Do Your Parents Know?, Do they know and/or care that you have a boyfriend? |
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 Apr 8 2005, 09:54 PM
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**I'm O sO fLy**  Group: Member Posts: 304 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,281  |
i'm not allowed to have boyfriends But i have one now and i just went outside to see him today i told my parents i was going out to the weight room but it was a lie... I had to see him I miss him and we are on spring break so it sucks
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Apr 9 2005, 05:31 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 15 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,053 |
they think itz normal
 to have bfs 
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Apr 12 2005, 04:04 PM
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 princess ariel Group: Member Posts: 322 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,481 |
they dont care.
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Apr 12 2005, 04:15 PM
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 HAAAAAAAA. Group: Member Posts: 4,472 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,068 |
I never tell my parents. They think I never went out with a guy before, but the truth is, I went out with 5 guys already. My parents are so racist, they only let me date Chinese guys just because my family is Chinese, wtf, that's why I never tell them, besides, I never dated a Chinese guy before.
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Apr 12 2005, 04:17 PM
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 Hey People Group: Member Posts: 199 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,295 |
well i don't like to my parents about love and i never had a boyfriend but my wants me to marry a asian but i totaly purfer occasion. There just hotter!
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Apr 12 2005, 04:19 PM
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 if you feel like dying; you might wanna sing Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,836 |
i nvr really asked if i could date or not. because ..
1. theymight not want me to. but if i wanted to, i`d have to lie & stuff 2. they might get obsessed with him and be like "oh bring him over to dinner" and fuss over like that. embarrassing. so yeah. |
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Apr 12 2005, 04:23 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Of course they know. My boyfriend is a big part of my life and he needed to meet the family. Hell, I met his before we even started dating
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Apr 12 2005, 07:34 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
QUOTE(krnxswat @ Jun 9 2004, 5:36 AM) Of course I tell my parents about my boyfriends. I even like to bring them for dinner sometimes   lol, good for you, I'd be WAY too embarrised to tell my parents about my bf, that is...if I had one lol ...I jsut so would not tell them, it' sjsut not something we talk about *shrugs*
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Apr 12 2005, 07:36 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 349 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,513 |
My dad knows and he cares and hates it, I'm 17 and he acts like I'm 10
I hate it!!! But he's calmed down a lot, cuz he knows I'm not gonna leave him just to please my dad, cuz my bf's a really great guy! My dad has come to terms, and well if he can't accept the relationship, thats his problem, not mine. |
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Apr 12 2005, 08:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,692 |
I have never had one, but even if I ever do have one, I would never tell my parents. Though I don't have to worry about it that much I guess, telling from my avatar picture, who would want someone this hideous?
My mom is always saying how ugly I am and crap. Then she keeps on going and trying to find out whether I have a boyfriend or not. What's the point? She just insults my appearance and all, all the time. She believes that I shouldn't even date till I graduate from university o.O |
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Apr 12 2005, 10:20 PM
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 atleast pretend to care? Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 104,176 |
Yeaa.. my parents know abt my bf.. and they care.. A LOTTT`.. they're fine with it as long as it doesn't affect my studies..
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Apr 12 2005, 11:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 87 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 59,816 |
I've never had a boyfriend but my parents don't care to the extent that they have to. Like, they'll tell me not to be like seriously committed if you've only been going out for two weeks.
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Apr 13 2005, 12:08 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 100,476 |
my mom WARNED me not to have bf until i finish my studies!
but i dont know if im obedient enough to respect her...OMG |
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Apr 13 2005, 01:59 AM
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Ehh, I don't have a bf, but they probably wouldn't really care.
Well, maybe my dad. He would be like, "wtf are you doing? You should study more...blahblahblahblah.." |
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Apr 16 2005, 09:27 PM
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I tell my mom stuff, I don't tell my dad. My dad wants to know everything about me, but the only thing that he doesn't know is about boys, I can't really talk to my dad about that and since my parents are divorced and I can only see my mom sometimes, I don't talk a lot to my mom. My dad has VERY high standards for a boy, he wants them all to be Asian because I am :/
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Apr 18 2005, 07:06 PM
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 je suis une noix de coco <33 Group: Member Posts: 1,242 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,768 |
my parents don't like me dating...but i still do anyways
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Apr 18 2005, 07:06 PM
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 high hopes for the cutter Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,714 |
my parents know but i doubt they care i hardly talk to them.
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Apr 18 2005, 07:20 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 840 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,927 |
No.......i don't think they've ever found out about any of my bfs..............my parents haven't really said anything about if they prefer me to date or marry an Asian. But, I prefer to date and marry an Asian, preferably one that can speak Cantonese and English well......as in its understandable!!
However, there was this guy frd of mine that Dad used to tease me about. There was this once when dad was driving me to tuition, and my guy frd's car was infront of ours, before I got out of the car, dad yelled out "Hey! remember to concentrate on ur tuition lesson, don't spend all ur time google eyed staring at him in class!!" I was like "WTH?!?!?!?!!?!?!?!?  " Dad must've thought I liked him or sumthin..................=_="........ But besides that incident with my frd, I don't think he realises anything else..... 
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Apr 18 2005, 08:24 PM
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t-t-t-toyaaa Group: Official Member Posts: 19,821 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,270 |
if i was with someone i wouldnt really tell them anyway..
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Apr 18 2005, 10:29 PM
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 insanitys contagious. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,210 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 99,707 |
Hell no , not for now.
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Apr 19 2005, 08:58 AM
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My parents care about whom I am dating, yes, they actually dont like the fact that there little girl (psshh actually 20) is dating boys. But they have come to terms with it a little and when I am in a serious a relationship my parents are the first ones to know about it
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Apr 19 2005, 10:10 AM
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 The windmills of your mind .. Group: Member Posts: 1,317 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 83,699 |
My parents have known for about 3 years lol, they have met his parents and they come over to see us each summer and we spend easter with them lol. My dad is my boyfriends dad's best friend lol, they knew each other when they were kids which is kinda weird but i met my current boyfriend when my dad invited his parents to stay with us lol.
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Apr 19 2005, 05:23 PM
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 theres no i in slut...but there is a u Group: Member Posts: 208 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 86,257 |
my mom knows that i have a boifriend and she sorta cares...not really but than again she does and my dad doesnt know...he doesnt live with us
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Apr 25 2005, 08:00 PM
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my dad is veryy protective of my sister and i .. and we arent allowed to date until we're 16 .. my sisters 19 and she just told me she did it behind their backs .. thats whut i do .. but i know that im gonna get caught one day .. which sucks if that happens .
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Apr 25 2005, 08:00 PM
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 Loser Group: Member Posts: 1,101 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,558 |
Whenever I hang out with guys, my mom thinks they're gonna gang-rape me or something, so I have to go behind their backs... as for dating, Still don't have one, so yeah ^^;; but it'd most probably be undercover...
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