is it true that best friends become lovers?, can it? |
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 Aug 13 2004, 11:17 PM
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i had this guy "best" friend we have been best friend since like 3rd grade but then this year before graduation of 8th grade we had this huge fight. and we didnt talk to each other for 6 months. and like. not talking to him and being by his side made me realized that . well i like him? maybe. one my friends always believed we were going to be lovers one days lol but in my sense of thought i never thought of him as a real guy. well now i do. and i dont know how to tell him that i have feelings for him. but then he made another "best" friend with this another girl. and i have this pretty feeling that deep inside he likes her
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Aug 13 2004, 11:25 PM
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 banned Group: Member Posts: 1,589 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,768 |
mwahahahahahhaahhahaha! AMY I FOUND IT!
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Aug 13 2004, 11:43 PM
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 ~*NEON*~ Group: Member Posts: 195 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,264 |
QUOTE(Yo_Kast_XL @ Aug 13 2004, 11:25 PM) mwahahahahahhaahhahaha! AMY I FOUND IT! huh? ur the guy? |
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Aug 14 2004, 12:07 AM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I do believe that you can fall in love with your guy best friends. Or girl best friend for that matter (if you're a guy here in the girl's locker room). Lol. Once I've fallen in love with one of my best guy friends, and right now we're still together.
 It's kind of awkward at first, when you're best friend becomes someone who's so much closer. But it's worth it.  And for your situation, I think you should tell your friend how you feel. Regardless, if he might have feelings for his new girl best friend. I think he'd want to know. And who knows, maybe your feelings for him are mutual. 
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Aug 14 2004, 12:12 AM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Hm.
Alec was one of my really good friends. Now we're going out. It can happen, and I personally think it's best, because you already know the person pretty well, and you know how they'll react to things. *shrugs* |
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Aug 14 2004, 10:23 AM
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i like ur duckies Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,887 |
I think you should tell him that you like him, because then you'll know if he likes you too. It's better if you end up with your best friend, because then you know each other and you're really close already.
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Aug 14 2004, 10:34 AM
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 I do it so good, I don't need nobody else! Group: Member Posts: 644 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,752 |
yea u already knoe him so yall will become closer than ever
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Aug 14 2004, 11:28 AM
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banned Group: Member Posts: 1,589 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,768 |
QUOTE(truluvis4eva @ Aug 13 2004, 11:43 PM) huh? ur the guy? ugh no! im not the guy! lol! |
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Aug 14 2004, 01:10 PM
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yea you can but then again it doesnt always happen that way.
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Aug 14 2004, 01:15 PM
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I think it's better to start a good friendship with a guy before going out with him, because you already know how he is when he's in a good mood, or a bad mood.
Just tell him how you feel. And that you're sorry. If he blows you off, then he's a jerk. At least you had the guts to do that. |
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Aug 14 2004, 01:33 PM
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dont forget to smiLe today Group: Member Posts: 336 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,095 |
ouch. that sorta happened to me but not the fight. anyway maybe yo udo like him ;] hope youguys make up.
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Aug 14 2004, 01:47 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Yes its possible. Happenned to me twice and I'm still with one of them.
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Aug 14 2004, 02:04 PM
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its not ALWAYS true, but its possible
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Aug 14 2004, 02:32 PM
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 Tina + Tommy Group: Member Posts: 427 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,575 |
it usually happens like that. two best friends being so close to each other for so long. its realli hard not to have feelings for the other. you should talk it out with him.
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Aug 14 2004, 04:34 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
its definatly possible. if u dont think so, well im a good example here. Me and my bf were best friends before and now wer are lovers & best friends. its cool
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Aug 14 2004, 04:41 PM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
Aaaww... well if u truly want to know if he likes u, u should tell him, at leat you'll find out sooner rather than later. Because the longer u wait, the more u'll like him and the more it'll hurt u that he might like his new best friend. Bleh.. But you should try to fix w/e fight happened and he should try to fix it too. I never had a guy best friend.. o oo except maybe in the first grade.. SOOO long ago
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Aug 14 2004, 05:13 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
yea best friends can be lovers
but it really sucks if things dont work out, haha tryin to ignore ur ex when they are ur best friend...thats hard i know T_T |
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Aug 14 2004, 05:18 PM
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 and they say imitation is flattering Group: Member Posts: 1,337 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 27,269 |
It's not really rare. But it doesn't work out all the time, either...
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Aug 14 2004, 05:38 PM
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 Effing classic. Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,183 |
in most cases a girl who goes for her guy best friend has something to loose...their 'friend' relationship. seeing as you dont have the possibility of loosing him as a friend because as you said you were in a fight or something, you might as well do it. i figure...you only live once, so why not take some risks in life? the worst he can say is no...and if he does say that...then you deserve better than him. it's your choice and only you can make the decision..we are just trying to give you some help
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Aug 14 2004, 05:57 PM
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its possible, i mean personally i think best friends becoming a couple might be better than regular friends? because you know each other pretty well enough already, but you have to think if its worth it or not telling him how you feel cause its a fact things wont be the same anymore
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Aug 14 2004, 06:20 PM
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 潮州人 forever =) Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,877 |
it can happen
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Aug 14 2004, 06:30 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
it happened to me twice
 but i didnt go wit it.. lol im afraid of the consequences
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Aug 14 2004, 06:38 PM
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it can be possible....
i think thats the way i want to meet a grl.... i duno i find it sexier that way |
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Aug 14 2004, 06:45 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 32 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,929 |
with love, ANYTHiNG is possible.
it happened to me, and im happier than ever.
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Aug 14 2004, 06:50 PM
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with love.. anything's possible. trust me.
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