Talking on the phone, with someone u just met |
 Jul 13 2004, 01:12 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful  Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124  |
How do u talk to someone on the phone u just met and know nothing about , do i just call and say hi,and go from there? iono my past relationships were with people i atleast somewhat knew.... anyone wanna help ? im phoen talk retarded :P
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Jul 13 2004, 01:42 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
lol i did tht before...
when i was dating my ex, he introduced me to his friend on the fone: me: hi ex's friend: hi (silence then you can hear the fone moving around) ex: hey (hear ex's friend in the background say "she sounds cool man" lol then ex came back on the fone. Then i was like *hmm...he sounds cool..lol* so I went to my ex's friend xanga and found his sn. started talkin to him online then i got him # then after skool on a friday (yes i remember perfectly) i was bored cause i was walking to the bus so i called him up and we talked for like a hour or so...lol yup.. Now hes my sweet bf XD Im so happy i made tht call..lol I love my bf |
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Jul 13 2004, 01:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,051 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,264 |
Hmmm... that's a good question.
I'm not really sure, because I've never done that before... 
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Jul 13 2004, 04:16 PM
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 lil azn supermodel... =] Group: Member Posts: 461 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,841 |
hmm i usually say hi n then lyk go from there, i usually end up tellin funny stories bout old friends that were tru lol
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Jul 13 2004, 05:58 PM
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 baby, be good to me Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,358 |
I just met a guy and we are talking on the phone! What a coincidence. I met him at a party and he calls me a lot. Mainly we just talk about what's going on in our summer lives and once we get on a certain topic we go into other things. Like say I bring up that I went to the CD store today..then he asks oh really what do you like to listen to? Things like that..it just has to flow.
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Jul 13 2004, 06:02 PM
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aBABYmomma Group: Member Posts: 82 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,380 |
QUOTE(DrEaMgUy2K1 @ Jul 13 2004, 1:12 PM) How do u talk to someone on the phone u just met and know nothing about , do i just call and say hi,and go from there? iono my past relationships were with people i atleast somewhat knew.... anyone wanna help ? im phoen talk retarded :P Yeah you can call and say.. "hey its me so and so.. I was callin to say hi!!".. "so whatcha up to..." then ask about they're day and what not.. and it should flow from there!! thats how i met my man.. through a friend over the phone... and we've been together since then... 2years&8months... |
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Jul 13 2004, 11:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
don't worry, once u get started on the conversation (get past saying hi and the awkward silence) it'll keep flowing. start off with simple stuff like what school do you go to, interests, friends, sports, whatever. tell funny stories (like someone above mentioned)- it helps break the ice and make the convos much friendlier!
best of luck~ 
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Jul 13 2004, 11:13 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
err no i dont think i've done that b4
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Jul 14 2004, 12:47 AM
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 DefJam Gangsta Inc Group: Member Posts: 914 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,652 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Jul 14 2004, 2:42 AM) lol i did tht before... when i was dating my ex, he introduced me to his friend on the fone: me: hi ex's friend: hi (silence then you can hear the fone moving around) ex: hey (hear ex's friend in the background say "she sounds cool man" lol then ex came back on the fone. Then i was like *hmm...he sounds cool..lol* so I went to my ex's friend xanga and found his sn. started talkin to him online then i got him # then after skool on a friday (yes i remember perfectly) i was bored cause i was walking to the bus so i called him up and we talked for like a hour or so...lol yup.. Now hes my sweet bf XD Im so happy i made tht call..lol I love my bf Greetings!! tat was so swweett!! anyway, yeah i did somewat like tat but i guess i just stick to being frens all along.. they wasn't intrested in me i guess.. LOL  CHEERS CB!! |
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Jul 14 2004, 01:47 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,611 |
i would just ask tons of questions try to learn everything u can about him, i talked to this guis on aim for like hours he sounded really cute but i kept askin question he was like 'why do u keep askin questions bout me?' i was lik ei wanna no more bout u" so he was like "okay then how bout u ask one question then i ask one" i was like alright!! it was tons of funn.. but anyways.. ASK QUeSTIONS FIRST!!
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Jul 14 2004, 09:49 AM
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 I can't believe its not "Ryan" Group: Member Posts: 1,981 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,368 |
I actually text message them first...then i start to get into the voice conversations...
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Jul 14 2004, 10:06 AM
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 Don't wake ghostie. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,546 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,405 |
yea its best to get to know someone before talking on the phone.
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Jul 14 2004, 10:17 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Blah. I haven't done it too much.. I usually just talk about my friends.. I end up saying "wow.." and "yeah.." a lot.. yeah..
I hate talking on the phone, anyway. |
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Jul 14 2004, 10:45 AM
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 pain is good Group: Member Posts: 812 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,846 |
juss call em up nd say hi or watevah....the thing will juss go from there
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Jul 14 2004, 10:56 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
umm.. just introduce yourself and just talk about random things.
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Jul 14 2004, 01:06 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
o_O umms.. im not too sure just talk to get to noe the other person
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Jul 14 2004, 08:46 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,681 |
just say thinqs like wsup, what school you qo to, whatchu like to do, etc. qet to know him better & maybe thinqs will work out qood & you'll see what happens
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Jul 14 2004, 08:54 PM
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 . . someday* Group: Member Posts: 227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,275 |
i`ve never done that before.. but i guess u can just say hi and ask them some questions, like how was their day..
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Jul 14 2004, 10:54 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
call .. say hi .. talk bout stuff that goes on around school .. lol .. yeah and then talk about whatever you think of xP
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Jul 15 2004, 12:11 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Yeah. Just be random...
It's kinda awkward at times. |
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Jul 15 2004, 12:15 AM
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 pixel hybrid Group: Member Posts: 6,410 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,081 |
Depends on who you're talking to.
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Aug 9 2004, 08:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,799 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,450 |
hmm yeah just say hi and go from there...ask questions about them....try to get to know them...=]
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Aug 17 2004, 02:08 PM
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 ...jUs CaLL mE tEe... Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,234 |
thatz happened to meeh a couple of tymes. all i did waz call the person or he called meeh....and we jus sorta asked questionz to find out a litol more about each other! and then it went on from there!
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Aug 17 2004, 02:14 PM
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 cheeky Group: Member Posts: 537 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,686 |
i just met this guy and the only communication for us is AIM & our cell phones. but my advice, just talk about ANYTHING. like favorites, random questions (take those questions from those xanga survey things. it helps), past experiences that will crack him up, etc. just go with the flow, so cliche, but it helps. and remember to keep the conversation going.. and if you're interested in him, make sure you get that clear across =)
oh yeah, and don't interrupt him if he's talking.. not good. |
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Aug 17 2004, 02:54 PM
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 WWMD?! - i am from the age of BM 2 Group: Member Posts: 5,308 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,848 |
just call up and be like "hi..i was bored and i remembered i had your number..wanna chat?" that's how i call people..
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