Do Your Parents Know?, Do they know and/or care that you have a boyfriend? |
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 Jul 28 2004, 12:45 AM
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 ...Oon sro lanh Bong...  Group: Member Posts: 114 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,944  |
i neva tell my family (mom, grandma, great grandma, uncle, and aunt) ne thing unless its for skool or a b-day party or band but crushes, grades, bfs (thats is, WHEN i get one, lol) i neva tell them. but my aunt on the otha hand, she doesnt care if i get a bf just as long as i tell her and not lie about it and just keep my studies/grades up. but my otha family not including my aunt doesn't really want me to have a bf, i think...not sure though. lol. but they do probably want me to marry an azn but i don't think thats gonna happen cuz i just don't. lol. plus...I'M gonna pick who i'm gonna marry cuz sometimes the family or mom picks the husband but thats is NOT gonna happen to me. lol.
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Jul 28 2004, 01:08 AM
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 0nethr3e Group: Member Posts: 200 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,851 |
i try not to tell em about my bf's or crushes or things like that. it jus feels weird. but they're cool wit my guy friends..i jus dont think i'd be able to tell em that my very close guy friend that comes ova sometimes ..is the guy that i have a crush on!
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Jul 28 2004, 01:20 AM
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 --ALL EYEZ ON MEEH-- Group: Member Posts: 65 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,473 |
No way and it'll stay lyadat
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Jul 28 2004, 04:23 AM
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 ~Dandie Andie~ Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,644 |
.........I tell them...........is that bad? LoL. They dont really care. Um...when I told my mom about my first boyfriend she was like, "Oh" that was it, because the guy I was with I knew since I was in Kindergarten. But she never seen him before really...*I know...weird* and my dad just asked fatherly questions like: Is he chinese? How old is he? What's his name? Where does he live? And I live in a small town in TX so if I tell my dad what street he'd like...know exactly where he is...but my dad isnt the type where if my bf broke up with me, which he did, like go out and hunt him down and like...run him over with his car or something. When I got dumped my mom was like, "Oh, you'll find someone else" and my dad was like, "...whatever, he was ugly anyways" which he really was. So...THE END. LoL.
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Aug 12 2004, 08:19 PM
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 forget me not.. Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,281 |
i dont have a boyfriend, but if i did, i would NEVER tell my parents! they just dont understand...
so how bout you? |
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Aug 12 2004, 08:21 PM
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 ¢¾ Wanting it. ¢¾ Group: Member Posts: 2,060 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,234 |
ya when i had 1 they didnt care
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Aug 12 2004, 08:21 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 866 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,809 |
how come they wouldnt understand?? my parents know
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Aug 12 2004, 08:22 PM
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forget me not.. Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,281 |
well my parents think its innapropriate at my age
but im 13!!!!!! |
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Aug 12 2004, 08:23 PM
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 bang bang! my baby shot me down! Group: Member Posts: 754 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 23,848 |
i never told my parents...but she found out some how! but by then we had broken up so i said i didnt have one.
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Aug 12 2004, 08:25 PM
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forget me not.. Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,281 |
my mom says none till im 15
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Aug 12 2004, 08:30 PM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
yea they noe. wat they dont noe is that i started dating him b4 i waz allowed to start dating. but yea they do care that i have one. bleh they suck. they wont let me do anything with him and stuff like that cuz they dont trust me.
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Aug 12 2004, 08:31 PM
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forget me not.. Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,281 |
haha i know how u feel =/
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Aug 12 2004, 08:41 PM
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 GREEENROCKS Group: Member Posts: 1,393 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,624 |
i'm not sure. it was a joke that i can't have one...but we'll see..muhahhaa.
 ...hehe
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Aug 12 2004, 08:42 PM
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 Miggy :) Group: Member Posts: 437 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 29,164 |
They know. And they don't care.
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Aug 12 2004, 08:47 PM
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 i bought your boyfriend Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,047 |
I always tell my parents whenever I have a boyfriend... they are fine with it.
Well there was one they didnt know about, but only because I was afraid they woud not approve. Doesn't really matter though because it only lasted 3 days! (haha I remember all those unserious relationships) |
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Aug 12 2004, 08:49 PM
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 aint the world lovely? Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 19,602 |
my mom only knew about one of my boyfriends. and even then, she didnt know till halfway into our relationship.
my dad on the otherhand never knew or never cared. i dont like telling my mom about my bfs
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Aug 12 2004, 08:50 PM
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i cant really vote here becuase they dont know, but they dont care, but they DO care becuase of what my sister has done in the past with guys.....and if I tell them my mom will like make fun of me in a teasing way and I dont really like that so I might not tell them yet LoL
so I guess Im in between o.O |
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Aug 12 2004, 09:07 PM
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forget me not.. Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,281 |
=] ic....well i had a boyfriend in kindergrden, but then again, that was when parents thought it was the cutest thing.
  but now....its like woah, they r all freaked out. =/
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Aug 12 2004, 10:50 PM
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 Mz Nina Nikole Group: Member Posts: 1,343 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,273 |
they know i have a bf, and no they dont care....( i dont think they do)
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Aug 12 2004, 10:50 PM
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 The Used Group: Member Posts: 265 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,501 |
they care. they dont care as long as he dosent distract me. from school and ****. cuz my parents are just f**king obsessed with school.
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Aug 12 2004, 10:51 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,964 |
haha. that reminds me. i had 3 boyfriends in kindergarten.
anyway...if i have a new boyfriend...i don't tell my mom but somehow she'll find out...like i'll leave a note from my friend about him in my lunch bag and the next day she'll be packing my lunch and find it. osmething like that. anyway...she doesn't really care. just kinda says "oh. who is he?" i tell her. end of conversation. me and my mom don't really communicate that much. |
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Aug 12 2004, 10:54 PM
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 BANNED Group: Member Posts: 2,419 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,387 |
My parents don't care if I have a boyfriend. My mom is actually the one wanting me to date. LMAO she's wanted me to have a boyfriend since I was like 12.
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Aug 12 2004, 11:29 PM
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forget me not.. Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,281 |
lmao i wish my mom was like that
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Aug 12 2004, 11:31 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 7 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 39,322 |
my mom always knows about my b/f's. she doesn't care as long as he isn't like, 2 years older then me. meh.
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Aug 12 2004, 11:38 PM
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Brie Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 10,172 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,548 |
I have one.
My parents cared.. big time. When I finally told them, they were utterly and completely pissed. But they said if I don't take it any farther than I have.. they're OKAY with it. |
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