]

See, you're more happier in school because you have friends there and not in scouts.

You shouldn't try so hard to fit in. You've probably heard before but be yourself! No one wants to be friends with fake people. Honestly, just say hello to everyone and at least have one conversation with them. If you guys share at least one interest, hey you can be friends with them! But remember to be yourself!

[luckyxi3]

i agree with hybrid... you seem to be happier in school because you have friends... and you shouldn`t just give up in scouts... i`m not saying try harder because it might seem like you`re desperate or something... i`m saying wait... wait until someone comes along... or atleast open up... don`t be scurred... if you don`t do anything, nothing will happen...

[xoxspanky569]

Ok..you shouldn't need to TRY to fit in...it should come naturally when you meet the right people who are sposed to be your friends...now you said

"if they wanna to b friendz with me, then y dont they act lyke it??"

Maybe they are nervous about talking to you but also want be your friend. I think you should just go up to them and be like "Hi...i like your _____" Fill in the blank with shoes, shirt, hair, etc. A compliment is a nice way start a conversation, and it'll make the other girl smile. Then be like "I'm _____" Fill in the blank with whatever your name is. Hopefully the conversation should run smoothly from there...if not...try talking to someone else until things click. Good luck.

The doctor is out,
Spanky

P.S. PLEASE type normally...

[sweetdreamsx3]

See, you're more happier in school because you have friends there and not in scouts.

You shouldn't try so hard to fit in. You've probably heard before but be yourself! No one wants to be friends with fake people. Honestly, just say hello to everyone and at least have one conversation with them. If you guys share at least one interest, hey you can be friends with them! But remember to be yourself!

I agree with hybrid. Ignore the girls who say they want to be friends with you. Like you said yourself, if they wanted to be friends, why don't they act like it? You're probably just sad and depressed because you don't know anyone, but I'm sure, that can soon change. As hybrid said, just be yourself.

Go up to a girl and be like "Hi, my name is _______. What's your name?" Old things to say, but it really works. :D And besides, you need to get over your shyness sooner or later. Why not start now?

[XxaznskoolgurlxX]

thanks!! you guys rock!! and sorry for typing weird...thanks again!!

[inthemudhole]

Yep, I agree with Hybrid.

[XxBeExOHxX]

loser, cant make friends, HA.

[sunissed14127]

See, you're more happier in school because you have friends there and not in scouts.

You shouldn't try so hard to fit in. You've probably heard before but be yourself! No one wants to be friends with fake people. Honestly, just say hello to everyone and at least have one conversation with them. If you guys share at least one interest, hey you can be friends with them! But remember to be yourself!

ditto on that.

[MeanBastard]

Everyone here is wrong. You cannot make friends by being yourself. You already are yourself and you are friendless. You have to conform to other people. Two sets of rules
Guy
Wear super baggy pants and sag to your knees. Wear a doorag. Listen to rap in class and.... hell just everywhere. Learn to dance and pimp every girl in a 2 mile radius.
Girl
Wear super tight cloths and thongs. Pull your thong so it is visible. Super visible. Wear a shirt thats so short its showing the bottom part of your bra.

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