Do Your Parents Know?, Do they know and/or care that you have a boyfriend? |
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 Jun 9 2004, 09:27 PM
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 hi. call me linda.  Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475  |
i've only had one boyfriend, and my parents didn't really know. i think my mom had some idea because i would talk about him constantly and whatnot, but she surprisingly didn't say anything. and she somehow picked up on when we broke up because she was like, "oh you don't need him..." but i've never told them anything... besides, my parents would prefer that i marry another chinese guy
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Jun 9 2004, 09:33 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yea mai parents noe about mai bf. im startin to think that i shouldnt of told em cuz mai dad makes fun of me about it n he tells all hys frenz, n mai mom starts askin me a billion questions about him. mai god they annoy me. mai mom is at the point where she wants to meet him but lately shes been getting me angry so im kinda getting back at her by not letting her meet him, i mean im not afraid to introduce him, im jus tryin to get her pissed cuz she gets me pissed all da time
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Jun 9 2004, 09:58 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
of course. i get along with my parents very well and i tell them plenty of things about my life. i never go into the personal details of course but they certainly know a lot about me.
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Jun 9 2004, 09:59 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
my mom knows and my dad knows, my mom is very close to my bf. but not my dad thats just becuz my parents r divorced so they havent had that bonding experience yet..
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Jun 9 2004, 10:11 PM
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 Mau Group: Member Posts: 72 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,813 |
hee hee, NO!
 i'd probably be dead. if you're a filipina, you should know. the teasing, the lectures, and all that(well atleast i get that type of stuff) my first boifriend(which i'm still dating  ), my parents don't know about him, and i've been dating him for about 5 or 6 months already. my rents say that i can't have a boifriend till i'm like 25  ........HA YEA RITE! NEVER!!!!!! but then my mom said that i could have a boifriend, as long as she met him, but i think my mom was juss being nice cuz we were in front of my mom's co-workers...
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Jun 10 2004, 08:25 AM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
i tell everything to them they dont care well they give me stupid lectures that i already know
they ask me... stuff like . . . be careful. he might rape u blah blah blah.. dont ever have sex with him blah blah . . gosh parents sometimes dont understand their daughters!! lols |
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Jun 10 2004, 08:27 AM
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 Your Fired! Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,713 |
aHem...my boyfriends... well call me. when they call at a time my mom is at home...uMmm...you get the point
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Jun 10 2004, 11:45 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(anqel_r0h @ Jun 10 2004, 8:25 AM) i tell everything to them they dont care well they give me stupid lectures that i already know they ask me... stuff like . . . be careful. he might rape u blah blah blah.. dont ever have sex with him blah blah . . gosh parents sometimes dont understand their daughters!! lols omg.. yess!!.. they'd never understand. |
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Jun 10 2004, 12:59 PM
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 Mummified Group: Member Posts: 453 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,268 |
QUOTE(vehvih @ Jun 10 2004, 2:39 AM) even if i do not have a boyfriend.. my mother does not want me to have one  not until college  i am a filipina that is why.. but she was raised by my grandmomma.. who is fine with her sons and daughters to have girlfriends and boyfriends anytime  i'm just thirteen; and some day i'm going to kill my mama   youre 13?? are you in the US? my family knows about my bf but they dont like the fact that im in a relationship right now. everybody knows but they are always telling me that i am too young for this blah blah blah..
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Jun 10 2004, 01:01 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
My parents know about my boyfriend. He comes over all the time and they all get along with each other. *wedding bells*
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Jun 11 2004, 06:44 AM
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 Im bouncin off the walls again Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,995 |
my parents know, but his dont cuz they hate me
   but my parents love him...and so do i 
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Jun 11 2004, 07:59 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 141 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,235 |
I don't tell my parents anymore becuz i'm only 13...!!! they'll start lecturing me and asking gazillion questions...when i told her about my last bf she grounded me and didn't let me go out wit my friends anymore..
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Jun 11 2004, 10:39 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,686 |
hmm...i dont really tell me parents anything about my boyfriends. well one. ive only had one. i know im sad but still. BUT i do admire people who are open to their parents. i think its awesome you can have such an open relationship with them and thats something you can c h e r i s h .
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Jun 11 2004, 10:57 PM
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 punk x3 Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,260 |
my parentz have no idea...
 if they did, they would kill him then mee ahh! . blah ha ha . my mom would be hella[I] pissed if she knew but if my dad found out... xinfinity...ugh. reasons my mom + dad [mostly my mom] wouldnt approve of my current boyfriend...1. stole a laptop...blah no comment on that 2. [mom]thinks he has a broken family...uh.... 3. he a bad boy 4. [mom]thinkz hez a bad person 5. his cousin's mom lied about payin 2 my mommie n tha principal[a nun] 6. thinkz the bad traitz run in the family... i need a better boyfriend....shh....
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Jun 12 2004, 10:43 AM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
i think they do. they dont want me to have them but i still do. no one is stopping me
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Jun 12 2004, 11:00 AM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
no way
my mother pry's through everything i do all of the time its so fricking gay im not gonna tell her nething. pssh maybe if she let me do a little more things maybe id tell her a few more things. shes to fricking over protective and if my family did find out my sister and brothers wouldn't shutup teasing me. my parents would to. i won't tell them anything also exentrually they find out on there own when a guy calls me a lot or stuff but normally to go out and hang out wit them i lie to my parents and say im going with firends =D |
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Jun 12 2004, 10:44 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
Eh, I'm on boyfriend #1.. mom sort of knows, dad is clueless.. They don't know how serious it is.. I mean, we haven't KISSED yet.. just it's more serious than they think.. So, no I do not tell them much of anything anymore. *shrugs*
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Jun 12 2004, 11:32 PM
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 need happy pills? Group: Member Posts: 419 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,946 |
Well I don't because my parents don't want me dating and stuff..if my dad found out he wouldn't care and probably kick me out of hte house,I rememver the first time I had a boyfriend my mom kept asking questiosn adn my brother kept telling them all these stuff he learned from his sis,ne ways the good thing was that his sis was friends with my bro so I can get back at him.....I remembered that my mom yelled at me for having a bf..and she said mgiht as well drop school...cuz she was mad at me for not doing my homework..and always go out..
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Jun 12 2004, 11:41 PM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
No I don't..
But once my brother.. got REALLY REALLY pissed off and then he told my mom about my ex.. T_T but then she didn't believe him because he lies all the time 
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Jun 13 2004, 12:11 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,363 |
ya im asian wellz i noe abouta khmer parents..we young asians cant have a bf yet cuz our parents think we're too young but sumtimes we have bf and dont tell our parents..
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Jun 13 2004, 12:46 AM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
no. im too scared to tell my parents. one time, my mom caught me with my bf and got really pissed and tried to force me to never see him again.
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Jun 13 2004, 12:50 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Well .. I'm 12 .. my mom thinks a BF will interfere with my .. studies .. so yeah i can get a bf in COLLEGE .. haha .. well i dont listen to that rule :] so of course i never tell my parentz
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Jun 14 2004, 07:01 PM
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 i will be LOVED, some day. Group: Member Posts: 238 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 263 |
UHhmm.. No, they don't.. Although I can tell them anything, I can't tell them I have a boyfriend because I'm not allowed to have one.. I've only had 2 including the one I have right now... So i guess it's cool..
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Jun 14 2004, 07:10 PM
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 black prep numba 1 Group: Member Posts: 519 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,144 |
I'd never tell my dad but I told my mom about my b/f now and all she did was make jokes and sing that K.I.S.S.I.N.G song over and over! And then demanded that I'd call him right then so she could talk to his mom!! (It was 10 o' clock at night) But everythings cool un till my dad finds out he doesn't want me to date till I'm like 55 and then we have to date with other people!!
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Jun 14 2004, 07:46 PM
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 Im gonna eat you! Group: Member Posts: 371 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,383 |
naw, i dont feel like telling them - i dont really know if they would care or not, but they would probaly wanna meet them or watever so i just dont tell them
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